Isn t it a lull?????????

It's so easy to think of breaking up Do you love him? Or only care about how he treats you Love is to be attentive You can go out and play without spending money It depends on how you treat this relationship Give each other time to care more Don't be too sensitive.

Valentine's Day is coming soon, and I wish you all a happy holiday.

Is it that you are too fast-paced to say that he doesn't love you, but what you want is sweet words on the surface?

Hit ** every day, then there are so many things to say, what should be said in 5 months will be said in 1 month.

It shows that you don't know about real love!

He may not forget his former girlfriend. Bless you.

Falling in love is not a vigorous thing.

It's all romance dramas that get the goods.

It's all for 1 month

After going to bed, I just admit it.

Speaking of which, it's not for nothing that a lifetime is sweet.

After being together for a long time, there are not so many words.

The so-called lull period is that habit becomes natural, and the heat of both parties in love decreases. There is no specific indicator to measure the dull period, and it varies from time to time and from event to event, but the occasional bend in the dull Hu Chan will turn into a period of passionate love, which is why there is such a thing as a broken mirror reunion.

The dull period of love refers to the fact that two people in love can not find that relative freshness after the hot love period. In this way, you will enter a dull period of love, in which there is no type of Chang Wu and there is no too much happiness in the Zen seed of Nacha.

The flat period is not as hot as the hot love period, and I don't feel that I particularly need to regret the simple prescription, and every relationship will have a flat period, which is determined by human physiology, don't worry, you have to be full of confidence in your feelings.

It's just that the two are still together, and they are also in love. Qingfu but there is no feeling of being a deer bumping into each other and missing all the time, that is, the period of love. The lull period is when two people are together plainly.

Personally, I understand that the lull period is the time when it is usually quieter, which is collectively referred to as the lull period.

The low season is 3-6 months, but some people are longer or shorter.

Generally, love will go through three stages, the run-in period.

The hot love period and the flat period, many couples will break up if they can't survive the flat period, the man's flat period is generally within 3 months, and the slowest may be half a year, in this period, girls may also be experiencing a flat period, and the boy's performance in the flat period is basically a perfunctory reply message, no longer sticking to you all the time, it is obvious that he is not as attentive as before. Girls must deal with the dull period, and if they can survive the past, the general relationship will be stable.

Off-peak periods should be more attractive.

When a relationship is in the pursuit stage, your attraction to him is at its highest. But after two people get along, there will be a brief decline in your attractiveness during the lull. A good-looking and attractive girl will be attracted by the continuous appreciation of her appearance and the feeling of chasing by the other party, and the shelf life of the relationship will be relatively extended, which can also re-attract him who has lost his chase with you.

So when a man is in a dull period, you don't watch silently, but dress yourself up to enhance your attractiveness, so that the other party's eyes will focus on you again.

Twelve to eighteen months is a lull period.

The twelfth to eighteenth months of a couple are the flat period; As the two of them became more and more mastered, there was a bone on the lover's body, which was clear; Therefore, at this time, the emotion between the two will fade out, and it will become weaker and weaker; Because in each other's hearts, there is no initial freshness; Whether it is a good area or an ugly area, it will be carved out in each other's hearts; Therefore, the two will become more and more faint, and it is not easy to get tired of being together every day.

After the eighteenth month is the period of boredom:

When love burns to a certain situation, of course, there will be a situation where the wife dies; The two are together, loving because they don't understand, and they don't like because they understand; Between the two, because they know too well, they will understand many of the flaws of the other side, and they will understand many areas where the other side is insufficient.

Therefore, in the hearts of lovers, they will feel that the other party is not as good as they imagined, and they are not as beautiful as they imagined; Therefore, gradually, there will be friction between the two people, and of course, they will have a tired state of mind, and they will feel that they are unwilling to go down.

Whether you are a man or a woman, the eighteenth month after a couple is the boredom period; At this stage, between the two, all of them are very mastery; The good and the bad are clear between the two; At this time, boys have the idea of looking down on women, and women also have the experience of being bored with boys; In the eyes of lovers, all they see is the flaws of the other party, not the advantages of the other party.

It is at this time that between the two, the probability of breaking up is very high; If there is a slight disagreement, the two will fall apart.

Twelfth to eighteenth month.

The twelfth to eighteenth months of a couple are the flat period; Because there is more and more understanding between the two people, in the body of the couple, there is a bone there, and it is all clear. So at this time, the relationship between two people will fade down, and it will become weaker and weaker.

Because in each other's hearts, there is no original mystery. Whether it's a good place or an ugly place, it's all carved in each other's hearts. Therefore, the two of them will become more and more faint, and they will not get tired of being together every day.

The deeper the love, the more there will be a low season; After two people get to know each other, there is no sense of mystery in each other's hearts; The things that should be known are already clear, and the things that should be understood are also understood thoroughly.

So the feeling between two people that you are strong and I am strong slowly becomes more and more bland and tasteless; In the hearts of men, they don't think about being with women every day, and in women's hearts, they don't feel too much about being with men; So between the two people, they don't feel how important each other is.

The relationship has entered a dull period, and two people begin to look at each other unpleasantly, why can't the other party take the initiative for themselves, they don't want to please, and they don't cherish it. Therefore, gradually the heart will be cold. In fact, many couples will enter the dull period of love, whether it is a long-distance relationship or cohabitation, which is a necessary stage of love.

The teacher wants to tell you that this is a normal phenomenon. Entering the lull period is because the two people are already familiar with each other and have no sense of mystery, so naturally there will be no expectations. In addition, due to the long-term relationship, they will ignore each other's strengths, start to stare at each other's shortcomings, and reduce their attractiveness.

Nowadays, what we need most is how to get through the lull period, so that the relationship can be freshly energized and become more durable.

Questions. How to solve such a problem?

If there is a way, don't rush.

One: Propose to the other party that the two of them will be separated for a period of time for the time being, two: communicate more with different people, understand the thinking of different people, and third: improve oneself and create a sense of mystery.

Plain is happiness, and the more plain it is, the more it can't be separated.