Struggle whether to separate or move on, we are both divorced and have been together for a year?

Tangled whether to separate or continue to go, you said that you are both divorced, together for a year, since you are entangled, then there must be something incompatible between the two of you, I face a lot of feelings, I am persuaded to divide or not disagree, because many things you don't think so well, marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter between two families, if you don't get along well, you will have a very painful life, and you said that you are both divorced, so there will be more contradictions, I think if you want to find someone who meets all aspects, if you don't meet it, continue to live, you will only suffer yourself.

Don't divide. Marriage is a perseverance.

First, don't idealize. Marriage is a compromise in which both parties have to adapt to each other and make concessions on small things.

Second, divorce can become a habit. Separating as soon as there is a contradiction is not the solution to the problem.

Since there must be a contradiction in the entanglement, don't decide whether to separate or continue to walk, you can temporarily separate each other for a period of time, or live separately or travel, in short, don't meet first, calm and calm, ask your heart, what you need, what you don't need, what you want, what you can give each other. What do you want from the other party, and what is acceptable and what is not acceptable.

Torture yourself well, and leave plenty of time and space for the other person to think.

According to the mutual agreement, when the time comes, tell each other what you really think, listen to each other's voices, and make decisions.

Life is not easy, marriage is not easy, and it is even more difficult to reorganize a family, understand each other, support each other, and help each other.

Whatever the choice, I hope that the principle is not to hurt myself or the other person.

I don't think there's anything to worry about, you have experienced the pain of feelings, if you feel that you really can't get along, it's better to have a long pain than a short pain, make up your mind as soon as possible, so as not to be hurt again, if you can, then continue, because feelings need to be managed, you can't just hang on the lips, you have to pay more for each other.

This matter depends on your feelings, since you are divorced and live together, there are feelings, if you still have children, you have to be together, after all, there are feelings for such a long time, it is not easy to find another one, the two should understand each other and tolerate each other, I wish you happiness!

Then you have to find the reason for the entanglement, why are you so entangled, in fact, in the final analysis, your entanglement is because you don't love each other enough, so you will be entangled, if you don't want to continue walking, then you can choose to separate.

Another reason why you'll struggle may be that you're worrying too much about things.

The relationship and trust between halfway couples are very low, and divorce is recommended if they don't get together.

There are only one and countless divorces, if both of you can sum up the experience from the previous marriage, and will not repeat it, and want to go on for a longer time, then you must encounter problems and solve them in time to maintain the relationship.

If some of you don't want to solve the problem properly, and you want to divorce when you encounter a problem, not only will the marriage relationship be difficult to maintain, but the next relationship will not last long.

Both of you are divorced and have experienced a lot of things.

Both of them also hope to find a partner who will grow old together.

Two people living together need to run in and need to understand, to empathize, if both of them are calculating each other and planning for themselves, and their hearts can't come together, it's better to separate.

Because you are all young, and you still have a long way to go.

To support each other, support each other, marriage needs to be managed, you have both experienced divorce, you should cherish each other.

Now that you are divorced, if you feel that you can do it, then you can try to stay together!

Many divorced and remarried people around me are not very happy, most of them because they can't be sincere and honest with each other, I think it's not easy for you to be together, if it's not a big conflict, you should communicate sincerely to untie the knot.

If you have been divorced once, you should know that marriage is not easy, be more tolerant and considerate, and there is nothing that you can't get by.

In the past, there were many de facto marriages, living together for many years, and then separating, which is considered divorce.

Cohabitation (i.e. a man and a woman living together in a continuous and stable manner) began before 1 February 1994. Cohabitation is carried out in the name of husband and wife.

Conditions for Divorce by Mutual Agreement:

1. There is a legal marital relationship;

2. The party concerned is a person with full capacity for civil conduct;

3. Both parties are willing to divorce. On the other hand, litigation divorce only requires the existence of a legal husband and wife relationship between the two parties to sue the court for divorce.

Legal basisArticle 7 of the Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

Where a man and a woman who have not completed marriage registration in accordance with Article 1049 of the Civil Code and live together in the name of husband and wife, and file a lawsuit for divorce, they shall be treated differently:

1) Before the promulgation and implementation of the Ministry of Civil Affairs' "Regulations on the Administration of Marriage Registration" on February 1, 1994, where both a man and a woman have met the substantive requirements for marriage, it shall be handled as a de facto marriage.

2) After the promulgation and implementation of the Ministry of Civil Affairs' "Regulations on the Administration of Marriage Registration" on February 1, 1994, if both the man and the woman meet the substantive requirements for marriage, the people's court shall inform them to reapply for marriage registration. Where marriage registration has not been completed, it is to be handled in accordance with article 3 of this interpretation.

Summary. Divorce does not leave home, divorce does not separate, and live together, this is a normal behavior habit, divorced two people can enjoy their own mood, do not care about whether the other party is happy or not, high or unhappy.

Divorce and don't leave home, divorce is not separated, and live together, this is a normal behavior Qi Min Zhan habit, divorced two people can enjoy their own quiet mood, don't care about whether the other party is happy or not, high or unhappy.

Although divorced, they still have to be together and be managed by the woman, sometimes scolded by the woman, and they still have to be together, but they are not in the same bed together.

If the house belongs to the man, right, the court application can get the woman to move out, and it is enforced.

Psychoanalysis: Dear subject:

Listen to you, you haven't been married for a long time, just over a year. You should be on your honeymoon in marriage, but why do you want to get divorced?

Try to go back to where you were at the beginning, and you can slowly sort out what the problem is.

How did you meet in the first place?

If you met on a blind date, maybe your relationship is not as deep as free love. This kind of marriage relationship needs to spend more time to manage, maybe you didn't really understand each other when you got married, so the contradiction will slowly appear. You can try to communicate with each other, understand each other more, discover each other's goodness, change their ways and accept each other's shortcomings.

Because no one is perfect.

If you are in free love, then you enter the palace of marriage. Then you must have a certain emotional foundation, and you must know each other's strengths and weaknesses enough. What you need to do at this time is to think about when and why did you start to hate this marriage?

If you can find it, maybe all the problems can be solved.

You say you want your husband to share some of the housework, and every time it ends with you sulking. Is it because your husband never does housework? Or is there something wrong with the way you communicate?

If your husband never does housework and doesn't know how to feel sorry for you. Then you can talk to him seriously and honestly to give your marriage a transition time. If he hasn't changed, then you can follow your heart.

Because if a man feels sorry for you, he is willing to make some changes for you.

If it's a question of the way of communication. For example, if you are a picky person in terms of housework, and always dislike him, if you can't do this or that well, he may instinctively hate doing housework for a long time. I think he would be very happy if you could give him more time and praise him while he was doing his chores.

For example, my wife will often praise me for cooking deliciously, so Feng thinks that I am very willing to cook for her.

As for the fact that you only spend time together on weekends, I don't think it really affects the relationship between the two parties, sometimes it's better to have a little distance, and the two of you will cherish the time together on the weekends more.

My lover and Jianchun and I are also together on weekends, and we will make ** porridge every night, and it has been the same for seven or eight years. On weekends, we will cook our favorite dishes together, play what we want, go shopping, etc., and even sweeter than some couples in love.

In fact, the secret of a successful marriage is to operate together, be considerate of each other, and tolerate each other. If you don't want to lose this marriage and you still love each other, you should talk openly and honestly, learn to communicate, and give the other person some time to change. At the same time, consider the other person's feelings and learn to tolerate some of the other person's shortcomings.

If it is true that the flower has never been able to change, then go with the flow

There is a saying that the country is easy to change, but the temperament is difficult to change. An adult personality has been formed, and it is almost impossible to change it.

I also tried to change my husband, but I didn't change it in my life, so I chose to give up, what I said about giving up is not divorce, it's that I won't change him anymore. I want to change a person, I am too tired, and every day I am reborn in contradiction. I'm now with one eye open and one eye closed, or both eyes closed.

Since you want to leave him, you have to give up on him completely, don't leave him a little leeway, treat him as air, you go back to your own home, live with your parents, and harass you again, you call the police. Divorce means that it has nothing to do with it from now on, don't break the connection, the few months you have been with him have made him see hope again, so he has been pestering you endlessly.

One is not wide, each is fine!

Oh, this girlfriend, very sympathetic to what you're going through. But something like yours is inevitable. Although "I can't bear the children, and the parents won't agree", since "I can't hold on anymore", it is better to divorce.

Unless you are willing to suffer and endure His ......But in that case, you're sad.

You belong to the "broken mirror reunion", but you don't understand that "good horses don't eat back grass"; Broken mirror reunion, it can be said that no matter how skilled you are, there are cracks. Breaking the mirror and reuniting is a kind of helplessness, and if you don't get better, you can only reconcile with it. It's time to reconcile, cherish each other more, but they often quarrel and "get along more and more", this matter is very serious, and you can't let yourself live because of the child.

In short, if you want to live like a human being, it is better to divorce, because life is still ......

What are you running away from when you want to get a divorce as soon as you quarrel?

Or is it your cowardice? Your naivety?

You look at the stars in the sky, who do you look at, and who can completely blend into whom? Mutually repelling and attracting to each other! In ancient times, the word "respectful as a guest" was the distance that represented

Divorce? Finding a new one will guarantee that these things won't happen? No matter who the child is with, the child is a harm to the child!

What is there to be noisy about? Quarrels solve the problem?? It's your cowardice that quarrels, it's you who are dissatisfied! and so on for the venting of emotions

A few days ago, I read a passage People want to cooperate with others and make a fortune, but often the right people to make a fortune are to start their own businesses and succeed The same is true of feelings Your insecurity, your dissatisfaction, that is your heart needs a dependence, and this dependence is what you hope to give you, is to get a drop after marriage! The world is impermanent, the human heart is impermanent! You're evolving yourself, it's in someone else, something else, do you think you can always get the results you want or get close to what you want?

Thank the people and things around you People don't always think about getting what they give Many times people are losing their lives in this life

I have a similar problem to you. It's that we haven't separated yet, and we want to leave, but there are too many people who can't let go, and our youth and career are all bet on him, in exchange for such a result, I really feel unwilling. If you can make do with it, make do with it.

He can beg you to come back to show that she still has feelings for you, and you have to talk a lot, and I think he doesn't mature as he gets older. Be responsible. As the saying goes, less couples come to old companions, and if you want to grow old together, you have to run in slowly and withstand setbacks.

I believe that everything will be fine when the child is older!

It's a blessing to be noisy and noisy!! Remember: Husband and wife can't think about divorce at the first time when they quarrel!

When some people get married without quarrel, 99% of them are divorced! Only noisy and noisy can last! But it is divided into size....Look at you!

It's just a little noisy, so bear with it! It's a big noise every day, so let's stay apart for a while and calm down...Let's think about divorce....I hope you can be together again! Since we are destined to be together again...Then don't say separate easily!

Bless you!