I m 37 years old, and I don t know what kind of man to marry

There is a saying that many people agree with, a woman is not as good as a good marriage, but sister, since you have achieved academic and work achievements in your own ability, it is commendable. At your age and background, it is suitable to find a civil servant in politics. (Positive) deputy bureau.

Even if it is a special clean official, as long as the person is good and can do it to this position and age, it is not different from you. It is more suitable, the life education and life perception are correct, and China is serious in terms of official standards. Officials are respected.

There is also a 40-year-old business man, but if you are 40 years old, I am afraid that many of them are divorced, you have to think about this. ...I think the ideal is to be a university teacher, studying philosophy, language, and history. ** All are available.

Generally, teachers don't have the smell of copper, and they don't have the depth of being an official....You see for yourself what is suitable, but with your own good conditions. Really nice ,...But you're looking for a marriage partner. Stability is greater than love....Hehe.

It's too old, find someone who is about 40 years old and is about the same as you and is unmarried, as long as you talk about it, if you don't look for it, you have to find a divorced person. Successful men around 40 years old still like girls in their 20s, they don't need any skills, as long as they are beautiful and gentle. Think about your situation, contact more people, and then go on blind dates more.

It is recommended that you can go to the blind date program of the TV station.

Because after all, you're so old. Some men think you already have a master.

It's not good to pursue. So go to the show. Bring your singleness to the fore. A girl like you can definitely find true love.

I wish you happiness.

The landlord is a very good person.

Maybe you're a little cold to others, it's that kind of cold beauty.

I hope you don't chase after an ordinary man, that would be too much of a waste of resources.

Good luck.

There are too many like you in the four majors, and they have a common problem, that is, they are self-righteous, so they can't be high or low, hehe.

Women are so good that men will stay away from them, so lower your requirements and your friends will help you!

This one is healthy and well-hearted. Don't pick any more.

If it is a high-quality woman, there is still a chance to meet a middle-aged man, and people should not consider the health of the baby, because it has reached an advanced age. Because in the past year, there have been reports of the imbalance between men and women, in fact, there is no imbalance between men and women to be married in China, in fact, it is some misleading, China is gradually entering the society of the elderly, so the 30 million men reported refer to the male population as a whole (including the elderly, middle-aged, young people, and children), and the proportion of men and women in the "marriageable age" is actually about the same. According to the latest data of the sixth population census, the total number of men between the ages of 20 and 29 in China is 100 million, and the number of women in the same age group is 100 million, and the difference between the two is only 1.26 million.

Some uneasy people will think: There are still fewer women than men, what about the more than 1 million men? I still have to fight a single.

In fact, according to the fact that men are a few years younger than women in marriage, men do not reach the marriageable age until they are 22 years old, so that men are not less than women in marriageable age in society. In addition, there are also those who go to underdeveloped countries to help build and work (such as Africa, Southeast Asia, South Asia, South America, etc.), which are mainly men, and there are unmarried men who go to join the army. But the question arises again, why is it not easy to start a family?

If the reason for this is actually Chinese men's own self-inflicted suffering. Because in the old society where men were inferior to women, women rarely worked and could not support themselves, and men were the pillars, so they were responsible for everything, and it would be shameful for women to share men in the old society. At that time, there were historical reasons for it, and it was generally recognized by society.

Nowadays, men and women are equal, and women also come out to work and support themselves, but women still retain the old concept of letting men take care of everything, and only improve women's social status. Because social status is actively fought for by women themselves, men take on everything because they like women, and men don't take the initiative to seek, do you want women to take the initiative to give up? This kind of thinking is against human nature.

Therefore, this kind of reason, which has nothing to do with the ratio of men and women, but has to do with the old concept of backwardness, has created the current social phenomenon. When "high-quality men" are chasing "high-quality women", when faced with "high-quality women" who only take but do not pay, everything is waiting for men to take the initiative. Suddenly came"Medium female"In the face of "high-quality men", there are not many requirements, but also empathetic, and not messing around, more comfortable than "high-quality women" to live, "high-quality men" have the strength to bear all the economic expenses, when they can enjoy the care of women, so it is natural to come together.

"Medium men" find the same reason as "inferior women". So the problem comes, just like "Tian Ji Horse Racing", "high-quality men" marry "medium women", "medium men" marry "inferior women", high-quality women become leftover women, inferior men become singles, high-quality women can of course find super high-quality men (a few rich people) but most of them are single and become leftover women. complaining that there are not many good men in China.

As for the inferior men, they are still singles, complaining that there are too few women in China. Therefore, the overall reflection is that most of the "leftover women" are "high-quality women", and most of the "singles" are "inferior men". <

When I went home last year, someone introduced a man, after graduating from university, I stayed in Shenzhen for two years and went back to my hometown to start my own business. After meeting, the appearance felt OK, WeChat chatted for 3-4 days, one day said to go to the warehouse to get the goods by the way, I just had a courier arrived, originally let him help me bring it back, but he said I can go together if I am fine, think about it and can chat face-to-face by the way, I went with it, got along for 4 hours, after going home, I told my mother that it was not suitable, my mother asked me why, people look not very good, I listed his original words as follows:

1 Do you want to get married, or do you want to recruit a son-in-law (I have a brother at home, but last year in my hometown in order to reassure my parents, I got my own house) How to calculate the bride price for the door-to-door marriage?

2 A woman next door to our family returned the bride price money to her mother-in-law after getting married, but gave her mother-in-law 30,000 yuan, (at that time, I replied to him that there is such a daughter-in-law, why haven't you met it?) He looks at me, and you're going to give me a too, right? I replied with a smile: you wait well).

3 He said that he didn't eat the first time he met a girl, and the second time he made an appointment to meet, the girl called the two little sisters, and he angrily questioned how people called two people, he just wanted to invite the girl to dinner alone and didn't want to invite her little sister, and the final result was that he didn't invite the girl to dinner and left angrily.

When I heard this in the car, my jaw was about to fall to the ground, what a stingy man this is, in the county town 4 people eat a meal without drinking 300 yuan is enough (no seafood). If you are not married, you will have to do it in the future, but everyone has their own way of life and concept of life, and we can't force others to be the same as ourselves. <>

Out of curiosity, I knew that this post would be whipped by all sorts of different voices, but I still wanted to hear what people were thinking in their hearts. I was going to stop replying to the post.,But since it caused so many different voices.,So let's talk about the real things around.。

The landlord knows a couple, the child is already in the 5th grade, the man's income is more than 3000, the woman's 8000-10000 look, for the convenience of the narrative, the female is referred to as w, the male is referred to as j, w is usually busy with work and often works overtime to live in the company, go home on Saturday, w comes home in addition to sleeping is shopping to buy clothes, after returning home is the kind of ten fingers that do not touch the spring water, the husband cooks and washes all the housework, supervises the child's daily homework, in the eyes of everyone, such a man is really a good man, It should be the kind that all women want to marry, although it doesn't earn much, but at least it's good for women. For a period of time, W company did not have an order and the benefit was not good, the key w was in conflict with the leader, and all kinds of unhappiness went home to cry with her husband, and then W went to work with her husband with the help of her husband's company, at this time W's salary was lower than her husband's, but it is said that the work was very easy, and slowly after returning home from work, W's husband no longer washed and cooked, but let W do these housework, W and her husband lived with their parents after they got married, so basically they would not cook. Later, W's parents returned to their hometown, and her husband took over all the housework.

w is 10 years younger than her husband, her husband spoils her and it makes sense, at this time the contradiction is done, the key is w to buy cosmetics, just swiped the card husband ** came, asked what to buy spent hundreds of dollars, used to buy clothes and jewelry thousands, w hit ** asked her husband can buy it, her husband said that he liked to buy, this just changed the job income less husband attitude is different, so after a few months w changed jobs and changed jobs, the salary is 3 times that of her husband, at this time his husband is a car every week, If you don't come back on the weekend, a big bag of clothes and snacks will be sent over ......

Some people may say that I am making up stories, but I'm sorry, this is indeed the real thing about the people around me, as outsiders, we can't understand their interaction mode in a family, but as long as people are happy and feel happy, it has nothing to do with us outsiders, I just want to say that the choices are different, and the ending is different, as I am alone, I can't understand and endure the change in economic income, and the status and attitude at home will also rise. In my cognition, liking someone and loving someone is not related to changes in the outside world?

Look at your vision requirements, find someone who loves you, accepts everything about you, and lives a good life, preferably honest and steady to you!

Reliable men rarely go out on the street except to go to the market to buy groceries; Because they work in the field or on the construction site; I can't be romantic or dress up, so a lot of girls don't like this kind of person, day after day, year after year, men become single, women are either divorced or broken up...This is called a female dog, and her eyes look down on people; Haha