How to learn to love someone and love someone with your heart

Loving someone is not about whether you want to be or not, it is that you really have love that hasn't come there, if you really have love, you don't have to learn how to love yourself with your heart.

One of the languages of love: the language of affirmation.

Psychologists have said that a good word is worth a thousand nonsense. When your lover is a person who uses affirmative words as a language of love, only your praise, praise and encouragement can make him feel love, and when he returns home after a hard day's work, you sincerely say to him, "Husband, hard work." "I find myself loving you more and more.

With words like this, your lover will feel full of love and will love you even more.

Love Language No. 2: Take Time.

Do you recall that your lover expressed wish you would give him more time? If yes, then he just needs your time to prove that you love him.

For example, after work, you don't go into the study or accompany the baby, but take a period of time to go out and live a two-person world together, and you look at each other with your eyes, so that the other party feels that all your attention is given to him, and he will feel that you love him. Many people who get married tend to ignore this, and most of the men and women I see looking at each other in the restaurant are couples, and most of the people who are looking around and absent-minded are husband and wife.

Like is to say it out loud, to vent your feelings, to let the other party know you, see you, always want to snuggle together, talk about love and excitement at this moment.

Love is to give in obscurity, to miss, to consider all the practical things from the realistic level, not to be entangled in fantasy, to accept each other's shortcomings, and to slowly run in, so that both parties can finally fit together.

Love is that even if you want to send a message now, you will think about what your partner is doing, whether it will disturb you, you will control your possessiveness, give your partner enough space and time, let him (her) do what he or she wants to do or should do, let it fly, and will not be afraid of wind and rain, because there is you behind you, the rainbow is always after the wind and rain, and happiness is inseparable from the foreshadowing of tribulations.

Distance produces beauty, true love must know how to operate, only looming will make people fall in love from time to time, Lushan true face, do not pay attention to details, no matter how beautiful love will be exhausted that day. Looking for romance in the ordinary, looking simple, ordinary, but inseparable, with a lifetime of nostalgia, this is the true meaning of true love.

If the two love for a long time, how can they be in the morning and twilight, be patient to love, not presumptuous, not impatient, not random, use time and space to water, let love have life, to care for together, you have me in your heart, I have you in my heart, each other has each other's existence, raise eyebrows, hand in hand to old age!

To love someone, you don't need to be prosperous and rich, you just need to give him an intimate greeting to love someone, you don't need expensive gifts, you just need to give him a wordless hug to love someone, always think about him, think about what he is doing, and from time to time he will appear in his mind i---inject into it.

l---loy.

o---observant intentions.

V---valiant brave.

e---enjoyment joy.

y---yes Yes.

o---Obligation Responsibility u---unison harmony.

Everyone wants to be able to find a partner in their hearts 100%, love someone, understand and understand;

To apologize, but also to thank;

We must admit our mistakes and correct them;

Be considerate and considerate;

It is to accept, not to endure;

It is tolerance, not connivance;

It is support, not domination;

It is a condolence, not a question;

It is to confide, not to accuse;

It is unforgettable, not forgotten;

It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything;

It is to pray silently for the other party, not to ask for many of them;

It can be romantic, but don't waste it;

Feel free to hold hands, but don't break up casually.

After separation, can I come back?

If we can't come back, what should we do?

I don't dare to expect that I am the one who will stay with you all my life, I just hope that I have given you the most poignant feeling

It's easy to spoil someone, you can just dig it out, but it's hard to love someone, you have to understand him, you have to love him, you have to hide your inner worries, while encouraging him, stumbling all the way, you have to suppress the joy in your heart, and at the same time be strict with him.

Treat it with your heart! Love for a person comes from the heart, and only with the heart will you know how to love.

You love him (her). If it's true. Then you will naturally be very attentive. It doesn't have to be intentional.