Can blind dedication really be exchanged for sincerity?

Blindly pay can not be exchanged for sincerity, should be particularly emphasized a point of view, moved and heartbeat are two concepts, you blindly pay may be in exchange for the other party's touch, but moved is definitely not heartbeat, no heartbeat feelings are definitely not love, love must be accompanied by heartbeat, so your pay may not let you get the perfect love in your imagination.

Before I express my opinion, I would like to ask a few questions, is there any air that we breathe every day? We can drink clean water every day, and who thinks water is important? The answer is obvious, and most people may seem to have ignored their existence, but you can't deny that water and air are essential to us, they support our breath and life, but why are they ignored?

That's because we've long been used to it, taking it for granted, so it's not that important, air and water are transparent, if you treat a person blindly and dedicate everything to him, think about him all the time, then you are like air and water, you may be important to him, but he treats you as transparent, people are like this, when a thing has become a habit, you can't feel its existence.

It can be seen that blindly paying will make the other party turn a blind eye to your pay, the more you pay, the more sunk cost you will have for this relationship, but it does not mean that the other party will accept you, maybe he is only moved because of your pay, but this kind of moving can not replace love, this kind of moving is based on unilateral pay, if he pays for you, is he willing? So don't think that everything can be sincerely exchanged for sincerity, maybe giving can never be a reciprocal relationship, and there is no ruler that can measure how much you have paid with sincerity, you can only measure it with money, but money and love cannot be equated, therefore, pay may not be exchanged for sincerity.

To sum up, giving is just your unilateral behavior, and being moved and moved are completely different things.

Personally, I feel that blindly giving cannot be exchanged for sincerity, and many times it is a waste of my time and feelings.

Blindly paying, you can't get sincerity. This will only make him think that you are stupid, so you need to ask for some. In this way, you can be valued.

Blindly paying, half of it may be exchanged for sincerity, it depends on what kind of person you pay for. Therefore, after seeing each other clearly, you should decide your feelings.

Blindly giving does not necessarily get sincerity, but will put a lot of pressure on yourself, make yourself very tired in this relationship, and even exhaust yourself.

Blind dedication cannot be exchanged for sincerity, true love is that two people love each other and respect each other. Your contribution to the other party feels that he chooses to be doubly good to you. It's just that you blindly give, and the other party doesn't respond, this means that he doesn't respect you and your love, he will trample on your love unscrupulously, and he won't respect your thoughts and decisions, so naturally he won't get his sincerity.

Not necessarily. Dou Mien, Shengmi hatred, this sentence has never been groundless. It's okay to pay, but blindly paying can only be exchanged for what you deserve, not worth it.

I think that blind giving may not be able to exchange for sincerity, sincerity requires two people to pay, in order to better love each other.

Blindly giving is actually difficult to exchange for sincerity, because many people will not take other people's contributions to heart, and will not cherish it.

No. Blindly giving will not necessarily be exchanged for sincerity, but may be exchanged for some people to intensify the harm. Love is originally a matter of mutual giving, and it is said that sincerity is exchanged for sincerity, so if there is a person who has no sincerity at all.

Blindly pay in love, both hard work and hard work, maybe your sincerity is a matter of course in the eyes of the other party, after all, he (she) has formed a habit of thinking that you should be good to him (her), and no matter what you do, you will pay for them as you have been, because in their eyes your sincerity is taken for granted.

Moreover, blindly giving not only cannot be exchanged for the other party's love, on the contrary, it may also cause the other party's disgust or even disgust. Because everyone is different, maybe some of the things you like you want to do are not what the other party wants, and it is useless to give without brains, just like Confucius said, "Do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself", it depends on whether the thing you pay is what the other party wants, in other words, it is to do what they like, as people often say, I just want an apple, but you gave me a pear, and you also told me that you gave me your all. Such a brainless blind effort may also make the other party look down on you and even cause disgust towards you, which is the saying "licking the dog", and in the end it is just a grand self-touch.

So, don't give a lot of everything you have to the other person. If you meet a good person, the other party will be very happy to accept your good and give you more love, so that two people can go both ways and communicate with each other in exchange for true love. But if you meet a bad person, bad character, then blindly pay is not worth it at all, there is no value, there may be people who will enjoy your good but hurt you things, they don't love you at all, just enjoy your good, wishful thinking is fruitless, and even make the other party feel that you have disturbed their normal life, and finally make an unhappy ending.

However, blindly paying may not be exchanged for sincerity, but not paying may not even have a heart, how to grasp the degree of paying halfway, it depends on the character of the other party, whether it is the person you want, they have something to attract you and you also have the same attraction to him, two people are appreciative of each other, then this kind of pay is valuable and meaningful.

No, really can't, that's how I came here.

It is that people have bad roots, and there is such a point in people's bad roots, that is, it is easy to despise things that are too easy to get, and they do not cherish what they get.

It's like when we are shining by the sun and don't think the sun is good, and when we are cared for by our parents, we think it's nagging. Because it is taken for granted,Effortless love is a bit humble, so humble that it feels like affection is cheap

You're a little bit nicer to him, and he's a little more tired of you. So we often say that what we can't get is the best in the world, the best for us in the world, the most selfless dedication is generally parents, if a man does this to us, it will make girls feel boring, in the eyes of girls, this boy is very unassertive, giving people a very weak feeling, so girls will not have any interest in such boys. Relatively speaking, women prefer men with higher IQ and EQ than themselves, and like people who can lead them in all aspects, and what girls need in love is surprise and adoration.

It is because of love, but it is not a manifestation of loveIf the other party is really wrong, excessive accommodation is not love, because I don't want to make too much trouble, and in the end I can only be silent. Excessive accommodation is tantamount to conniving at the other party's mistakes and willfulness, and the result is to lower one's own status in the other party's heart.

The right thing to do should be:Keep a moderate distance from each otherThe best relationship in this world is to maintain intimacy with each other at the same time, but also maintain an appropriate distance, and have the energy to constantly improve yourself. No one shouted and speculated because the other party's WeChat response was late; No one coerced the other party with a breakup because of his momentary cowardice.

People get along with each other, are in a comfortable psychological distance, no matter how good the relationship is, we must give each other space, too good to people will often inadvertently cross the boundary, making people feel pressure. If you think that you are not lonely when a person is by your side, it is dependent on him, and dependence will bring more problems. No one person can be relied upon to provide comfort in your time of need.

Even if he wanted to, he couldn't do it.

Man is born as an individual, and no one can rely on him for life except himself.

True love is not a blind take, nor a blind giving, but a mutual understanding and understanding. If you are confident enough, you will not go into a relationship to beg for confidence, but will spend more time managing yourself, and even have the courage to smile and say: I love you, so please keep your distance from me.

Only by living alone so far can we move towards the future hand in handWhat is independent and interdependent is love.

Here are my thoughts on love.

Why did I do so much and she was still indifferent or didn't like me?

I've always told my brothers that chasing girls is strategicLove must be paid in both directions, don't be self-moving, don't do without work, but there are always brothers who make mistakes.

Today, I will take advantage of this topic to answer the question of love and sincerity in love. I hope that the brothers will recognize it clearly and stop going around in love because of ignorance.

Sincerity is hard to find

Sincerity is like a beloved, but it can be met but not sought

We can plan the direction and use the right way to find it and encounter it, but instead of asking for it, the "sincerity" we ask for may be sympathy, charity, and compromise, and the false sincerity is destined to not last.

Although it is said that sincerity is hard to find, if the brothers want to get off the list quickly, they still have to step out.

Because if you want to meet someone who is in tune with you, someone who is sincere to you, you have to take action, and sincerity is not waiting for you.

Running in both directions is love

A person's contribution is not love, and no matter how much he gives, it is not. In a relationship, if only one person is giving, it is either a crush, unrequited love, or a licking dog. This kind of fate is well known to the brothers.

There is another situation where after giving for a while, evoking the other person's feeling of love, she begins to have a heart for you. But if it is a one-way rush for a long time, then you have to learn to stop losses in time.

Don't be moved by yourself, don't feel like I'm giving voluntarily, don't feel like you can not mind, and be in a humble relationship at first.

Can blind dedication be exchanged for sincerity?

You can directly brothers with this question:No!

If you want to give the brothers a little hope, Brother Ze can completely say: It also depends on the person and the situation. But the premise is: this person knows how to cherish, know how to be grateful, know how to give back, know how to accept and be willing to try.

But there is a real problem here

If you've been acting as a giver, you're bound to attract takers. And few people will take the initiative to cherish and take the initiative to give, most people don't know how to be content, and people are spoiled.

What counts as love? What exactly is sincerity?

The last question is more abstract, but it is true that there are many brothers, because they have no experience, because they are not sure, they always misunderstand feelings and miss love.

Brother Ze didn't want his brothers to suffer inexperienced losses, so he briefly talked to his brothers about this problem here.

Brother Ze's view is that love and sincerity are things that cannot be touched, but they can be felt with the heart. True liking can't be hidden, you can feel it.

If there are girls who are more introverted and more subtle in their expressions, you can't judge, but if you have a trace of uncertainty, then Brother Ze suggests that you ask directly, don't leave regrets because of misunderstandings.

Love is when two people are happy and comfortable together. Sincerely, there is no reason for you to want them to be good, and there is no reason for them to want to be good to you.

If there really is a reason for it, it is because of who you are, because of your qualities, because you deserve it.

Love is mutual, not which party blindly pays in exchange for sincerity, if you blindly pay, the other party will take it for granted, but not necessarily treat you with sincerity. Therefore, the relationship must be two-way, and only with such an emotional foundation will the future be happier.

No, blindly paying in love can't be exchanged for sincerity, it will only seem that you are getting cheaper and cheaper, and in love, only if both parties pay each other, can you receive love.

Love is not in exchange for sincerity, love is two people feel each other, if a person feels, for others to pay can get the other party's love, that is wrong, you send a signal, the other party should be able to have a good response, can resonate, this can be loved, otherwise you will lose the foundation of love.

It doesn't necessarily mean that you can get two sides of your heart. The first point is that if you blindly pay, you may definitely get sincerity, and the second point is that if you pay sincerely, you can only make him feel pity for you, and after the time for him to pity you, the rest is just abandonment.

Blindly pay in love can be exchanged for back, is it true in love, is it true that two people who can get back their sincerity should understand each other when they fall in love, and love each other is a sincere love.