My mother in law thinks I didn t have a son and wants my husband to divorce me, what should I do?

What is your husband's attitude?

If your husband doesn't care about having a boy or a girl, and he's kind to you and your daughter, then I don't think you need to think about divorce. Besides, if your husband doesn't want to divorce you, it's useless for your mother-in-law to persuade your husband no matter what.

Also, after going through this incident, I think you can consider being a little better for your husband. Otherwise, your mother-in-law has been provoking for a long time, and you yourself are not angry, and over time, your husband's feelings will be slowly polished, and then it will not be your mother-in-law who persuades him to divorce you, but he himself wants to divorce you.

In the second case, your husband has the same attitude as your mother-in-law.

Then if your physical condition allows, you can only fight for another child. If it's still a daughter, then this is providence, and when they divorce you again, you can take your share, don't be soft.

There is another way, work hard to earn money, and crush them with money! If you get divorced and leave their home, you can still live a glamorous life.

Since you haven't carefully chosen such a mother-in-law, then you have to keep your eyes open to see your husband's reaction. If your husband shows a submissive or indifferent look after his mother expresses such dissatisfaction with his wife, then I don't think such a husband should be.

What age is this, and his family doesn't have a throne to leave to his son to inherit, seeing what you say, he must have worked hard to give birth to a baby. In this case, the mother-in-law not only did not thank you for giving birth to his son, but also picked on this fault, which is really chilling.

If your husband doesn't know the relationship, you can have a long talk with him, but if he still hasn't changed after heart-to-heart, it's better to replan your life from now on, although divorce is a very painful thing, but I think wasting the second half of your life in such a family is a hundred times more painful than divorce.

By the way, I want to tell your mother-in-law that the man decides to give birth to a boy and a girl, and even if you change a daughter-in-law, your son will still not be able to give birth to a son if it remains the same.

Then you have to ask your husband's opinion, does he think the same as your mother-in-law? Will it be so feudal, thinking that if there is no son, there will be no one to support him in his old age? If that's the case, then divorce decisively!

This is really nothing to undo, and it is impossible to be happy if it is redeemed.

The neighbor's aunt was like this, because of her husband's feudal thinking when she was young. desperately gave birth to children, but gave birth to six daughters, but still did not give birth to a son. So what to do?

Divorce? But what about the six daughters? I was reluctant, and I was worried that my daughters would be looked down upon in this life.

The aunt compromised and asked her husband to adopt a son and come back. But that son doesn't know if it's the best species, no matter how he teaches it, it's so naughty that he feels scared to death, and he makes trouble every day. I started to learn all kinds of bad habits in elementary school:

Stealing, beating, and lying, the husband had to send this son back to his biological mother.

But just like that, the relationship between the couple deteriorated seriously, and they either quarreled or fought every day. I have said divorce hundreds of times, but neither party has the courage to divorce. Just tortured each other, and now they are all in their seventies, but they are just incompatible and lead to separation, even if the daughters occasionally meet for a meal, they can quarrel in the hotel.

The mother-in-law asked for a divorce because she couldn't bear that her daughter-in-law had nothing to do and was afraid that her son would have no queen. What is the attitude of the husband who is one of the parties, and whether he has the same attitude as the mother-in-law, or whether he is not clear, but he also has this concern. If so, then if I were you, I would do everything I could to escape firmly and safely with some of my possessions.

Don't dream that "one day husband and wife have 100 days, and 100 days husband and wife are like the sea deep", once the pimple in your husband's heart "no queen" grows, it will only slowly become a cancer with the deepening of time. So, don't expect too much from him, thinking that he will break with you and your mother for the sake of you, and for you to suppress the fear of childlessness in your heart. There is a lyric that says very well, "Only those who are favored can have no fear", only if you are loved, you are qualified to expect and demand.

Otherwise, there is no other way but to leave.

Human relationships are the result of long-term relationships. The kind of person you are, how others will behave with you. Whether you are helpless or compromised, once you decide in your own heart:

Ah, I am at fault for not having children, I am heinous, I am a sinner in my family. And then from then on, you will bow your eyebrows, and then you will be offering your dignity. I am afraid of being embarrassed by divorce, I am afraid that I will be embarrassed if I can't have children, and I am even more afraid that others will know that I am ashamed because I can't have children and divorce, this feeling is understandable.

But smashing the front teeth and swallowing it in the stomach, squeezing out a smiling face to forbear, can it really keep a smooth life and peace for the husband and wife?

Once a woman is afraid of this and that, she picks up her head and buries herself in the soil as an ostrich, then she will never meet the right one. Living in mistakes all my life, waiting until old age, shaking his teeth, and decaying his body, he regrets this life: without the courage and wisdom to break away, he wasted this life in vain with unrelated people.

Everyone wants to have their own children, and there are various reasons why you can't have children, and it's not your fault. So don't be afraid, whether you don't leave, or divorce, don't blindly take the fault on yourself, and don't add bitter drama to yourself. Sincerely express your sorry to your in-laws, you can be painful, you can cry, but you must be open.

Personally, I think that if you encounter this problem, then you can try IVF, so that you can also give birth to a child.

The husband should be asked to do a good job of the mother-in-law's ideological work, because the husband is the key person who coordinates the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.

Then see whose problem it is, if the couple has already checked well to determine the cause of the problem and can **, accept it**. But if the husband is also silent because of this, then separate decisively, because after having children, things will be more, step by step.

This is a serious problem. After all, my mother-in-law and husband both want to have a child. But because of your physical reasons, I think it's a good thing for them that you divorce as well. You don't have to put up with their bullying anymore.

As long as the relationship between you and your husband is good, your mother-in-law's words will not play any role, and two people can live happily together without being affected by such things.

Not being able to have a child is not necessarily your reason, you can go to check it with your husband, you can discuss IVF, if your husband has a problem and file a divorce, let your mother-in-law feel it too.

I think you should discuss this with your husband, after all, this is a very real problem. Look at what kind of attitude my husband has.

If you can't give birth to a child, your mother-in-law asks you to divorce, and to solve this problem, you try to discuss with your husband and let him convince his mother.

As long as your husband doesn't get divorced and doesn't have anything to do with your mother-in-law, you can move out, why do you have to look at her face and stay away from him? Sometimes there is really no way to make yourself accept those unreasonable elders.

Someone else's wife is pregnant with my child, and she doesn't divorce her husband, what should I do?

Hello dear, you belong to the case of an extramarital affair, which belongs to the level of Lunhan Daola's laughter, and it is understandable that the other party is unwilling to divorce. So you have to think about it, if you want this child, you can let him give birth to it, and then raise it alone, or find another person later. If you don't want to destroy their family, you can try to get him to abort the child, of course, it is not recommended to do this, after all, it is also life.

Summary. Then just cut off the relationship.

My husband ignores my divorced mother-in-law, what should I do if I give birth.

Is the relationship between the husband and the mother-in-law not good?

My in-laws have just been divorced for half a month, my mother-in-law went to take care of my pregnant sister-in-law, my husband works in a different place, and I also need to go to work after giving birth to a baby.

The husband is angry with the old man who is still divorced in his fifties, and the mother-in-law is very strong, and no one can persuade him, and neither can the husband. The two old men went to the court and divorced.

Then you and your husband have a good discussion.

Tell us about your situation.

See what's going on.

After the divorce before, my husband was very angry and complained about the Liangliang clan, and my mother-in-law said that she would cut off the relationship with my husband! Relying on the old and selling the old, he said that he didn't want my husband to care if he died! Now the sister-in-law is the mother-in-law's respectful and cheating key attack over there, and the contact has been cut off.

Then you really can't let your mother take it.

Or please. Confinement sister-in-law.

That's what my husband means now, either I take the first photo of my mother with the hymn book, or I ask the confinement lady to bring it, please bring the confinement sister-in-law, I don't feel at ease. But my mother took it for about a year, and she wanted to bring it to my brother's family, and I was also a married daughter.

Then your mother will bring it first.

Mother-in-law relies on the old and sells the old, whether I want to persuade my husband to bow his head, but the socks are very excessive for my mother-in-law, I am five months pregnant, she asked me to vomit, my husband is very angry, so I complained about her, she became a friend and wanted to cut off the shuddering system! bluntly said that there is nowhere to go, but she is now at her sister-in-law's house! My husband is very resolute and reluctant to look for her!

But in this way, I take the big baby, and she will come to us again when she is old in the future, what should I do if I rely on the old and sell the old?

Then say it in advance.

You can communicate first to see if you can reconcile.

If you can't do it, you can make an agreement.

Don't have any more contact in the future.

Breaking off the relationship is what my mother-in-law said! I was probably pregnant, and I was anxious. My husband won't bow his head, my mother-in-law is even more invincible, and if she divorces herself, she goes to the court and leaves her grandson, and my husband doesn't even notify her!

My sister-in-law still thinks that I don't care about my hungry husband, so her mother is divorced and has nowhere to go, and now she ignores us! As soon as I hit **, my mother-in-law cried, made trouble, and hanged herself! What to do.

Never mind. Then just cut off the relationship.

Be ruthless. Otherwise, there will be a lot of trouble later.

It is indeed painful to face such a marriage, but even if the mother-in-law is very strong, she must be firm in her attitude in front of him, and make it clear that she does not want her mother-in-law to interfere in her marriage, and she will not choose to divorce. After all, marriage is a matter for the two of you, and your mother-in-law is just an elder, and she has no power to decide and dominate.

The second is to blindly back down in such a marriage, do not fight for their rights, and cover up the contradiction in order to settle the dispute, which will only make the contradiction bigger and bigger, if you want to really solve the problem, and solve the problem at the beginning, it is possible to prevent the problem from amplifying and extending, and in the face of such a marriage to express your opinions and voices, regardless of whether the final problem can be solved, at least you must be clear about your attitude, and explain that there must be a result. And the attitude must be tough, and you can't let your mother-in-law completely occupy and oppress you. Otherwise, the marriage will only become more and more painful.

The second is to let the husband show his attitude, stand on his side, or choose his own mother, if the husband's choice is not yours, then there is no need to maintain this marriage, because a person who fights alone will eventually fail, and it will be very painful.

And not being able to have a child is not a problem alone, it may be a problem of the husband, at this time you can choose to go for an examination to find out the reason why you can't give birth to a child, so that you can also give your mother-in-law a dismissal, so that he doesn't feel that the fault of the matter lies on your side. And the best solution is to take a tough attitude and make it clear to your mother-in-law that you will not divorce, no matter how much you suppress it. Unless you don't want to continue to hold on to this relationship and choose to divorce, no matter what, the dominance of this marriage is still in the hands of you and your husband, not your mother-in-law to make the decision.

And the husband's attitude must also be clear, and he can't be vague and feel that it doesn't matter whose choice it is. If that's the case.

Show that your husband has not chosen to support you.

IVF. Because the current medical level is very advanced, when you can't give birth to a child, you can go for IVF, and there is no need to divorce.

You can go to the hospital with your husband to have a good check-up to see if you are not pregnant, whose problem it is, if it is your problem, you can choose to do IVF, if your mother-in-law keeps forcing you to divorce, and your husband agrees, you will divorce directly.

I think the best solution is for you to have a good talk with your husband to see what your husband thinks. If your husband loves you and doesn't care, then you and your husband can love each other without taking into account your mother-in-law's thoughts. If your husband thinks the same as your mother-in-law, then learn to stop losses in time as soon as possible.

A person's life is very short, don't be too wronged by yourself.

In this case, it is best to go to the hospital to check what is the reason why you can't have a child, and now that medicine is particularly developed, it should be able to be cured. Because many families actually still like children, if you don't have any children, it will be a pity for you as a couple.