Can love be perfect after betrayal Can feelings be good after betrayal?

Dude, sympathy, my girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years, and we have been separated for three years.

The reason for the breakup is also that she chats with friends of the opposite sex more ambiguously, the reason why we will split and merge is because she said she doesn't listen, but she is a very simple girl, and she is also very loyal, for this reason I have been reluctant to let go, the longest time to break up is half a year, the last time I finally saw through, she repeatedly added the man's QQ four times, each time I deleted it, she added, the chat content is very normal, she also confessed that she felt that the man was self-motivated, very hard-working, so I appreciate him very much, I just can't stand why she cares so much about a friend of the opposite sex, and it's been 4 years since the fourth breakup. What I want to tell you is that nature is really hard to change, and when I tell you my story, I tell you that you can't change your own perspective, and she can't change it. Maybe she is also more simple and kind, in fact, it is useless for you to ask this, are you willing to break up now?

Do you not divide your ears? Have been there and told her not to take an example, otherwise you can still be divided and combined. Be decisive, do what you do, don't be reluctant.

Otherwise, you will lose more, (entangled with her, you will lose more time, in the end, it will be empty, and you will lose more opportunities to meet others) If you like someone, you will feel that she cannot be replaced, this is a normal mentality, but it is not. Pure manual,Hope,Sympathetic buddy.。。。 I wish you all a long time together this time, and that's all I can do.

As a woman, I can't even speak for her.

People don't change, at most, they are hot-headed when they are in love, and they have done a lot of crazy things for their beloved.

But people don't change.

It's been five years, in fact, you have already seen through her, but you are attached to this long-term relationship, thinking about her good aspects of yourself and the deep affection you inject into her.

After experiencing a long-term unsuccessful relationship of my own, I feel that many times I have seen through a person but still can't let go, in fact, I just can't let go of so many feelings that I have already invested.

But after leaving decisively, although it hurts, it will always heal.

And if you stay with him, it will become endless pain, and you will always worry about his change of heart that may come at any time.

When trust is gone, love is half broken.

Letting go at this time is also the least hurtful to yourself.

Long pain is better than short pain, obviously she treats you as a spare tire, you don't have to say anything to love her, loving her is just a habit, after all, it's been 5 years. It will be fine after a while, solve it as soon as possible, it is no good to delay, maybe you can find the real other half as soon as possible. As a bystander, I hope my advice can help you, and as for whether to accept it or not, it depends on you in the end.

Good luck.

Brother is from the past, brother told you that it is absolute, there will be a second time if there is a first time, and dogs can't change eating. Not married yet, that's it? Married for decades and still have it?

Say goodbye buddy, or you'll regret it! You're not missing arms or legs. Don't do it yourself!

Your family will never harm you!

Good horses don't eat back grass, the nature of the country is easy to change, why hang yourself from a tree when the forest is so big, don't be a spare tire twice.

Don't believe it anymore, that's definitely a mistake, I'm a person from the past.

What is lost and found is always a second-hand item.

Can the feelings of betrayal go back to the way they were?