Spotting can change relationships???

Interpersonal relationships are managed by yourself, and in ordinary life, you should be sincere to everyone around you and don't have too much prejudice. There may be some people's behavior that you can't agree with, but you have to consider that everyone's life environment is different since childhood, you can try to think from his point of view, maybe you will have different feelings.

Of course, a person's personality is also an important factor in communication, and a lively and cheerful person feels very optimistic and can bring happiness to the people around him, and such a person naturally has a lot of friends around him, right? But relatively silent people can also give people a very quiet feeling, as long as you joke at the right time and have more contact with everyone, it can also be changed, you can try.

Interpersonal communication is both an art and a skill.

People have the desire and need to communicate with others, and people are social people So if you want to do a good job in interpersonal relationships, you should first understand that everyone has the need to communicate. Sincerity is the most important thing in interpersonal interactions. At the same time, it is necessary to understand that people interact with each other out of the need for profit.

Of course, this interest is not necessarily material or economic, but also psychological, spiritual, and emotional interests. Knowing this, you will be sure in the process of interacting with people, and you will not be too demanding of others. Tolerance is the lubricant of interpersonal communication.

Actually, there are a lot of interpersonal skills, but I'm just going to talk about a little bit, you can read some books on this. There are many such books on the market. I think as long as you treat people sincerely, you will definitely gain good interpersonal relationships.

1. Understand the eight human natures:

Human nature 1: Human nature likes to get, not to give;

Human nature 2: Human nature likes self-expression and does not like to be persuaded by others;

Human nature three: human nature likes to be cared for, loved, and respected;

Human nature four: human nature likes to be praised, recognized, and does not like to be opposed;

Human nature five: human nature is inherently curious;

Human nature six: human nature likes to enjoy, not to endure hardship;

Human nature seven: human nature is safe, and does not like to be deceived;

Human nature eight: human nature likes kindness and hates viciousness.

2. Eight elements of building good interpersonal relationships.

1).Smile (remember to smile);

2).the demeanor of praise in speech;

3).Be compassionate;

4).Listen quietly;

5).gaze;

6).remember someone else's name;

7).Do unto others as you would have them do to you;

8).Treat others the way they want to be treated.

I don't think it's necessary.

As long as you have your own personality and your own uniqueness, why wear anything.

And it's winter, and you can't stand out with anything.

Do you want to attract attention or do you want to change relationships?

Relationships are made by communication, not dressing, if you like to dress up, then you seem to be impractical, not worth socializing, and you will have nothing but money with you.

Communication requires good eloquence + good behavior = good interpersonal relationships. You don't have to think about what to do to change your social communication by changing your attire. This can be counterproductive.

The first thing you have to do is to improve your self-confidence, which makes people look energetic and attractive, and people want to associate with you and want to learn something from you. At this time, your interpersonal relationships will naturally be good. You know why?

Assertive! Give yourself the confidence to put it!

You are yourself, and you don't need others to dictate you.

Decorations! ~

It has to do with what kind of people you have around you!

If you have a lot of vanity around you, you should bring more sparkling decorations that can be fake. Especially crystals, imitation diamonds and so on.

If you have a lot of young and fashionable friends, you should be a little more individualistic and always keep an eye on the current fashion trends.

If there are more stable people around you, you should choose some more tasteful jewelry, preferably antique! (However, antique is not necessarily suitable for everyone, and some people will have the opposite effect.) ）

If you're lazy, send me a picture of you! Maybe I can give some practical advice! e：