Why can you still be friends after a breakup?!

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After reading this question, I will tell you the possible reasons that I have come up with. There is a word we are not unfamiliar with, but it is a little out of reach, that is, "confidant", it is simple to say, but there are not many real confidants, two people have a good impression of each other, and do not possess each other's ideas, so that the feelings of two people are in a delicate state, many people often mistakenly think that friendship is love, so this state will further develop into a couple, a step back may be like a stranger, do not advance or retreat to be considered a confidant, between confidants to do what you said is easy to understand. There is another reason, two people still have a good feeling after breaking up, but each other has their own choices, has a new life, and neither party wants to destroy their current lives, but they still think about each other, so they keep in touch with each other.

    Maybe both of them want to prove to each other that they are doing well without him or her, and this situation will also maintain a certain amount of contact. In fact, no matter what, I hope you don't mind and interfere, in that case it will not be good for everyone, after the breakup, you can't be friends because you can't let go of each other, most people won't want the people in their hearts to be with others, if you don't change, you can't escape, you can't be friends, on the contrary, it means that they can already let go of the feelings they once had, so you don't need to worry about doubting anything, try to maintain your relationship with him, don't waste your mind on suspicion and distrust, When two people are together, try to trust each other, and hope you will always be happy. (It's all heart-to-heart, everyone will have a similar experience with feelings, don't say much else, there may be typos, I always have typos when I type, distressed!)

    If there is a chance to communicate in the future, oh).

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This shows that your boyfriend doesn't love her anymore, but the woman still likes your boyfriend, so I want your boyfriend to see it, and I want to say that we were happy together before, or your boyfriend is really good, and she is proud of having it before. Love is not something that can be said clearly in a few words

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1.I haven't loved each other deeply (just been close friends with each other) 2Women are more open (there are more people in the relationship, I don't care, I just take a kiss as a greeting) 3

    Women are more selfish, deliberately exposing them to make some people unhappy and causing disagreements (so as to satisfy their own selfishness even if they are separated).

    - If you can accept it, either one is a threat to you. If you can't accept it, you can't convince yourself that your boyfriend will cut off contact with her.

    Whether you are a stranger or a friend after a breakup sometimes depends on how your partner feels.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because they once loved each other and knew each other. It's hard to know yourself, so the breakup hasn't been stiff yet, so why not be a friend? But you must believe in your boyfriend, truly love him, understand him, and be good to him.

    I also care about my ex-boyfriend's dynamics, but I don't have any contact, and at the same time, I cherish my current boyfriend very much, and we love each other very much. It's simple, don't overthink it!

    If you work hard, what should be yours is yours, don't be reluctant if it's not yours, there is no happiness if you are reluctant!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Once a partner, will never be a friend now.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Speechless... It stands to reason that if you have truly loved each other, you generally don't want to contact each other after breaking up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's hard to say, but you have to feel for yourself if there is a problem with the two of them

    Maybe it's really a normal friendship or...

    You have to feel it yourself

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because they're open enough... Wipe.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Iron buddy, other people's boyfriends don't mind, why are you confused, hehe...

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is no one definitive answer to this question, as it depends on each person's feelings for each other and their understanding of friendship. Some people think that even after the relationship ends, they can still maintain their friendship; Others, on the other hand, feel that they should cut ties after a breakup, because maintaining a relationship that is expected but not received can be painful for each other.

    Of course, even if two people decide to still be ordinary friends after breaking up, it will take a certain amount of time and processing. First of all, you need to end the relationship completely, try not to express love for each other again, and do not cause misunderstandings or arouse suspicion of the other party. Secondly, both parties need to think carefully, calmly face their own and each other's emotional state, and judge whether they have the ability or willingness to change from a relationship to a friendship.

    Finally, you need to maintain respect and understanding, accept the other person's choice, and at the same time maintain your own bottom line and dignity, and maintain your self-esteem and personality.

    In general, whether you can still be ordinary friends after a breakup needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and both parties need to communicate openly, respect each other's ideas and choices, and establish a healthy friendship relationship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can become friends after a breakup, which is the continuation of another kind of relationship, so no matter what kind of fate it is, you must cherish it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Can you still be friends after a breakup? There are both cases.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think I can be friends after breaking up, it will be embarrassing! But some people are very optimistic that they can still get along as friends after a breakup, and there may be good breeds.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Friends are for life! A breakup isn't the end!

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