My girlfriend said I don t want these, how can I reply with high emotional intelligence?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-22
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The girlfriend said that he didn't want this, which means that he doesn't like what you bought with him, and told you not to buy it for him, so you tell him if you don't like what you bought well, you can accept it, even if I buy it this time, I won't buy it next time, and let you buy it yourself if you like it in the future. Of course, you have to thin down some words from relatives who like girlfriends, and girlfriends will be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You say, you don't want this, but I want the best for you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People with high EQ give money directly, but if they really have high EQ, they won't buy her what they don't like.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can her, yes I know you don't want this, but I just want to give you this, what others have, I want you to have, what others don't have, I want you to have.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My girlfriend said I don't want these, how to reply with high emotional intelligence, in fact, I personally think that girls don't want much, just need a man to really love her, spoil her, and be able to get to what he wants.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When your girlfriend tells you that she doesn't want this, you can reply to him and say, I know this, because it's enough for you to have me.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can say that it's just that what I have at the moment, all for you, and I will do my best to give you what you want.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should reflect on why you gave it to him, but he said he didn't want it, whether he wanted you as a boyfriend or wanted to change you, you have to figure out these two points.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can reply to him, you don't want this, what do you want.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In the process of chasing girls, what boys are most afraid of is preparing to buy breakfast for girls, give girls umbrellas in the rain, order takeout for girls, and prepare birthday gifts for girls. When I heard the girl say to herself, I didn't need to. Because boys will think that the girl's acceptance of her kindness is to accept herself, and the girl's saying that she doesn't need it is a refusal.

    First, the girl said that she didn't need it

    1. The girl is angry. Sometimes a girl may have something to call you, but you didn't answer, and she was anxious at that time. Wait until you see the girl's ** and then call her and ask her what's wrong, do you need help?

    She will tell you no, the matter is settled, and if you ask her again, of course she won't tell you anything. In this case, the girl is actually angry with you, then you need to call ** and ask carefully, not that she says it's okay, you just say that it's over, but you have to coax it well. But next time, don't be able to pick her up**.

    2. Girls feel sorry for your trouble. If the girl is working overtime, and it rains at this time, and she comes home without an umbrella, then you offer to pick her up and give her an umbrella. The girl who really feels sorry for you may feel that this is too troublesome, and she thinks that she can just take a taxi home, or that she will be very happy if you insist on picking her up.

    But it is also possible that the girl is polite to you and rejects you because she thinks it is unnecessary.

    3. The girl rejects you. A girl may not be so polite to the person she likes, but she will keep a distance from the person she doesn't like, and she will say no if you propose to do anything for her, for fear of bothering you, and she will have to return the favor in the future.

    1. What are you doing politely with me, it's my honor to serve you, and allow me to do things for you!

    2. I know that you feel sorry for me, but I also want to pay a little for you, otherwise how can you see the shining point in me?

    3. If you really don't want to go, then invite me to a meal another day, so that we can settle down!

    4. When did you become so polite, what does it matter, don't say these words.

    5. What is not used? I'm going to use it.

    In the end, the boys insist on doing it regardless of whether the girl says no or not, which can also show your sincerity. Otherwise, the girl will think, look, I just said a polite word to him, and it's not reliable at all. But for girls who resolutely reject you, there may not be a need to insist.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What's the matter, my little baby.

    At this time, my boyfriend asked me what was wrong, my little darling, and this sentence had a feeling of spoiling and a feeling of asking me what I wanted.

    It can be shown that sometimes when a woman says she hates it, it is not really because she hates the man, but because she wants something. But I'm embarrassed to say it, so I told men like this, men don't understand at this time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello dear! We'll be happy to answer for you.

    The meaning of the girl's reply depends on what kind of topic you talked about at the time, if you start the topic with a question sentence, then the topic is over, it's time to look for the next topic, if you are telling the other party another story, this "uh-huh" means that you can continue to say, I'm listening. "Well, ah, oh" is called a cold triple strike in our schedule chat, why do you say that, because she is expressing that your topic may not be what the other person wants, which means that you should change the topic. If the other party posts these and you talk about other topics, and the other party replies well, then we can continue to chat, but we must learn to take the initiative to end the topic, and never wait until the other party ends the topic with words like "I went to take a shower".

    1. Change the topic of the chat.

    The meaning of the girl's reply depends on what kind of topic you talked about at the time, if you start the topic with a question sentence, then the topic is over, it's time to look for the next topic, if you are telling the other party another story, this "uh-huh" means that you can continue to say, I'm listening.

    Second, well, people in the same way, do you want to go through a few tricks together?

    If there is no other art for a girl to reply to you with words like "uh-huh", even if it is habitual words, then you can reply to a girl with similar words, of course, you must add some humorous topics at the end to extend the topic, so that the girl is more acceptable.

    3. Are you busy? I'll look for you when I'm empty.

    Even if the girl is very busy, she can't let go of you, chatting with you and replying "uh-huh" seems to be a kind of care that the girl cares about you, but in fact it is likely to lead to a change in the girl's opinion of you. Imagine how blind you are, you don't even know that the girl is so busy that she doesn't know that she keeps her feet on the ground, but keeps pulling her to chat with you, once or twice, it's okay, but the girl may not be able to bear it if there are more times.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can talk to her about other topics if you have nothing to do.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Good afternoon, dear<>

    We can reply 1I know the uncertainty of everything, I know it's not necessarily, but I can make him better and better.

    2.You have to believe in your own ability in everything, what if you do it yourself? Therefore, things that are not necessarily necessary will become certain possibilities.

    3.Although this is not necessarily the case, I know deep down that as long as I have enough ability and all the confidence I have, I will be able to do it. [Compare hearts].

    The girl said that it is not necessarily high emotional intelligence to reply.

    Good afternoon, dear<>

    We can reply with a shed 1I know the uncertainty of everything, I know it's not necessarily, but I can make him better and better. 2.

    You have to believe in your own ability in everything, what if you do it yourself? Therefore, things that are not necessarily necessary will become certain possibilities. 3.

    Although it may not be necessary to do this, I deeply know that as long as I have sufficient ability and let myself have the confidence of all my relatives, I will definitely be able to do it. [Compare hearts].

    4.Nothing is inevitable, as long as you work hard, you will definitely succeed.

    The girl said that it is not necessarily that she is not confident in herself, she needs encouragement, so we can give her some comfort.

    Finally, you need to combine the context, so that you can chat and send screenshots to the teacher.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello dear, I'm glad to answer for you! 1. I don't know how to talk to the girl about work, and the girl said that her work is not very smooth. Boys:

    That must be annoying. Girl: "It's fine."

    This situation is actually similar to the situation of "I can say it badly, but the stool is not allowed to say it badly", the sister paper just complained simply, and I don't want you to go along with it. At this time, you can use humor to change the topic and talk about something else. 2. Boys:

    Did you miss me. Girl: "It's okay!

    This kind of imbalance situation The girl said that it was okay, but in fact, she was a little shy, and she didn't dare to say what she meant by missing you directly. In this case, when replying humorously, you should pay attention to the girl's face, and don't hurt her face. 3. Boys:

    Well! I didn't come back so late, so I won't disturb your rest! "Girl:

    Pretty good! Note that in this case, the girl's reply to your "okay" is done in response to your "coming back so late", not to your "not disturbing your rest", which shows that the girl still wants to talk to you. If you still want to talk and reply humorously, then you can ask her how she was doing tonight.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The girl says no, if you want a reply with high emotional intelligence, you can say to him: sincerity can be used, this is someone else's sincerity, don't waste it. You just need to reply like this, dear, express a kind of sincerity in a funny language, the girl will take a picture of her own Zheng Hechai's impression is very good, simple, not very complicated, such a joke can make him accept it well, he will not refuse too much, no matter what, he is also humble, so you can leave the best impression on him if you are sincere.

    That's it.,Dear.,In the future, in the process of chatting, a little more shouting and funny language.,Naturally, he will be willing to communicate with himself.,And the impression of himself will get better and better.,This is the best style of chatting with girls.,Oh dear<>

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you. 1. Stop loss in time When the girl says that her emotional intelligence is low, it means that the girl is already disgusted with your behavior, and it is useless for you to say any chat skills at this time, otherwise you will be a clown in the eyes of the girl. If you still want to continue to flirt with this girl, you must stop chatting, stop your losses in time, and find an excuse to withdraw your grip

    The boss just asked me for something, let's talk again when it's empty", don't let your attractiveness drop to the freezing point. 2. In fact, there are certain skills in chasing girls, mastering love knowledge and chat skills can save you a lot of detours, and you can also improve your social intuition, and you can easily read the subtext of girls when chatting.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1.It doesn't mean that Wu Yu can't reach some kind of Qingyuan point.

    2.If you want to refute it, just say how not.

    3.And the reputation of the orange state is to be silent, no.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's good, as long as you have a common hobby, a common topic, and a common pursuit, it's no problem to come together.

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