If you just went to dinner with a regular co worker of the opposite sex, would you tell your girlfri

Tell ah, since you have a clear conscience, then what's the matter with telling your girlfriend.

In our work and life, sometimes it is inevitable to have a meal with colleagues, including colleagues of the opposite sex. This is a very normal thing, but many people are afraid that their girlfriends will misunderstand, in fact, this is completely unnecessary, since you don't have a ghost in your heart, then tell your girlfriend what's wrong. Now that the two of them have come together, you shouldn't hide something from her, and she also has the right to know.

In addition, you take the initiative to say that she may still believe you, but in fact, it's nothing, isn't it just a meal together, maybe your girlfriend won't think about it so much at all. But if you don't say it, let your girlfriend know afterwards, so you can't explain it clearly. At that time, I'm afraid that it will get darker and darker, and it will make both of you unhappy, which will outweigh the losses.

I have a good buddy who broke up with his girlfriend because of this, and he was in a long-distance relationship with his girlfriend at the time, and he rented a house near the company by himself. There may be times when I get off work late and I eat with my colleagues. One of the female colleagues was interested in my buddy, but my buddy didn't think much of it and didn't tell his girlfriend about it.

Later, on the day of his birthday, his girlfriend said at first that he couldn't come to work overtime, and then quietly came to surprise him, but saw him having dinner with the female colleague. The next plot was very bloody, my buddy's mouth was about to wear out, but his girlfriend just didn't listen, and later because of this incident, the two finally broke up.

In fact, many times in daily life, the conflict between us and our lover is caused by one of us carelessly. In fact, two people being together is a test for both parties in itself! I believe that no matter who it is, they know very well that since two people have chosen to be together, since both people love each other deeply, then many times they will not betray each other.

Two people who don't love each other won't be together.

But why do we doubt so many times? A small gesture by the other party, or a look from the other party that he doesn't care about, or a concealment of the other party about himself on some issues. You will feel very angry, and after that, you will have conflicts with the other party, lose your temper, or even break up.

In fact, everyone also knows that they just want to make their lover cherish themselves more.

Take this incident as an example, it is normal for a man to simply have a meal with an ordinary colleague of the opposite sex of his. But because of his girlfriend's careful eye, this boy was killed. I didn't dare tell my girlfriend about it.

I think if my girlfriend finds out about it after this, maybe my girlfriend will blame the boy for why he didn't tell him. Therefore, the guy should tell his girlfriend that he is going to dinner with the opposite sex.

In fact, for girls, there is no need to care so much at all. Think about the man next to you, if he told him that he was just having a meal with a normal friend of the opposite sex. Will you trust?

But what if he doesn't tell you? Do you think he has a ghost in his heart again? Does this make him feel like he doesn't know what to do?

I believe that this female colleague and male colleague are friends, in the workplace, there are still a lot of "meal friends" situation, multiple people order, you can share the cost of the meal, if, each other's tastes are close, it is even better, meal time, there are people to chat, or they are because they can talk more and have a common topic, so they often make an appointment to eat together, it is also possible.

However, if you find that they do not get along like friends, but in a relationship similar to boyfriend and girlfriend, and there are intimate behaviors between men and women, such as kissing, being too protective of each other.

That's probably not an ordinary friend relationship, they say it's a friend relationship, but they just want to hide their intimacy in the workplace and avoid some things. If that's the case, then you'll know it, and you don't have to worry too much about these things, as long as they don't affect your interests.

Finally, to say a little more, it is more taboo in the workplace to learn too much about the privacy of colleagues, and some things, keeping a normal mind and participating less will be more conducive to career development.

I believe this, it's normal, after all, there is no problem with colleagues eating together, it's much more comfortable than eating alone. And there is no pure friendship between men and women, obviously not, so you don't have to worry about it so much.

Don't put men and women together, there must be something boring, not necessarily like this, not necessarily like that, pure male and female friendship is more.

My husband is like this, he often makes appointments with one of his female colleagues, and he doesn't eat breakfast together three times a day, and he will eat dinner together until he is hungry for the woman, and sometimes he will go to the company together, I once thought they had the material, but the man didn't admit it, and he was angry, and the woman was even more powerful, pretending to be surprised and immediately kept his distance, so they performed like this, and I began to think that they were nothing! In fact, no matter what you think or do, they will have what they should have, and they won't have anything, even if they want something, they can't develop, it depends on the will of God!

How can I not believe this?,I'm still eating with my colleagues every day.,Maybe it's a meal pair.。。 Take 10,000 steps back and say, what does it matter to you, what are you worried about?

I don't believe it, ordinary friends and girlfriends can often eat together, which is definitely beyond the category of ordinary friends, indicating that the two have developed from ordinary friends to good friends, and if both of them are still single, they may develop into lovers.

Yes, I won't believe it, because they often eat together, and this must be a very good relationship. I think it's supposed to be a couple's relationship, because it's definitely not convenient to be open in the workplace, so I didn't say it. I think it's supposed to be a secret.

Just eating together doesn't mean anything, ordinary friends, it's normal to have a meal together. If the relationship is really not ordinary, they often deliberately keep a distance in life, afraid that others will know.

A female colleague and a male colleague often eat together, they may be in a relationship, or they may be purely eating together, it is also possible! If you like a female colleague, just chase it, don't think crookedly!

It's okay to eat together often, but it's not necessarily a friend relationship but a special friend relationship, which doesn't matter, and it's normal for two people to get along well.

I believe in pure friendship between men and women.

A female colleague and a male colleague often eat together, and they are just friends, do you believe it? In fact, with such a relationship with friends of the opposite sex, sometimes it's good not to think about the relationship too complicated.

If both of them are single, often eat together, and are just friends, I don't believe it. I just don't want you to know that they're in a relationship, and they're just talking about some of their own intimate words while eating together.

Male colleagues and female colleagues go out to eat together, and some are pure friends, you don't have to say anything about this. Because there are also many friends who are boyfriend and girlfriend, not boyfriend and girlfriend relationships, just like girlfriends, this is very normal.

I believe this! Because a friend is a friend! Are there any men and women who can't make friends? As long as you walk right, do it straight! I believe.

If two people who are alone often eat together, it can be determined that their relationship is indeed not right, even if it has not yet developed into a lover relationship, at least there is an ambiguous tendency. At this time, you can tentatively offer to eat with them, watch your wife react, and watch their interaction at the dinner table. Hope it helps.

I don't believe it, but it's possible that they are ambiguous with each other.

Friends with such a relationship between men and women are ordinary friends who will eat together, but in fact, there is nothing, because there is still pure friendship in the world.

Faith, if it is just bright.

That's not necessarily, there are many men and women who just play side games for a long time! Hahahaha.

If they are both single, then it is normal for them to eat together a lot, because they are getting to know each other and are in the early stages of their relationship. I wish them all the best in love and all their wishes.

A female colleague and a male colleague often eat together. They say it's just a friendship, and I won't believe it.

It's normal to be bright and upright because there is something to discuss or because of business, or because it happens to be on the way, the taste is almost the same, and the table is divided into dishes or something, which is normal. If this is often the case for several years, then the relationship is not ordinary. Hope, thank you.

The word often doesn't mean that you at least have a good feeling with the other party. If you don't have a good impression of someone at all, will you still get along often? Not to mention eating, which is very close.

Now the idea is very progressive, and the contact between people is very advanced. It's very ordinary. It's normal for people to have contact with the opposite sex, but will something happen when people eat together? Therefore, our thinking is too complicated, and there is no need to think too much.

Hello, they should have a good impression of each other to eat together often.

That's all I can say.

What else can I say?

Whether others believe it or not, that's all it can say.

Whether you believe it or not has little to do with yourself, this is a matter between two people, even if two people are in love and talking about love, even if people don't say it, they have nothing to do with other people.

A relationship begins with a relationship of friends, so if this situation continues, it will definitely develop into a relationship between men and women!

As long as my husband goes to work, he will chat with his female colleague on WeChat almost every day, and I used to see it for example, I would help each other bring down breakfast, and then the daily chat content was almost all about work or gossip units.

I criticized him, saying that he always chatted with her, and then he deleted the chat history every time, saying that I saw it and thought about it a lot, and I trusted him very much, so I didn't think much about it.

I thought to myself that they were just going to work and chatting about WeChat, and there was no ambiguous language, most of them were gossiping about unit matters or work. But recently, I found out that he even kept her WeChat chat out of absence.

I asked him directly, and he said that it was a gossip unit matter, and I said that you can also gossip about the unit, you don't need to delete it, you can also talk to me when you go home after gossiping.

He just doesn't talk anyway, and I don't think it's possible for him not to talk to his colleagues. Don't know if you want to care about it? Does it matter if it's just chatting?

At the moment, I still trust him and she is definitely nothing, but I just don't know if this kind of chat is normal? Can it continue to be allowed? ”

My advice: they don't have much trouble chatting, gossip is not exclusive to women, and many men in the state bank are the same, and regular communication is the main way to get information, as well as a way to reduce work stress and relieve mental anxiety. Therefore, without sufficient reasons and evidence, it is better not to be suspicious, make small things bigger, and complicate problems.

The basis of conjugal harmony is mutual trust.

The problem is not that your husband is chatting with her, but that the frequency of chatting is too high. There is no right or wrong in this matter itself, but talking about it every day is beyond the reasonable range of normal co-workers of men and women. You ask your husband, you said that you are my husband, have you been able to chat with me every day?

You can't even do this to me, but you can talk to other women every day? Does that make sense?

You can tell your husband positively. For example: you often chat with other girls, and as your wife, I will really be jealous.

So if it's convenient for you, can you talk less? Or chatted and took the initiative to let me take a look at it to make me feel at ease; Let me also get in touch with your female colleagues, and if you become friends, it will also eliminate my crankiness, because I love you very much.

should mind, because even if two people are friends, there is no need to always share their daily routine, which shows that he has never taken his girlfriend seriously.

That minds. Because it is very abnormal for a boyfriend to behave like this. There is no pure friendship between men and women. It is a terrible thing to share daily life with other girlfriends.

Of course, you should mind that this matter is in a hurry. Because this incident shows that the two of them get along very well, and their feelings of regret exceed the feelings of ordinary or colleagues, and they are very prone to ambiguous behavior.

Summary. Hello, dear, a colleague of the opposite sex likes to pick up vegetables for you when he eats, which means that he has a good impression of you and cares for you, because if it is an ordinary colleague of the opposite sex, he will generally keep a certain distance if he does not have a good impression, and will not make this kind of behavior of picking up vegetables for you.

Hello, dear, a colleague of the opposite sex likes to give you a sweet potato dish to represent that he has a good impression of you, because if it is an ordinary colleague of the opposite sex, he will generally keep a certain distance from the silver person if he does not have a good impression, and will not make this kind of behavior of picking vegetables for you.

I've been working together for half a year, he's single, I'm married, I like to feed me when I eat, and I often give me vegetables, I sometimes refuse, he's so good to me, I'm moved to let him find a girlfriend, he said he wants to find someone like me.

He likes you, that's why he is so good to you, and he definitely doesn't want to let him find a girlfriend. He only has you in his heart.

He asked me to rate him as a person, I don't know what to say.

Then you can say whatever you think he has in good sense.

Good. Alas, it's too hard! I don't even know what to say to him when we work together.

If you also feel that you will not develop further with him, then reject what he does to you and keep your distance from him.

Sometimes when we work together, I take things heavy, and he will help quietly, I say let him rest, this is heavy, tired and leaky, he said you don't rest, you won't be tired, right! Push me aside and search for <>

He has already moved you to keep it in your heart, and now you should have feelings for you, otherwise you wouldn't be so entangled.

Yes, so it is impossible to ask Ye Zhaomo to refuse his thoughtful kindness to you, because you have formed a habit, and he will guess that he is so attentive to you every time you sing the day.

It makes your heart move, and if you get along like this, you're only going to get more and more involved, more and more him.