What does it feel like to see someone you ve liked for a long time have a significant other?

I guess my heart will suddenly slash with thunder. There will be a moment of helplessness, helplessness and sadness, and all kinds of feelings will be mixed together.

I've had a similar situation with you, and I've also liked a guy for a long time, and I always feel that I am dirty and may not be worthy of him, but I haven't mustered up the courage to confess to him.

Sometimes if you like a person, you want to watch him silently and learn everything about him, and you will follow him silently to understand what he likes, what he doesn't like and what he likes to do the most.

Every time the eyes collide inadvertently, I feel that at that moment, the heartbeat has stopped, so that the whole world has stopped, the whole person will begin to blush, the heart beats faster, and it will be shared in the group of friends, the eyes of the male god collide inadvertently, the whole world feels like it is risking, and will silently pay attention to his circle of friends every day, as soon as he posts some news, he will feel whether he is unhappy today or very happy today. <>

Just like him silently, like him for a long time, suddenly when a certain opposite sex appears around him, the whole person will be mixed with all kinds of unhappiness, sadness, grievances, but sometimes when I think about it, I haven't confessed that I like him something, it's normal for him to have a girlfriend.

But whenever I see him walking with other girls, there will still be a grievance in my heart. Maybe it's because of something, I like it for a long time, and I have that feeling of being taken by others as my own.

When you like someone, confess it, while you're young, there's nothing you dare not be your friend in the world, so from now on, confess when you meet someone you like. Let the past pass, liking a person time can make you like him, and time can also make you forget him.

When you are young or not, you will more or less experience a secret love, the kind of timid and secretly happy mood, the kind of anxiety that wants to confess but is afraid that you won't even have to do it as a friend. How many nights have I made up my mind that I will confess tomorrow, and it is also a knife to stretch out my head and shrink my head, but when I really meet tomorrow, I will talk about it left and right.

The consequence of having a crush without confessing is that one day, the other party has a significant half, and those who have experienced such a mood will really understand.

Amoy told me the story of the past after drinking, and she was usually reserved and restrained, and only after drinking too much alcohol did she become a little more talkative. She said that she once liked someone for a long time, and she met during the summer vacation of her junior year of high school, and a group of people went to work for summer vacations, and they worked for eleven or twelve hours a day on the factory assembly line, and only ate together on weekends off. The other party is a classmate's classmate.,Sven is clean.,Very good at taking care of people.,It's the type she likes.。

After chatting a lot, I naturally became familiar with it.

After the summer vacation, I went my separate way and went to different universities. When I first went to college, I was always a little homesick and missed those people from my hometown, so I naturally chatted about the world, the north and the south, and hobbies. Girls are always easy to like the day that chats with her all the time, and that person is different because she shares her joys and sorrows.

But she didn't dare to confess, maybe because of the distance, maybe because she couldn't be sure of the other party's intentions, and she didn't feel safe.

Just dragged and dragged it all the time, wanting to get close but not daring, wanting to retreat but reluctant. Until one day, the boy posted his ** in love, and the mood at that moment felt so ironic, sad and reluctant, but there was a feeling of relief. Finally, finally I don't have to toss and turn anymore, finally I don't have to guess and test your mind anymore, finally I can let go of you one day, and finally one day I lose you completely.

However, I still want to bless you, although it is not me who will accompany you in the end, I still hope that you can be happy.

Because of his cowardice, he didn't speak his heart! The guy doesn't know what you think, and he has his own girlfriend. That feeling is heartache.

The hero in his heart ran away and became someone else's supreme treasure, of course, his heart hurts. It was a sad feeling because he was no longer alone, even though he had never belonged to himself.

People who have liked it for a long time have a other half, and their hearts are more than half empty, like a sunflower without sunlight, and its hanging head is unable to lift it up again. When a boy has a significant other, it must instantly shatter all the visions and fantasies about them in your heart, like a self-directed and self-acting one-man show, and it has already come to an end before it officially appears on the big screen.

The person you have liked for a long time has a significant other, it is like a bolt from the blue, for you, you should be very envious of the girlfriend who is now with the boy, that person, and got the person you have always dreamed of. For you, there is nothing you can do but watch him happy from afar.

Before that, you may have a boy looking at you and your heart will beat for a long time, and if you say a word to you, you may be happy for a long time. And now, the boy you love has a partner half of his, and you have to let yourself give up all the delusions about him. Once, you were looking at the boy alone from afar, and your heart was happy; And now, you're looking at the guy and his girlfriend from afar, and your heart is sour.

But now you are helpless, maybe you will regret why you didn't confess to the boy in the first place? Maybe then, you'll be the one standing next to the boy right now. But there is no way, if you miss it, you just miss it.

I still hope that everyone can be brave with their love, don't wait for it to be sad and sad, try to confess, maybe there will be surprises. May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married.

Maybe you will be unwilling and feel that you are to blame for not confessing, if you confessed at the beginning, then maybe there will be a chance. So, learn a lesson, if you like someone, you have to be brave to express it, I think many people lack the ability to express their likes well, and always think about the consequences of confession too seriously.

I used to think the same way, but then I watched a variety show in Japan called "Confession on the Rooftop", which means that middle school students or elementary school students can go to the rooftop and confess loudly and say that they like another person.

The people I see who go to confess, no matter how the other party behaves, he is brave and serious to say what is in his heart, even if the other party does not accept it, they also express themselves, and in the end, whether it is crying, letting go, or being together, I can see the relief on their faces.

And the person who is confessed also listens carefully to the other party's confession, and then responds seriously, even if it is a refusal, it will not be perfunctory. In this show, I not only saw the personal growth that comes with having the courage to express myself. I also saw the kind of mutual respect between people, even if it is a relationship between liking and being liked, there is no such negative emotions as humility and unwillingness to give.

This is something I rarely see in our country.

Our country's film and television programs always reveal a concept that the one who likes it first loses, which really affects our generation, and that kind of implicit that is unique to Chinese has led to all kinds of misunderstandings. If these misunderstandings are not resolved, they will be deeply rooted in the heart, and then continue to grow.

If the person I like finds someone I like, I probably think it's a feeling of letting go! From now on I can die! If you feel unwilling, then it proves that your previous practice is something you can't agree with in your heart, and you must learn to express it bravely!

I think it's the ultimate pain, and it's the ultimate relief.

When you like someone to the extreme, so long is enough for him to occupy an irreplaceable position in your heart.

Gradually, you will feel that you have not only liked him, but made his presence a habit. You are used to having a person in your heart, who is a ray of light in your heart. It's an obsession in your mind.

You've always made him your goal, and you've always fantasized about meeting him one day and talking to him. It is also possible to fantasize that one day he suddenly comes to you, and suddenly confesses to you on a beautiful spring day when the peach blossoms are falling.

At this time, just imagination can make you happy.

Although sometimes you know that you are unlikely to be with him, as long as he is still there and the dust has not yet settled, it is possible after all.

However, one day, there is really a person who appears by his side, so that you realize at that moment that you and him are impossible after all, at this time, you finally understand that he does not belong to you after all, no matter what, every day to find out to meet him, but, you who do not have the courage to confess, maybe you have no emotional foundation, want to be connected, slowly come together, how difficult it is.

You may feel heartbroken, you may feel unbearable, you may feel that your heart has become empty, as if there is no way forward.

What a painful thing it is, the goal that has been chasing for many years is suddenly lost, and the feeling of emptiness is so heart-wrenching.

But after that, you will feel a relief.

The relationship that has not ended for many years finally ends on this day, and you can finally pursue your true happiness.

It's fun to think about it.

Complex human hearts.

This feeling is probably sour.

You like him, but you can't get him, you can only watch other girls with him. Everything you fantasized about what he could do with him became a bubble. All the good dreams, the things that we want to achieve together will never happen again.

Thinking about this, I feel so uncomfortable that I can't speak.

Seeing him and that girl appear in front of you hand in hand, you can't do anything because you have no position, you are not qualified to do anything, you can only watch. I really wanted the two of them to separate quickly, but I couldn't do anything myself. I was angry, but I realized that I didn't seem to be in a position to be angry.

When you know that the moment two people are together, you feel very sad in your heart, like the feeling of loss that should belong to you and suddenly become someone else's, there is no way to express it in words. You don't have your own position to have anything to do with him, and you don't have the right to dream of him again, even if you dream of him, you can only be a passerby.

I will also have regrets in my heart, after all, I have liked it for so long, but I have never had the courage to confess. It's very remorseful to think about it, if I had confessed to him at the beginning, would it be the two of us who are together today? At this time, I especially wanted to turn back time, so I hurriedly rushed to him and confessed to him, saying that I like you.

The feeling is sour, bitter and salty, and you can only force yourself to forget. A lot of good things are over before they can become memories. This kind of sourness is probably only understood by myself.

That kind of remorse will haunt you again, and you will always be in a state of regret. So crush is really a sour and bitter process.

I can't know how you feel, but maybe I can tell you a story about me.

When I was in my third year of junior high school, I fell in love with a boy in our class, and I was very timid at that time, so I didn't dare to confess, so I could only be friends with him silently.

At that time, in order to be able to have a common topic with him, I even researched what books he liked to read, what games he liked to play, and which football star he liked, and then I could look them up one by one, and then I could pretend to know how to talk to him when I was with him.

In fact, the homework I did at that time really worked, because we shared common topics and hobbies, we became very good friends, and agreed to apply for the same high school.

At that time, my grades were not as good as his, and in order to be able to go to the same high school as him, I got up early every day to study at the street lamp near the dormitory. Later, I got my wish and was admitted to that high school.

After high school, we weren't in the same class, he was upstairs and I was downstairs. But that didn't stop us from communicating on a day-to-day basis, sometimes we would write letters to each other, and sometimes we would chat together at the door of the classroom after class.

At that time, it was very popular to fold stars on campus, and I followed the trend and folded 999 stars, and my hands were pierced with a small hole at that time.

One day, he came to our class to look for me, and he was embarrassed to take out a letter to me, and my heart moved, thinking if he was going to confess to me?

As a result, he said that he had fallen in love with a girl in our class and wanted me to help him pull the red line.

I was like a stick at the moment, and my heart ached, and I couldn't hold back the tears.

Eventually, I gave the letter to the girl, and they were really together.

The night they were together, probably because they were shy, they asked me to go to the playground with them. The two of them walked in front, and I followed behind. Later, when I returned to the dormitory at night, I threw away the stars and bottles that I had folded for him.

How can I put it in that way, it's like I saved my favorite food at the end, and when I was about to eat it, someone else snatched it and ate it. It's like a hole has been dug in the heart, and the wind passes through it, and it hurts.