My husband is so stubborn that he insists on his wrong behavior when he talks to him, what should I

Hehe, in fact, there are two sides to this problem.

First, on what basis do you judge his behavior as wrong? Is it your subjective consciousness? Or is it an objective situation, such as his insistence on doing something that led to bad consequences.

If it is the former, it means that you are also a person with a strong sense of subjectivity, and you have not been able to consider what he has done from your husband's point of view, and you are just judging right or wrong by your own standards, which is very one-sided.

How to fix it. You can try to look at some problems from his point of view, and then follow his train of thought, and maybe you will find something different.

If it's the latter, it means that you lack the habit of communicating and solving problems, at least your husband doesn't have this habit, he only does things according to his own ideas, and if it sounds good, it is called dare to persevere, and if it is not good, it is stubborn.

How to fix it. Be ruthless, let him bear the consequences a few times, and don't let him use any excuse to convince himself to help him clean up the mess (of course, this is still a scoring situation, if the consequences are particularly serious, then the two of them still have to solve it together), so that he clearly understands the damage or harm caused by his actions to himself and his family.

Because a person's temperament is not easy to change, as long as he does not realize his own problems for a day, then he will not reflect on himself for a day, and if he does not reflect, there will be no change. And if a person wants to be soberly aware of his own problems, the only way to let him suffer setbacks again and again, the growth in setbacks is the fastest and most effective, no matter how much others say, it is in vain.

But what I'm afraid of is that if a person doesn't change his life, then there is no way to speak of it, only to look forward to making his heart more mature and rational through age.

OK, either let him empathize, or do what he says, do it wrong, or don't feel that he is wrong, this person is not saved.

If you want to save this marriage, you must know how to tolerate your husband's character, and you must also accept his too paranoid personality.

The most feared thing in marriage is the reluctance to communicate, if he is unwilling to communicate, I think you can try to quarrel. Then, speak your mind and throw the question to him and let him think.

You should have a good talk with your husband and let him listen to your thoughts, because you still have to go on and your husband will definitely make changes.

The most important thing in marriage is to communicate, if the husband is too paranoid and unwilling to communicate, it is indeed very difficult, at this time you have to tell him whether you still want this marriage, if he doesn't care, then there is no need to redeem it.

What should I do if my husband is stubborn and difficult to communicate? How can I get him to make a change? When a child has a problem, there is always one of the parents who learns first, understands that most of the children's problems are the parents' problems, and knows that as long as the parents change, the children will change.

This is best if both parents know about it. I believe that the child will soon get out of the current situation. But in reality, we often meet people who can't help and can't help, what should I do?

My lover is very stubborn and can't communicate with him, what should I do?

Husband and wife conflicts: I will get to know the person who has been with me for so long. We seem to be more than ten years old, and if parents don't know their children, this fact is unacceptable to children. If you don't know your lover, you have a human touch.

After all, in his more than 40 years of life, you have been with him for more than 10 years, and at other times, you just listen to himself or his family, etc., and what the specific situation is, is really something we can't really understand.

Of course, no matter how we know him here, we can't know him in the same way as we know a child, but we can see that some of the characteristics of the child are his, and these characteristics are brought by him from his parents. (William Shakespeare, Hamlet, family) Anyway, it doesn't seem to be able to change, what do you know him for? It is clear whether it is easier for adults in their 40s to change or for children in their 10s to better help children.

It is clear that the child is consolidating certain characteristics.

We found that he conveyed bad traits to his children. Then we need to correct the child in time. Don't let bad traits affect your child or even the next generation of your child.

At the same time, when you get to know the person in front of you, you will feel a lot more at ease. He is your choice. Before he got married, after he got married, he was still the same person.

But you feel like he's changed. Because you have also changed, it is normal for him to change. But when you look closely at him, you will find that the stubborn him has not changed much, and he is still the one who makes you swoon.

Meet me again Why did I get married to her He got married When you relive the sweet and romantic moments, your heart is tender. You don't hate his itchy teeth as much as you do now. You won't resent him.

George Bernard Shaw,) There must be your reasons why you chose him in the first place. It must be something about him that attracts you. You are attracted to each other (George Bernard Shaw) think about it.

What are his characteristics that appeal to you, and now, what are them? Why can't I feel it now? After so many years of training, what kind of person has he become?

Why did he go from the person who made your heart to the person who now makes you resentful?

Try to accept his shortcomings, the relationship between husband and wife does not have to be in a relationship, many shortcomings will be magnified for no reason, many shortcomings can be tolerated during the relationship, and it may become unbearable in marriage, this is the awakening of normal consciousness. But if he is the one you love a man, then consciously accept this awakening from your heart and accept some of his shortcomings. While this won't fundamentally solve his stubbornness, at least your calming down will make a lot of things easier.

I think you try to tell him the truth, and if he doesn't listen, you punish him with the consequences and make him have to make changes himself.

You should talk to your husband appropriately and show your feelings. Tell him where he stands, so that the husband will change accordingly.

Truth is a rule that is relatively recognized by bai, and you have du your reason, he.

There is his reason, you think that dao is your truth, he thinks his Tao is also right, answer So, your lover is just a person with a strong sense of face, and is very sensitive and stubborn, especially when the reason you give him is no longer a suggestion, but needs to affirm and change his direction, he will be more extreme and protect himself tightly, no matter right or wrong, he will stubbornly stick to his own ideas.

Therefore, the fundamental reason is not that your lover is unreasonable, but that he cannot accept affirmative advice positively, and cannot allow direct negation of his own ideas, if these two points exist, not to say that it is reasonable, it is completely adding fuel to the fire and making a problem more extreme and contradictory.

For people with such a personality and habits, it is not necessarily really unreasonable, but it can only be said that there is a problem with your way, and you are very self-conscious, and it is easy to be emotional, expecting him to be able to correct it, and turning the suggestion into a kind of accusation and criticism, so it will make the other party lose patience and even provoke him.

The way is very important, even if it is to guide others, give others opinions or suggestions, the correct expression and way can really talk about the truth, and since it is a suggestion, it must be based on the other party's ideas, their own ideas as an auxiliary analysis, and very clear and correct, to be able to convince the other party with facts, he may not change a decision, at least a really good way and expression will allow the other party to listen, to be able to assist in thinking, and then it is possible to slowly improve.

Happiness Bodhi Garden, the guide to happiness lost.

Then you follow his strength, don't come up to him, let his own views contradict his own views, and that will be easy to do.

I think your husband belongs to the big man type, even if he is wrong, he will not bow his head and admit his mistakes, if you want to overcome it, don't go toe-to-toe with him, when he is stubborn, you avoid it, and don't have a head-on conflict with him.

This is only a good communication, there is no way This kind of stubborn person is indeed a bit nerve-wracking.

When he is in a good mood, talk to him calmly and help him improve.

Enlighten him well. He will always have weaknesses, and it is much better to let him change slowly on his own than if you force him to change.

Either you change him, you accept him, or you leave him.

The country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change. . .

The husband's ability is boasted. You should support your husband when he does things;

If you want to give your opinion, it's up to you to say it.

If it were me, I would say so;

I think it's good to ask my relatives to help, and that's what I think. Your own people can be trusted, and you don't leave outsiders in fat water, I think you are a very emotional person.

But now there is a problem that we have to solve, otherwise we will not be able to work, what will you do if your relatives are disobedient, if you resign them it will be thankless, haha ugly.

Hopefully, this advice will be helpful to you.