What should I do if I become a buddy with someone I like?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-21
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    became buddies with the people I liked, but such a plot is very annoying. It's fine if you don't see each other often, after all, if you don't see each other and don't feel the feelings, you'll be bound, but it's likely that you'll see each other more often now, and maybe you'll be together shoulder to shoulder.

    I know you're struggling and don't know how to get better. You like him and want to stay with him for a long time, but you can't be what you are now. If he doesn't have a girlfriend by his side now, it might be fine.

    However, once you have a girl friend, your heart will be mixed. <>

    I don't know what kind of girl you are, but when I like a guy, I really can't allow him to have an affair with any girl, even if I just like it! At that time, if I was with another girl and he crossed the street holding someone else's hand (the kind of holding the arm), I would feel sad in my heart. Among a few buddies, he wants to hit a girl other than me, and I'm going to be sad.

    A lot of the time, I torture myself. <>

    Therefore, I advise you, girl, if you don't confess or see you again, the long pain is better than the short pain! It's okay that he likes you too, but if he doesn't have feelings for you, then this relationship will make you suffer a lot, a lot!

    Finally, I hope you will like you too!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's very uncomfortable. The most fearful thing is that you think it's a buddy, and he knows that you like him, but he just cuts off your thoughts in this way, that's really, incomprehensible. You have to figure it out for yourself to be rescued.

    So according to what you said, you have become buddies, you must usually chat and talk, in and out of words, you will definitely find out if he has a favorite person likes something like it, and how did you develop into a buddy, you think about it.

    If it's a matter of how you dress, you change it in the direction that your buddy likes, if you're a bold personality, you definitely won't deliberately change your personality because of this, so just be direct, tell your buddy that you like him, and let him not treat you as a buddy.

    Even if you are rejected, you can also decide the relationship in the future, you are willing to be friends and continue to chase it, it is okay, you always have the strength to like someone. Wouldn't it be better if buddies were just casual buddies, maybe after a long time, there would still be a chance. So like this kind of thing, don't do it, it's better to have a bad result than no result. Come on.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, how to say it, in fact, I will feel heartache, but I am also very helpless, after all, I have become a buddy, and it is impossible to become a boyfriend and girlfriend, so be a friend.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is possible that the "love" in your heart was "conceived" by yourself. Maybe the other person already knows that you have a crush, but they don't want to manage a relationship with you. It's possible that someone already has a lover, and it's possible that you're not the type they like!

    The other party treats you as a friend and doesn't want to hurt you, so they can only pretend to be stupid and let you learn to quit. If that's the case, even if you take the initiative to say I love you, the other person will laugh it off. will even reject you, and when the time comes, not only will you not be able to fall in love, but you will even fall into low self-esteem, and in the end you will not be able to be friends! ‍‍

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Becoming a buddy with the person you like, this kind of heartache is only known to you, your friend can become a buddy with you, which shows that you are in his heart, he does not have that kind of male and female affection for you, only friendship and brotherhood.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's very good, it shows that there is a fate to be friends, not a boyfriend and girlfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not bad that you like that.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Become a brother with the person you like, or you will fall in love for a long time, it is best for you to be together, or you will be friends for life, you can't cross the line, but watching him fall in love is an extremely painful thing, so I suggest that you can ask him euphemistically, you can ask him, if you can't find someone you like, or you will live with you, if he says yes, then he also likes you, if he says no, then you better change someone to like it, you are basically impossible, because he will not fall in love with you, It has nothing to do with the length of time, it is that there is no you in my heart.

    What should I do if I become a brother with someone I like?

    Become a brother with the person you like, or you will fall in love for a long time, it is best for you to be together, or you will be friends for life, you can't cross the line, but watching him fall in love is an extremely painful thing, so I suggest that you can ask him euphemistically, you can ask him, if you can't find someone you like, or you will live with you, if he says yes, then he also likes you, if he says no, then you better change someone to like it, you are basically impossible, because he will not fall in love with you, It has nothing to do with the length of time, it is that there is no you in my heart.

    Treat your crush as a brother.

    Forget it, I have the answer.

    When you realize this situation, you can go and talk to him directly, confess to him, tell him what you think, know what is in his heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Become a brother with the person you like, or you will fall in love for a long time, it is best for you to be together, or you will be friends for life, you can't cross the line, but watching him fall in love is an extremely painful thing, so I suggest that you can ask him euphemistically, you can ask him, if you can't find someone you like, or you will live with you, if he says yes, then he also likes you, if he says no, then you better change someone to like it, you are basically impossible, because he will not fall in love with you, It has nothing to do with the length of time, it is that there is no you in my heart.

    Hello. Become a brother with the person you like, or you will fall in love over time, it is best for you to be together, or you will be friends for life, you can't cross the line, but watching him fall in love is an extremely painful thing, so I suggest that you discuss you, you can ask euphemistically, you can ask him, if you can't find someone you like, or you will live with you, if you search for this fruit and he said yes, then he also likes you, if he says no, then you better change someone to like it, you are basically impossible, Because he won't fall in love with you, it has nothing to do with the length of time, it's because he doesn't have you in his heart.

    I'm a brother with the person I like.,It's the matter of last semester.,But.,He's in the same class as my sister this semester.,I'm going to my sister Yinshan sister asked him what the relationship between me and him is now.,He said it's a classmate relationship.,What should I do.。

    I've already confessed that I became a brother with him after he rejected me, and I just don't know what to do.

    Hello dear. Don't drag your sister to ask her what your relationship is. It's about making more use of it after school and getting in touch more. Find the type she likes.

    What is the reason for her rejection of you.

    He has a girlfriend.

    <> dear. If you have a girlfriend. Then it's better to get along with the brothers by attacking the brothers for the time being. If you have a girlfriend, you will definitely refuse to Zen Liang. After all, his mind is all about his girlfriend now.

    And I don't dare to talk to him for miracles, I like him for 5 years, I haven't said a word, his girlfriend is now admitted to the upper model and the first class, he didn't get in, and they are all in a long-distance relationship now.

    <> dear. Whether it's a long-distance relationship or not. Or how Tongxiang Bridge is like. Since you've liked her for five years. You didn't take advantage of the opportunity. Well, since he has a girlfriend. The fierce will definitely refuse to open your eyes.

    But he's scumbag.

    Then think about it. It's because of a long-distance relationship. He broke up with his girlfriend and went to be with you. Isn't this affection very light on you?

    Scum? How to say.

    If you're scummy, then I shouldn't refuse you.

    Then this situation exists for you for too long. It's all too familiar.

    You can talk about it.

    It is also convenient for the teacher to guide you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, you need to seriously consider the results of your feelings and actions. If the person you like also likes you, then you need to consider whether your brother will be hurt because of it. If your brother has a very strong affection for you or this person, then your pursuit of this person may ruin the relationship between you and your brother.

    You need to think about whether you are willing to sacrifice for the sake of friendship between this person and a brother.

    Secondly, you can be honest with your brother, say that the person you like also likes you, and see if your buddy can understand and be tolerant. If you both have very strong feelings for this person, then the two of you can negotiate how to deal with this in a way that does not ruin the friendship between you and your brother and gives both of you a chance to pursue this person.

    Finally, you need to be clear that there are consequences to what you do and what you do. You can pursue someone you like, but you need to consider how your guild will affect the relationship between you and your brother. Whatever you decide, you need to carefully consider the consequences while respecting your brother and yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's better to make it clear to your brother as soon as possible, you don't care about this matter, because it's not the female round hunger type you snatched from your brother, but you and the girl are in love, your brother has unrequited love for the girl, and it seems that you can't see the limbs, it's better to be frank and make it clear, even if your brother Tangchai can't accept it for a while, he should understand you when he calms down.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In this case, you have to weigh a good brother and a woman, whether the brother is important or the woman is important, under normal circumstances, knowing that the brother likes it, he should not pursue it anymore. So good luck to you

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