Why is my boyfriend very loving, but I m not happy about it?

When women are in love, they are selfish and selfish want to occupy all of their boyfriend's time, and your boyfriend is so loving, it is inevitable that he will worry about this and want to take care of that. So you're not happy at the time.

Everyone wants to have something unique, and everyone has their own selfishness, hoping that what belongs to them is far less than themselves. At the same time, everyone also hopes that they will always be the one who is treated specially, based on these three points, I believe that every girl does not like to have a ** air-conditioned man, unless she is really a super virgin Mary, except for the species of super virgin heart.

My boyfriend and I are class lovers, so usually the two of us have a similar circle of friends, and we all know each other. Before we were together, he was a very enthusiastic person who loved to help his classmates, and then after we got together, there was a class cadre in our dormitory who felt that it was his roommate's boyfriend, who would talk better, and always asked my boyfriend to help with some hard work, and he didn't cover food, although I didn't care about it on the surface, but I still hoped that he could refuse the girl's request, but he was always on call. One time I got angry, and I asked him if he had a crush on someone else's girl, otherwise why he was so positive in doing things.

He shouted that he was wronged and said: I think she is your roommate, so I usually help you and give you face. I still feel so angry, I said:

You're not chasing me now, you're going to give yourself extra points by pleasing the people around me in this way. Although I said that, I felt so in my heart, but I also think that you are my boyfriend, and it is okay to be positive to me in doing anything, but I am not happy if you are positive to others, and you are not her boyfriend.

In fact, every girl will have this kind of careful thinking, because human nature is selfish, and no one is so generous that they are willing to take out their things and share them. And, especially in terms of their boyfriends, private heaters are always more popular than air conditioners.

At this time, you may feel that your boyfriend is a **air conditioner. He doesn't put all his love on you, you feel like you're jealous of yourself, and you're upset. That's when you need to understand your boyfriend.

Compared to him, it seems that you are not so loving, and you are worried that he will think you are cold and ruthless.

Maybe he doesn't think you're doing enough, or maybe he thinks you're not doing enough.

If you directly say that you hurt your feelings, you can only remind you from the side.

It is entirely understandable that because he realizes that his love is not enough, he will try his best to do loving things. You should encourage and support his good deeds and do them with him! After a long time, maybe he will confide in his heart and tell you about his past, but it is not recommended that you ask him, wait for him to say it himself.

I think you can't blame your boyfriend for this kind of thing, because there are a lot of people in society who think they are very enthusiastic, and this is what we often call righteous people, so if you are really unhappy, you should have a good talk with your boyfriendBut I think you should also feel glad that you have such a loving boyfriend, which shows that he is a really kind person.

But on the contrary, if you are really troubled by this matter, I think you can have a good talk with your boyfriend, and hope that he will be able to restrain himself in the future, like Guo Donglin's sketch before, the person he performed is a more enthusiastic person, so I think if your boyfriend is also such a person, you should still be thankful, because there are very few good people in society now,It's often people who like to watch the excitement, and I believe this is also an aspect that attracts you.

Just like a friend of mine, he often likes to do some good deeds, but he can often do this thing badly, but he is often happy to do it, so he is still very popular among all of us, that is, one of us is a good old man, no matter who needs his help, he will help, so I think there are still a lot of friends like thisIt is very useful for him to help him in his future life and work, because after all, one more friend is one more way.

So I think you should tell your boyfriend that you want him to do good deeds, you should pay attention to a degree, and you shouldn't help with everything so much, which will often affect your normal lifeAnd it will affect the rhythm of your life.

Just tell him that you don't like him doing this, and it will cause you to resent it, and he will know.

You can directly tell your boyfriend that you don't like it, there's nothing you can't say.

Show your attitude and opinion, tell him directly what you think, and let him make his own decisions.

Say it directly, I'm really embarrassed to say it, just write a letter directly, or we'll break up.

I think it's very likely that he is not the person you really like, maybe you wanted a boyfriend very much, so you were with him on impulse, and then when the impulse passed, you will find that you don't like him, so naturally you will not be happy, on the contrary, there will be a lot of troubles.

I don't want to be upset and entangled, because I didn't understand it at the beginning, but now I don't know how to be mature, and now I have no regret medicine.

That's because I didn't meet the right person. When you meet someone who likes you and you like, life will pass quickly, and you will be content, happy and relaxed every day.

He can't satisfy you, or you find that you don't really like him very much

Does it feel like there is a distance between the two?

Because he's not the man who makes your heart flutter!

Is it your boyfriend who is bullying you?

Hugging you can make you feel secure, and he can also get psychological comfort, proving that he is a more delicate person and pays more attention to emotions. You treat him well in the future, otherwise he will be vulnerable easily, he will hug you, and you will satisfy him.

Maybe this is his way of decompressing, which shows that your boyfriend is a very cultivated and stable person.

When you encounter something unhappy, your boyfriend just wants to hug you, that's because he thinks he only has you now, you just rely on it, looking for comfort!

When encountering such a situation, it is actually when Ren's boyfriend is seeking comfort, and he encounters something unhappy, and a hug may bring psychological comfort, and it will also bring enough security, I think it is a better thing.

Because he is unhappy and doesn't want to talk, he hugs you, and he will think that he is lucky to still have you, only you can give him some comfort!

She means to give you comfort and give you a sense of security.

Because from a boy's point of view, I really don't know how to comfort a girl, a girl's temper is too weird, and you can only be comforted by hugging.

Maybe he thinks that hugging you is the greatest support for you.

He's telling you that there's no problem, and if anything, he's your most solid support.

Maybe he wants to comfort you, and if he doesn't know how to say it, he will give you a warm hug.

It can be seen that your boyfriend is not only loving, but also very good at thinking from the perspective of the lover and the other person. He encounters something unhappy, but he never complains to you, and he doesn't snub you because of this, which shows that he cares about you very much in his heart, even if he is injured outside, he doesn't want you to accompany him to be sad, so he chooses to hug you silently, as long as you are happy, it doesn't matter if he is hurt. He's a good man.

When you encounter something unhappy and your boyfriend just wants to hug you, it means that your boyfriend has no practical solution, and your boyfriend can't bring you a solution to the dilemma and can't do anything.

Who is unhappy? He? He wants to hug you and find comfort from you.

Because it is completely unworkable for ordinary girls to encounter unhappy things and reason, they can only hug and comfort, and they can only analyze and analyze their mood after this period of time, and enlighten her is the best strategy.

Because he thinks that giving you a hug can make you happier, maybe he can't think of any other way to relieve you. Understand each other.

Find someone to be quiet! Even men will have times when they are in a downturn, they need a hug or a shoulder to lean on.

Because his emotional intelligence is not high, if it were me, I would say, go, go eat something delicious with me, or who upsets you, let's go and kill him together, although the hug looks warmer, but it is only a superficial thing, and it can't get inner resonance.

Maybe he doesn't know how to persuade you, and he won't talk too much to make you happy, but when you are sad, he will always give you a warm embrace and tell you that he is there.

Hugging can make people feel safe and can calm down.

Hugging you is also a warmth to each other, some boys are like this, he doesn't like to confide, he just thinks that a hug from his girlfriend is comforting to him, no need for words or anything else.

Because he thinks you are his warm **, such a boy is very good, and he doesn't want you to be affected.

I'm also drunk, don't let her, I have to let him change it, although it's a good thing to be loving, but it's a bit too much for the little bugs!

Some people are like this, they are more loving, and I have a friend who also goes out, and if he sees someone picking flowers or something, he will talk about it. But you can talk about it, there's no need to be angry with you about it.

If you're in love with someone and they just make you cry, you're in love. If you fall in love with someone and they will only give you money, then you are in love wrong. If you fall in love with someone and they cheat on you again and again, then you are in love wrong.

In fact, a good relationship is very simple, it will make you laugh and make you feel secure. After a long time, you will understand that the best man is actually nothing more than being honest and reliable.

It's a bit too much, and being loving to this extent is basically a disease.

The man is angry with you or because of such a little thing It can only be said that he is immature He is not generous He doesn't love you You will definitely not be happy with such a man He doesn't know how to tolerate She has no patience with you.

Your boyfriend is a little paranoid, right? Won't he be even more angry when you kill a fish after that?

Maybe he was a worm in his last life, but now he just has some residual memories

If it's just a weakness that can be completely masked by an advantage, then you can change it. After all, when the two are together, it is necessary to tolerate each other.

You told him that it is a pest, don't love, it is a beneficial insect, protect it well, accumulate virtue and do good, I admire it.

That's a good thing....It's a reluctance to kill....Accumulate virtue and do good.

Is that love? That is called being sick and being cured.

Explain that this will not be the case in the future.

It is normal to love someone if you are unhappy when you are close to him, and when your boyfriend refuses, it will not create a danger to you, and you will sympathize with him to show that you are kind and loving.

It only shows that your boyfriend is very good, you are also very proud, and you can be proud of your competitors, which means that you are also very good.

Maybe that's called empathy. But your boyfriend is happy. ，

You are kind, you don't have to worry if your boyfriend really loves you, your boyfriend knows that you are a good girl.

I can only bless you! Lucky woman.

You are very kind, talk to her, show that you have a pitiful and hateful opinion of him in your heart, if she is not interesting, talk about it, you are the eldest and she is the second.

That's your vanity, and your possessiveness tells you it's mine.

You are a good, sentimental woman.

Each has its own world, space! If you like him, you will learn to tolerate, understand, love, and trust! Sticking together every day, it's not good to say it's good, and it's fun to say it's not good! Ay! Love! It depends on the mood!

If you can't help it, just let it go, it's very simple, maybe you can't get true love.

Take care of him, men have to take care of it, and men have to take care of it!

Learn to tolerate, and if you can't tolerate, you can divide!

You also love with him, and if he realizes it, then you can be honest.

I am also a man, and I have too much love, which means that he is a flowery man, a man who is irresponsible to his family, and does not deserve your love.

Talk to him about what you think, and he will feel your thoughts.

Love needs to be measured, and if you smoke a 10-dollar cigarette, would you give alms to someone who smokes an 11-dollar cigarette?

Wait for him to get you! Slowly, there will be less love!

Have you ever loved you? If not, let's divide it.

Tolerance, there is no way to be handsome,

Tell him not to give love while you're there!

Too much love? Refers to half-heartedness? Or is it the same for every girl as it is for you?