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The root cause of moodiness is stupidity. Emotionally unable to understand the feelings of others, have no sympathy, cognitively do not understand the principles and rules of life, and mentally are not accustomed to controlling themselves. The essence is a physical defect, and the external manifestation is stupidity.
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This is called subjective overconfidence, objective evaluation.
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No one likes to be around a moody person. It's hard to get along with people like the stupid. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that a companion is like a tiger, and the reason why it is said is because as a high-ranking person, he can be unscrupulous, do things as he wants, and act recklessly.
Getting along with such a person, not to mention the happiness of the potato itself, even the safety cannot be guaranteed. Therefore, whether the partner's mood is stable or not means whether the person is mature and reliable and can be trusted.
Emotional stability is too important. On the premise of emotional stability, we can better think about how to deal with or solve the problems we face. If the mood is unstable, there may be a big dispute, which will further intensify the problem, which will be more detrimental to the solution of the problem.
Of course, this also applies to all kinds of relationships, e.g. between relatives, friends, etc.
At the same time, bad mood is contagious. Bad emotions not only hurt yourself, but also others. Because in the case of a bad mood, there are often irrational behaviors such as saying some cruel words, and these behaviors also greatly hurt the other party's heart.
It's like a sentence "Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June".
Of course, the phrase emotional stability should also be added to the sentence that a good mood or a neutral mood needs to be stable. If a person is always in a bad mood, the person with whom he gets along will also be miserable and gradually move away from him.
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Moody people often lack the basic judgment of which to pin or off. If you look at a bad thing yesterday, you can turn your face like a book the next day, overturning all your previous logical foundations. This is because his so-called judgment before the delay has no real logic and lacks professionalism.
It's hard for this kind of person to keep him the same.
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We usually use the term moodiness to describe a person's personality, who is emotionally unstable, irritable and changeable, and it is difficult for such a person to associate with. An emotionally unstable partner can seriously affect the mental state of mind of the other half, leaving the other partner in a psychological situation of worry, throbbing, anxiety, and fear at all times. If a couple is emotionally stable, then their marriage will also be stable and happy.
Emotional stability means thinking more rationally, not looking for trouble, and not getting angry. It is necessary to analyze the problem first, rather than to be angry first. I won't say anything too much to my partner and give them more respect.
If there is dissatisfaction, express it in humorous language, and the other party will understand it in seconds, and even if they break up, they will not tear their faces.
People who are emotionally stable are good both internally and externally, and they are the same as the next. Internally, he will not rehash old accounts during quarrels, he will not lose his mind and expose your scars, but you will discuss the matter on a case-by-case basis, analyze it rationally, and resolve it peacefully.
Externally, when he encounters an incident, he will not panic, but will calm down and reflect on how to reasonably avoid risks, still less will he bring home the unsatisfactory situation in the outside world, and let the people closest to him bear the grievances he has suffered.
The highest level of prodigal in love is probably emotional freedom.
If you have emotions, you don't hide them, you don't let the other party guess, you don't vent them indiscriminately, you are happy and aggrieved, and you are sad and angry, all of which are expressed in an appropriate way.
However, more often than not, it is the person who loves you who will not let you fall into emotional restlessness and anxiety, and he will definitely pull you behind him at the moment when you are at a loss, and face the emotional storm alone, like he gets into the cabinet under the sink and repairs the sewer, you hand him a wrench, like he is standing on a chair, changing the light bulb, and you are holding on to the chair.
You know, even if it's your fault to be emotional, he will stand by your side without hesitation and help you deal with those embarrassments, embarrassments, and unhappiness, because he understands you, and what you share is not an emotional breakdown, but that you trust him, so he will not throw this trust into indifference and be blind.
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Joy, anger and sorrow are human nature, and everyone has their own emotions. Some people, when faced with emotions such as joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness, react very fiercely, and are full of joy and sorrow, which are completely expressed in words, expressions, and behaviors. They dare to stand up and stand up for unfair things, and they can show a sense of righteousness.
1. People who are truly strong and emotionally stable will show a chic or solemn look because of their clear and heavy hearts. If the heart is clear or dignified, the brain will be clear, the thinking will be accurate, and the judgment will be accurate. Such people often succeed in their work, and their future is certainly bright.
2. People who are truly strong in heart and emotionally stable tend not to squint, have delicate eyebrows, and have a radiant complexion. When they look far away, it is like the autumn sun shining on the endless frost sky, which makes people feel relaxed and happy: when they are close, it is like spring returning to the earth, full of vitality.
When these people deal with things, they will give people a sense of calmness, fortitude and decisiveness, unfazed in chaos, and fearless in danger, just like a tiger stepping into the mountains; They get along with others, they become one with others, but they are not drowned in the crowd, like an eagle soaring above the sky, always so eye-catching.
3. People who are really strong in heart and emotionally stable have a sitting appearance and a standing appearance. The ancients said that sitting like a clock, walking like the wind, lying like a bow, and standing like a pine. It means that the requirements for sitting are steady and dignified, the requirements for walking are fast and powerful, the requirements for lying are quiet and natural, and the requirements for standing are tall and imposing.
This kind of person, when he is silent and resting, is calm and relaxed, and his joy, anger and sorrow are not shown on his face; Speak indiscriminately, not impetuous, and be able to deal with everything around you naturally.
is a man with a famous morale.
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