Was there a moment when you didn t want to explain a misunderstanding with your lover?

Was there a moment when you didn't want to explain a misunderstanding with your lover? When two people get along, they will encounter difficulties to some extent, and we may have misunderstandings because of disagreements. If we have a different view of a thing, then we will inevitably have a different way of solving it.

If you are an ordinary person, there are usually misunderstandings, and I don't want to explain them, because I think it is so laborious to explain something to others. If I feel that the other party is not the person I care about, and even if this matter is misunderstood, it has not caused any damage to me, I don't bother to explain, after all, the truth will always surface.

But for lovers, this is another way. Lovers pay attention to the same heart, we have to open the skylight to say bright words, and we can't hide any ideas from each other. If you don't say it, how will the other person know what you are thinking, what you want, and how you want to do it.

There was a lot of noise and quarrel between couples before, and the separation and integration were caused by misunderstandings and not explaining clearly in time. If we don't explain it clearly in time, then we may really miss it out and maybe we will regret it later.

In both cases, I don't want to explain the misunderstanding with the other half. The first point is that I feel that this relationship has really come to an end, and I am really tired and don't want to continue anymore, and I can't see any hope. Then if there is a misunderstanding, then the misunderstanding continues, don't care, divide and separate.

The second situation is when the other person no longer trusts me and doubts me. Because two people are together, the fit of their hearts actually needs to have a trust. So if the other party suspects that I don't trust me anymore, then why do we have to explain that we are still together, and the relationship will be separated when the trust is broken.

Two people who are estranged will not be comfortable even if they are still together. If you don't believe me as a person, then why should I waste my tongue on making unnecessary explanations with you?

You say yes, right?

When we are together, there will always be contradictions, sometimes because of some contradictions, I don't want to explain anything to each other, some are just like being unreasonable, but I still have to say that I am wrong, this is mutual accommodation, but sometimes I am really upset. <>

If you want to say which moment I don't want to explain, I think I'm more going outside with other members of the opposite sex, she doesn't understand it, I'm still a student, and joined the department, a lot of things have to be busy, it's like going to other campuses, I can only come back very late, but the school has access and can't go back, and then the department went to other campuses Those people chose to stay overnight, chartered a room, and then played inside, of course, I didn't go back and I also needed to talk to her, and I was used to telling her to go to bed early at that point, But after I told her about it, she became suspicious of me, because I was a man on the department's side, and it was an embarrassing scene, and I didn't go back late at night. I also made it clear to her, but maybe a little bit of a temper in anger.

I can't say anything about this, I don't know what I should explain, I really said what I should say, so I don't want to explain anymore, it's because she doesn't understand me. But after all, it's a couple, and I didn't go back to make up for sleep after the night, so I went to find her and accompany her, which was very tiring. <>

But as others say, if a person does not rely on you spiritually, does not rely on you financially, then what is the use of what she wants you, since you have chosen to love her, you have no hesitation to take care of her feelings, to care about his life, there will always be misunderstandings, but as long as it is handled well, it does not affect each other's feelings, so even if you don't explain, you have to accompany each other well, it will always get better, otherwise how to live a lifetime...

But as others say, if a person does not rely on you spiritually, does not rely on you financially, then what is the use of what she wants you, since you have chosen to love her, you have no hesitation to take care of her feelings, to care about his life, there will always be misunderstandings, but as long as it is handled well, it does not affect each other's feelings, so even if you don't explain, you have to accompany each other well, it will always get better, otherwise how to live a lifetime...