What we need to do now is to make ourselves more aware of ourselves

You need to work hard to make yourself understand that you are no worse than others.

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

Your favorite banquet often does not choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and love his shortcomings, and you must not want him to become what you want him to be because you love him, and if you can't change it, you won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

I know that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not be old, and the sky will not be desolate and empty;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

Man lives. In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard. Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live, sad and sad to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because, life is like this:

No one's life is smooth sailing, so as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

Life will inevitably fall and wait, you must be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, and others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about that:

It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, so why not be happy every day."

2.If you think that you will be in a bad mood if you are in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then let yourself be busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do some activities that you like that have nothing to do with the specific matters of the current simple burn number. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost the same as you, Duan Luo but they are all living happily, so not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

I sincerely wish you happiness and joy every day! ~

Luckily, Yefu will not be waiting for you all the time, and the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear at any time, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or is it because he loves you? There is no reason to like a person, and there is no regret in paying, and it is worth it, as long as you can be with the person you love. In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you.

I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life.

A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

1.The girl who really loves you is always brutal in front of others and will only be gentle for you, with a lot of tears. 2.

The girl who really loves you will always tell you not to smoke, even though she knows that you can't change it, she is still impatient Huai Xiang Zheng said. 3.The lady who really loves you wants to know what you're doing all the time.

4.The girl who really loves you will be anxious about your late home, and then keep dialing your mobile phone until the lead song mobile phone.

The rise and fall of the world is my responsibility. ”

Inscription. From the moment everyone comes into this world, they have carried on their shoulders, big and small. How can so much responsibility be? In fact, we only need to remember one principle: make ourselves clear!

Yes, it's easy to say that you can make yourself clear, but how many people can do it? The concept of "the rise and fall of the world, the husband is responsible" has long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, but I don't know why, it seems to have changed ......

This can be seen from the leopard in daily life. After a class, the student on duty is naturally responsible for wiping the blackboard. Sometimes the student on duty doesn't wipe it for some reason, and the blackboard will be dirty until the next class starts.

It is only when the teacher is about to enter the classroom that anyone notices that the blackboard is still dirty.

In fact, it's not just the blackboard that is "dirty"! Let's not talk about why the students on duty didn't fulfill their responsibilities, let's talk about the other students sitting in the classroom, don't they have responsibilities? Perhaps it is the notion that "the rise and fall of the world is the responsibility of the husband" that "misleads" them.

What is the "responsibility of the husband"? That is, everyone is responsible. If I don't do the same thing, others will do it, and it's everyone's responsibility! It is this erroneous thinking that has led generations ...... lost

Therefore, in my opinion, it is better to change this "husband is responsible" to "my responsibility". Su Wu who shepherded sheep in Beihai, Yue Fei who served the country loyally, Lin Zexu who sold tobacco in Humen, and Lu Xun ...... who abandoned medicine and followed literatureThey are all famous for taking the rise and fall of the world as their responsibility. "There are tens of thousands of mansions in Ande, and the poor people in the world are happy.

The first cherry blossoms defeat the worries of the world, and then the joy of the world. Du Fu and Fan Zhongyan are also concerned about the world, which is revealed in the poems. It's the emotions that are so moving.

They are role models because they dedicate themselves to what they do best and really understand themselves!

We should know that if the class is not united, it is our responsibility, and doing our best to unite the class as a whole is to make ourselves wise and honest; If the hometown does not develop, it is our responsibility, and to do our best to contribute to the hometown is to make ourselves clear; If the country is backward, it is also our responsibility, do our best to make the country stand tall among the strong countries, is to make ourselves clear; Even if there are some unstable factors in the world, it is still our responsibility, the world is a big family, and if we can't even handle our own family affairs, how can we make ourselves clear?

The rise and fall of the world is my responsibility", a responsibility that cannot be escaped under any circumstances. Only when a person fulfills his responsibilities and truly understands himself can he have the face to stand between heaven and earth, and can he be worthy of this life created by the Creator!