How should parents teach introverted children to be expressive?

Most children are introverted, some are born with a natural personality, and some are slowly transformed in the process of growing up. In fact, introversion is not dominant in the current society, and as parents want to improve their children's introverted personality or communicate more, I think the current children at that age can generally understand some truth, parents can talk to their children about some pros and cons, and tell children that introversion will have some impact on their growth path.

When a child hears something, he will inevitably make some changes. Secondly, I think it is more important to teach by example and take my children to participate in more social activities. The reason why most children are introverted may be that they do not have much contact with the outside world and are often in their own little world.

At this time, parents should take their children to participate in more social activities, in which children can gradually become willing to express, because they know that knowing how to express can make others more acceptable.

For introverted children, parents should teach him how to enjoy his own space, give him more peace of mind, and tell him that there is nothing wrong with this, every child has his own label, and introverted children also have a world.

My advocacy has always been that parents should not try to change and control the personality of their child.

That would be very painful for both of you.

Your pain is in the fact that this child is not developing the way you imagined it to be.

Your child's pain is for you, because you are the one who makes him do things he doesn't like to do and is not good at doing.

Children do it against their hearts, because they don't like it, so it's hard to be good at it, and it's constantly accompanied by parental pressure and disappointment.

The child will slowly lose his self-confidence and think that he is a clumsy and incompetent child.

In fact, the root of everything comes from your reluctance.

So why does an introverted child have to let him be willing to express himself?

As long as you can express your basic needs and emotions, it's fine.

Respecting his character and helping him become what he wants to be is what parents have to do this time.

Besides, being introverted doesn't mean that you can't express, you may just feel that your surroundings are too boring and don't bother to express yourself.

There was a guy next to me who used to be super introverted. But it's okay now, now he's out of college and has found a girlfriend. Before that, he was really too shy.

He is the youngest son of his husband's aunt and has been pampered since he was a child. What I remember most vividly: he was in his second year of high school the year we got married.

We set up the wedding wine at my husband's house, and when he came to eat wine, he asked his aunt to hold his hand, and when he saw that it was a woman, he blushed, and the two little faces were flushed and did not speak. His head was kept down, and his hand was tightly grasping his aunt. Later, after discovering his situation, we chatted with my aunt privately.

Maybe it's because my own personality is too "Ma Daha", so I gave my aunt an idea, no matter what happened in the village or at the relatives' house in the future, I would take him with me, don't hold his hand, and then let him go and greet others by himself. It probably lasted until he graduated from high school. After the college entrance examination scores came out, he took the initiative to call ** and told us the scores.

When he got home from his junior year, he was embarrassed to tell us that he had a girlfriend. Also, I am very grateful for the 'bad idea' I gave my aunt when I got married.

In fact, introversion is not terrible at all, as long as we slowly communicate with people in life, after a long time, we will receive unexpected results.

Like he is happy, excited, and keeps it for a while. Maybe it helps.

Parents should talk to their children more, encourage their children more, take their children to crowded places, and enroll their children in an eloquence class, which can make their children's personalities more extroverted.

You can take your child out to play, and you should take your child to play with other children, so that your child can gain friendships.

The child's personality is more introverted, as a parent, you should accompany your child more, give your child enough self-confidence, take your child out to participate in outdoor activities when you are resting, and let your child make more cheerful friends, which will help your child's character development.

As parents, we often worry that our children are introverted and unable to socialize well. So we really want our children to be cheerful and lively.

Of course, first of all, we need to realize that introverts are not incapable of socializing happily. Generally speaking, children with more introverted personalities are very delicate and rich in emotions. So sometimes they will have a lot of inner activities, and they will have more worries before doing things.

As parents, we should first establish a good relationship with our children. We need to know their inner thoughts in order to better guide them.

In addition, we try to avoid scolding our children in our daily lives. There are many parents who immediately scold their children and tell them to shut up because they say something impolite. This kind of education is very bad.

We should make our children realize that language is an art, but no matter what, we should have the courage to speak.

Many parents think that in order to get rid of their children's introversion, they should let their children try more. But the premise of trying is that the child must have the motivation and courage to try. If the children are still young, we can give them more opportunities to talk to strangers.

For example, when we stir-fry at home, we can let our children go downstairs to buy a bottle of soy sauce by themselves, which can also promote children's socialization. In addition, we can also enroll our children in activities such as summer camps. Let children have more contact with people in different places and different environments.

In addition, we can also enroll our children in some interest classes. Let them learn some skills, so that in the future, on some occasions where they need to perform and display, the child can show accordingly. This method can not only improve the child's own strength, but also enhance the child's self-confidence.

In any case, the environment is very important. As parents, we should be more patient, give our children more tolerance and support, and don't always deny our children.

First of all, parents should lead by example, be an enthusiastic and outgoing person, usually communicate with their children more, take their children outside to play with their peers, participate in some activities, encourage children to communicate with others, you can show your children some cartoons to make friends, **, if your child asks some questions, be patient with your child's questions.

Parents can take their children to the playground to play, take their children out for a walk, communicate with their children, and let their children solve problems independently.

Parents must encourage their children more, and then they must let their children go out to play more, take their children to travel more, and they must give their children privacy space, guide their children's growth, and cultivate their independence.

Parents should be more patient with their children, should be more by their children's side, should communicate more with their children, create a better language environment for their children, and should encourage their children to let their children learn to express themselves.

Acceptance: Introversion isn't entirely a bad thing, introversion has the advantages and benefits of being introverted:

1 Introverts tend to be more observant and think more deeply.

2 Introverts have a stable temperament, generally do not take the initiative to cause trouble, and are not easy to offend others.

3 Easier to focus. It is easier to take root in certain fields and make achievements and contributions.

4 Inner emotions and feelings are richer and more delicate. It is easier to experience and feel the inner thoughts of others, and to develop empathy and understanding.

Analysis: Introversion is neither scary nor shameful. A lot of good people are also introverts.

Introversion is just one of many personality traits, not all of you, and can't hide the rest of your aura. Everyone has so many shortcomings (and introversion is not a disadvantage), but to achieve success, it is enough to bring out the best in the world.

Social skills can be learned and cultivated, and they are not necessarily related to introversion and extroversion.

Attitude: Grow and gain in solitude, and enjoy yourself.

Allow yourself to be introverted.

While accepting yourself as an introvert, you gradually adapt to your interactions with others and increase the topics of communication.

Don't be afraid to owe favors. Don't be afraid to trouble others and feel that you can't get away. People are built up because of each other's troubles.

If you can't find a topic to talk to, then you can also be silent and smile. Even if you don't speak, it's enough to listen. Sometimes being a quiet listener can be reassuring and comfortable for the person who is talking.

Method: Learn more and learn about some knowledge, hot topics, and jokes to prepare for communicating with people.

Participate in group-type sports hobbies. In extroverted interest interactions, a person's social skills will slowly improve.

Participate in social activities, learn about social networking (see Getting along with others for details), and take the initiative to meet new people.

Try to cultivate a warm and sincere attitude and take the initiative to greet people, which will forget and ease your introversion in interpersonal interactions.

Pay attention to other people's world and focus less on yourself.

Get in touch with people with cheerful personalities.

Do sales, participate in debates, etc., and speak actively.

Children's education: 1. Actively encourage children to take the initiative to speak, communicate with children more often, and encourage and guide children to communicate with other children.

2 Encourage your child to try and not be afraid to fail.

3. Nurture your child's interests and hobbies, and encourage your child to take the initiative to participate in social activities.

4. Create a harmonious family atmosphere so that introverted children are more willing to express themselves.

5. Exercise your child's independence. Communicate more with the outside world, and parents create more conditions for children to accomplish something independently. Like buying something.

6 After the epidemic is over, take your children to visit relatives and friends, and socialize with children in the community.

The best way is to take children out for outdoor sports and exercise, which can make children more cheerful, and you can also have more parent-child reading and parent-child games with children.

Parents should communicate with their children and let them do what he likes to do, so that he will be happy and he will become cheerful.

If a child is introverted, as parents we need to guide him correctly. We can take our child to a place where there are many children and let him play with them, which will make him more open-minded. Or you can let your child watch some educational programs, which will make his cognitive ability better and he will no longer be such an introverted personality.

Parents should tell their children to be bold and confident, and when doing something, they should ask their children for their opinions more, so that the child can develop a sense of autonomy, so that he may be more confident.

Parents should create more fun in life, and let their children watch more emotional, educational**, or cartoons, to bring children to a joyful atmosphere.

Parents should tell their children that introverts are not easy to make friends. Parents should give their children proper affection, so that the children will become extroverted.

Use the correct concept to guide your child, tell your child that you should communicate with people more and go with people, and talk to your child more when you usually go home, which will slowly make your child's personality become extroverted.

If the child is introverted, pay attention to the psychological counseling of the child. Don't rush your child to make friends and get in touch with the world. It is necessary to find the reason for the child's introversion, actively solve it, and induce it slowly, and not force the child.