What opportunities have you missed in those years?

When I was in high school, I participated in the university's independent admissions, because the exam questions felt particularly difficult, and I basically relied on guessing when I answered the questions, so I didn't have any hope after the exam, and took the train home directly, but the result was the first to last exam, I was very entangled at the time, and finally decided not to participate in the interview, and now I feel sorry for it, even if I hope that it is a small opportunity, maybe I can get in.

I got married and got pregnant in the year I graduated from college, and I accompanied my classmates to the job fair, and I saw a very good position and a good unit, but I gave up that opportunity because I was pregnant. Now that the child has been born, I want to look for a job, but I find that I don't know where to start. Now that I have graduated for so many years, people value more experience.

I remember when I returned to school after graduating from high school to fill in the file, I met the boy I liked, and I wanted to confess to him, but because I was too cowardly, I didn't have the courage to talk to him. We never met again, so my crush was just a dream of my own.

When I graduated, I was a student with good grades in school, and then I studied computer science, and my classmates and teachers said that I was suitable for development, and then gave up.

I missed an interview a year ago, and that was that there was a good company that asked me to go for an interview, but I didn't think that company was worthy of it, and I didn't go to that company, and I regretted that it was very good.

5 years ago, my college entrance examination score came out, and I did very well, but at this time, my father fell ill and needed to be hospitalized**, but the economic conditions at that time were limited, and hospitalization required a lot of money, so I took out the money I wanted to go to college and wanted my father to get better quickly. Now that I think about it, I never regretted it, because family affection is more important to me.

Missing the dream university of your life is just one point away.

The cut-off score was 661, and I took the 66 test.

They all said that I was good at math, maybe I was a bit out of the subject.

That day I was going to do the subway, when I was in the subway station, there were more people, and the young lady came to me, I turned sideways, and who knew that there was a beautiful girl behind the young lady who was in a particularly hurry, and I bumped into each other. Hurriedly walked by, I felt that I missed adding her WeChat.

Opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared, and for our young age, I think many people will miss out on a lot of opportunities due to their youthfulness.

When I was working, many customers wanted to poach me to work in the past, and one of them especially recognized me that you were careful, professional, responsible, and the conditions were very attractive, but because of the address, I still gave up, and now I regret it.

Busy lifestyle: Some people may be too busy with work, study, or other important things to have enough time and energy to find opportunities in a relationship.

Social difficulties: Some people may be unable to connect with others due to social difficulties, anxiety or other mental health issues, which can lead to many opportunities for relationships.

Lack of self-confidence: Some people may lack self-confidence, dare not confess to the person they like, or feel that they are not good enough, and thus miss the opportunity to fall in love.

High standards: Some people may have high expectations of themselves and their partner and find it difficult to find someone who meets their requirements and thus not fall in love.

Reluctance to compromise: Some people may be reluctant to compromise on certain aspects, such as geographical location, religious beliefs, occupation, cultural background, etc., which may limit their chances of a relationship.

Choosing to be single: Some people may choose to be single because they like an independent, free lifestyle, or they haven't found someone they really like.

Bitcoin halving is a recent major event in the currency circle, but it has passed so calmly, and the bull market that everyone is looking forward to due to the halving does not have any feeling, and history will not repeat itself as scheduled, and those who missed the 2017 big bull market in the currency circle may not have such an opportunity to break out in this life.

In my spare time, I recall the bull market scene at that time, like a dream, the assets are doubling every day, and people are talking about small goals, villas by the sea. One by one, they are full of spirit, as if the world is in my hands. However, with the abrupt end of the bull market, one by one they all returned to their original shape, and most young people began to look for jobs, but they no longer had the intention of working, and once rushed to the a8a9 that was leaking from the limbs, and it also became a5a6 in seconds, and even lost back with interest.

The roller coaster is always going to fall back to the original point, but the heart that rushes to the apex can no longer get down.

Missing the explosion of wealth, to be precise, should not have grasped it, and the impact on us was far more than we felt at the beginning. The income from working on weekdays is nothing compared to the wealth effect at the time, and it may take ten years of hard work to return to the original height, and most people may not be able to do so in this lifetime.

What's even more difficult is in the mentality, the frog at the bottom of the well took a look at the edge of the well, and since then he has suffered from a terminal illness. Seeing the outside world but not being able to grasp it, sometimes it is better to be a frog at the bottom of a well.

So what do we do? What do you need to do to live your life well?

Missing the explosion of wealth is a consequence, not a phenomenon. The reason why we missed it was because we didn't have the ability to grasp it at that time. You're just lucky enough to meet a man who is heavily armed and bare-handed, and the fate is not the same.

It is better to retreat and close the net, and now start to arm your brain with knowledge, economics, finance, politics, history, philosophy, psychology, brain science, etc., to hold great wealth requires great wisdom.

Go for it and try to seize the next opportunity!

Zhihu has seen such a case: in 2011, a girl asked a question on a certain forum, a junior student has 6,000 yuan in hand, what is good financial advice?

A netizen replied: Buy Bitcoin, save the wallet file, and then forget that you have 6,000 yuan, and look at it in five years.

In 2011, Bitcoin was worth $3, and five years later, in 2017, it jumped to $10,000, and now it is $10,000, an appreciation of more than 10,000 times.

The college girl who asked the question did not go to buy bitcoins, but took a 6,000 yuan scholarship to ask a friend to go to Hangzhou to play.

And the core of this problem has invested all the wages of his own fictitious family to buy bitcoin.

Similar examples include 06 years**, 09 years of buying a house, 10 years of e-commerce, 11 years of developing apps, 12 years of self-development, 13 years of micro-business, 15 years of virtual currency, 16 years of live broadcast, 17 years of short**, 20 years**, etc.

Almost all missed, sorry? It's a pity to pat your thighs.

Even if I go back in time and bring these opportunities back to me, I may still miss them.

Because missing out is the norm, grasping may become a leek. Cognition and work determine the way of life and the consciousness of each circle, which is like a mountain across the line.

If you take a closer look at the people who have seized the opportunity to get rich, you will find that the vast majority of them have already accumulated something on their own in an industry, such as connections, technology and capital.