Will you forgive someone who once caused you to be almost wiped out?

Won't forgive. In "The Legend of Chu Qiao", which was popular some time ago, Princess Chun'er fantasized about marrying Yan Xun Persimmon from the beginning. However, she seems to have forgotten that although she is not the ** who killed Yan Xun's family, she is the **daughter.

Yan Xun pretended to agree to the emperor's marriage, but Chun'er took the matter seriously. So half of Chun'er's later tragedy was caused by her own hands.

Because she was so naïve that she thought that Yan Xun would forgive the emperor who almost destroyed him.

However, Yan Xun was still good to her, and in the face of her assassination, he still let it go again and again. Maybe it's because I feel guilty about her.

and Chu Qiao, who later parted ways with Yan Xun, also failed to understand Yan Xun. She thinks that Yan Xun has been blinded by hatred, and her hands are covered with blood.

However, she forgot that in order to pity and juice Xiang, she also did not hesitate to slash the three-room Zhuge master.

Therefore, if you really want to be in the position of the person who is destroyed, you will probably do more than him.

For the person who almost killed you, you can't wait to dig out his heart and lungs and cut him with a thousand cuts.

Of course I won't forgive a person who once harmed me and was almost wiped out, how could I forgive such a person? I'm not brain-dead.

I think if a person has caused you to be almost wiped out, you can restore the person's family. Then either you are brain-dead, or you are insane.

You should and only forgive others when you are under duress, or when there is a greater interest that compels you to let go of this hatred.

Of course, you can say in public that the person you forgive. But you can still hate this person in your heart, and you can look for revenge when you want. But when you are in the open, you are still kind to others.

I know a lot of people will say that I am too dark to seek revenge. But I will say, if one person destroys you all over the house, then what is the point of revenge? If it's really me, I'll pay it with blood.

In fact, I believe that the vast majority of netizens have a sense of right and wrong.

A similar thing happened in South Korea the other day? A dog from the famous South Korean star Choi Siwon's family bites a neighbor. Although he was immediately sent to the hospital, he died due to a second infection.

After these incidents, Choi Siwon immediately apologized for the incident. But the neighbor's daughter actually chose to forgive because the suggestion was very sincere.

This seems incredible to me, and in the eyes of the majority of netizens, whether it is Chinese netizens or Korean netizens, it is incredible.

Korean netizens exploded at that time, if a casual thing can be forgiven because of the sincerity of the apology, then there is no need for the ** organ to exist!

I believe that there is still integrity in the world. Since the saying that there is revenge and revenge and revenge can be handed down, it must not be a vernacular.

Qin Hui also didn't need Yue Fei's descendants to forgive. Those who are clear are self-purifying, and history is only a temporary theory, and there is no need to worry about it. Qin Hui believes that history will give him justice after all.

If in the face of foreign invasion together, the people who hurt me can do it for the country and the people, I will choose to forgive.

Yue Fei was killed, Qin Hui was just the executor, kneeling should also be Zhao Gou and Qin Hui kneeling together, Qin Hui was a little wronged!

Love is gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, failure is with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad together. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him happy forever, to be her eternal safe haven, to protect her, even if it is the slightest harm.

Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love. The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time at his or her disposal, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together! Eternal love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, eternal love is your love.

Love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other party, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. As long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

In fact, if you really love him, you shouldn't think about whether it's worth it anymore.

I don't know if that's right or wrong.

All I can say is that if it were me, I would say.

If I still love him, I will forgive him.

But if I don't love him anymore, no matter how sincere I am, we won't continue to be together.

You should consider your current situation!

Your boyfriend does things too carelessly, regrets it, and wants to redeem it, but he has hurt others, so it can be said that he is selfish.

If you feel like you can divide it, it's better to divide it early.

But!!! It's not easy to find a good man at first sight! Let's look at fate!

Not to deceive you

But maybe he wasn't very serious in the first place

It's not worth it, what are you going to do with such a person? Maybe one day he meets someone he likes more, and it is inevitable that he will break up with you! It's you who gets hurt, and besides, a good horse doesn't eat grass! Women must know how to love themselves and protect themselves!

Giving is not equal to gaining, but if you don't pay and don't work hard, you will never reap.

Can't forgive him. He can do it once, he can do it a second time. That's what men are.

There is no need to insist on anything, wait for anything, everyone has to live for themselves, instead of you like someone who doesn't love you, it's better to find someone who loves you to grasp your own happiness.

No, you don't want this kind of love. Why are you in pain, physically and mentally exhausted? Why don't you feel happy? Is this true bleakness? Giving up also frees you from yourself.

Yes This person is worth your wait, you haven't heard of beating is love and scolding is love, I think it's normal to pull a beautiful doll to support you to forgive him, even support you to continue to wait, passing by, purely for my 2 points

People who will give up easily.

It's not worth loving.

He doesn't deserve your love, because his love can't stand the test, that is, it's not sincere, you know, he shouldn't have a second time, and you shouldn't forgive him.

Will he often bring up breakups? If it's just this time, you have to give him a chance. If it's often, then you're not worth it.

Ignore him, such a man has a problem in his heart.

Does this kind of person who doesn't know how to cherish still want him to do it?

No. Never forgive. Even though I've forgotten how hurt I felt now, I still feel sad when I think about it.

Two days ago, my father told me that no matter what grievances and hatreds you had in the past, you still have to live there, and you still have to abide by the customs and etiquette. To be honest, I had forgotten what had happened before, but when my dad brought it up, I suddenly realized that I hadn't forgotten, I just put it in the deepest part of my brain, and I thought I had forgotten.

Then I mentioned forgiveness, and they didn't apologize, so why should I forgive. Many people say that thanks to those who have hurt me, you have taught me to be strong.

Maybe, but in the same way, those who hurt me have also caused me a lifetime of harm, no one will be there, no one will understand my feelings at the time, etiquette? For the sake of those so-called faces, just forgive them, what about yourself, are you worthy of yourself?

Yes, after those hurts, I learned to cherish happiness, but in the same way, after those hurts, it is difficult for me to open my heart to people, I always keep a piece of land in my heart, I am always prepared that everyone will leave and will hurt me, I am afraid, I am cautious, I don't trust others, I think, in this world, only I can believe in myself.

Since it hurt you, there will definitely be a next time, it's just a matter of time. The pain I endured will not fade with time, and I will never forget it, so I will not forgive. Sometimes I know that I am sick in my heart.

But I will never forgive anyone who hurts me, and I will also let him taste what it is like to be hurt if I have the opportunity in the future. I have endured the hurt he gave me, those painful days, the days that came out little by little, how can I forgive because of your sorry words, I will never forgive.

No, because my ex's hurt to me caused me a lot of pain, so I will never forgive the other person.

Yes, people make mistakes, don't always hold on to the past. You should look forward, forgiving him is also letting yourself go, and hating someone is also a very painful thing.

No, the principle of the problem hurt absolutely not, but I will not always remember the pain, and the result of always remembering it will not do me any good.

Yes, it's already broken up, then those hurts will be over, although it can't be erased, but letting go is the best thing to do for yourself and your ex.

Yes, since I'm already an ex, I'll turn the page when I turn the page, and staying in the past is an obstacle for me to continue moving forward in the future. It should be forgotten that he lived his life well.

I can't forgive, because too much time has passed, and I don't think people can live in pain forever.

No, those hurts will remind me when I see him, how can I forgive? I won't forgive unless I have amnesia.

Yes. Time will dilute everything, as long as there is no problem with the predecessor's character and the past is over, he will naturally be forgiven.

Yes, let the past pass, don't always stay in the previous life, now that you have separated, you should look forward.

No, I will always remember the hurt my ex did to me, and I will never step on such a pit again after remembering such pain. As for the ex who has broken up, he doesn't have to pay attention to him at all, so why forgive.

Words spoken are like water spilled out, with more kindness and more good words.

I agree with your idea! When it really hurts, it leaves an indelible scar on the soul.

I apologized with my heart and did it with facts. Not necessarily.

Yes, the wound is healed, the scar is still there.

That's of course. There is no greater mourning than death.

yes, it's basically hard to go back to the way things were.

It's like this, it's a little distant.