How to win back a girlfriend with kindness and sincerity?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-30
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If she has you in her heart, you can ask her out to make it clear about the past and make it clear that you still have her in your heart.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Child, is it a broken love? Not happy? Regarding this question, I think the first thing you need to figure out is why did your girlfriend break up with you?

    Is it because you treat her badly, or that you are having an affair with other girls outside, or that you are not motivated to be with you and she can't see your future, so she broke up? The solution to each situation is different, in general, the psychological age of girls will mature earlier than men, there are some things that you must think don't matter, but it is very important for girls, so you have to figure out the reasons for your own breakup before you can prescribe the right medicine.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I hurt my very simple and kind girlfriend, it depends on the extent of the injury, what kind of mistakes I made, and the way to get my girlfriend back is different because of different mistakes. If it's just a general mistake, I believe it's okay to apologize in WeChat or apologize in person, and I believe that your kind girlfriend won't embarrass you.

    Apologizing in person or apologizing in WeChat is only suitable for making superficial mistakes. For example, not caring enough about your girlfriend, such as annoying your girlfriend in some small things, these small mistakes can be solved with an apology. I believe that as long as the apology is sincere enough, your girlfriend will forgive you.

    Because in the stage of love, the vast majority of girls pay more attention to attitude.

    2. Deep reflection.

    Girls are more emotional animals, so sometimes if a boy just apologizes blindly, women will not be satisfied, because you don't understand the fault at all, and you don't understand the point where the girl is angry. So when there is a conflict between the two of you, you must listen carefully and patiently to your girlfriend venting her anger, listen to her complaining, know that she is angry, and understand the point of her anger, only by understanding the reason why your girlfriend is angry, can you make the next correction to be able to apologize to the point. When your girlfriend finds that you can understand him, she will feel that your apology is sincere, and your deep reflection is the best reason.

    3. Give a small gift.

    Giving a small gift to your girlfriend after apologizing is the icing on the cake. When giving a gift to your girlfriend, be thoughtful, such as something she usually mentions casually but can't afford, such as something she likes very much lately, or her favorite lipstick number. Buying these things that your girlfriend usually mentions, firstly, to prove the sincerity of your apology, and secondly, to prove that you are very concerned about her needs, which will make your girlfriend feel very happy, and I believe that your simple and kind girlfriend will forgive you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can move the other party in life, you can also buy some things that the other party likes to eat, or buy a set of clothes for the other party, or you can buy some cosmetics for the other party, and apologize in your most sincere tone.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    At this time, you must sincerely apologize to your girlfriend, and buy a few lipsticks for your girlfriend, so that you can win back your girlfriend's heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you can analyze the problem in such detail, why can't you change it yourself? No matter how you are with her, you should respect each other when you are together! Your actions have restricted her freedom and violated her human rights, and she is no different from being in prison with you, where is the sense of security?

    Anyone else will leave you! Child, you have a problem in your heart, you have obsessive-compulsive disorder, you must completely possess your own things! That's not right, you have to adjust your body and mind first.

    It is recommended that you find a psychiatrist to have a look, and then go to find a girlfriend when you see it!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1. Calm down.

    The first thing is to be calm and remember not to give up on yourself after a breakup.

    After the girl proposes to break up with you, you may be very sad and sad, even wash your face with tears all day long, you can't eat, and some people even think of suicide.

    Of course, there is sadness, but too much is a very stupid behavior, the girl will not return to you because of your sadness, nor will she continue to be with you because of your self-abandonment, she does not need a coward.

    The right thing for you to do is to calm down and return to your previous state of life. 2. Don't make repetitive mistakes.

    When a girl sees you doing something wrong, she may give you a chance to correct it, but if you keep making the same mistake, then she will think that you are incorrigible.

    The reason why you propose to break up must be that you have made a mistake, or done something wrong, find the reason for all problems from yourself, correct your previous mistakes, and change your previous appearance, so that you can make your girlfriend come back to you again.

    3. Separate for a period of time.

    The first rule of any breakup is to be apart for a while.

    You must pledge not to contact the other person for at least two weeks. Breaking up is emotionally painful. You need some time to catch your breath and calm down. 4. Focus on what you want.

    Being apart for a while will calm everything down and reduce some of the emotional bias.

    You need to take the time to assess how you feel: the mistakes you made and whether you really want to chase her back. During this time, focus on yourself, enjoy a single life without commitments, and really evaluate what you want.

    Go to the gym, change your style, meet new people, and develop new hobbies. This will help you rebuild your self-worth and regain your vitality.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To get your girlfriend back, you first have to judge whether the girl is scaring you or really wants to break up with you, in fact, you know it yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Sit down and communicate calmly, tell her what you think about her feelings and want to be together, and talk to her about whether she wants to be together with you. There has to be a solution.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Actually, you can't be blamed for it.

    Your girlfriend is really going too far to say, "Are we close?"

    However, she also explained to you that it was a joke.

    If you want to recover, you should know what to say, and you don't have to come here for help.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your girlfriend said, "Are we ever close?" This means that she is wrong, how to save her heart. It's up to you to treat her!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Make a romantic apology to your girlfriend, like roses, chocolate, or whatever. Then explain it well. You and your girlfriend are both post-90s.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, you have to try to approach her in a humorous way, if you both have touched the truth, this matter should be easy to handle, you should know how to do it, and others will teach you how to redeem it. Then it's not for you to redeem, in short, you have to redeem it from your heart, and love must not be false. Only in this way can it be called perfect love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. Admit your mistakes, the affairs of two people should not involve their parents (they should not call her parents).

    2. Find out the difference between yourself and your ex, see your own shortcomings, and find ways to change.

    3. Don't always say that your ex-boyfriend is not good, just use the distance to persuade your girlfriend, (if it is far away, it is inconvenient, and your parents do not agree).

    Fourth, you must know what kind of attitude your ex has, (are you still disconnected from your girlfriend).

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Everyone understands that the twisted melon is not sweet, but it is a little difficult to do, if she has been loving someone else but is with you, can you stand it? Or if you don't have you in her heart together, will you be happy?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Brother, what age is it now, do you still take her parents? Do everything, no matter how big or small, move the center of your life from work to her and move her. There is nothing else to do.

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