Why do people always grow up in wandering?

No matter how strong and powerful people are, there are hesitations, there are positive and negative, happy and unhappy, happy and troubled, hesitation represents that we are growing, will hesitate about the future road, what kind of person to become, in short, read more books and read more books is right, make a plan to create your own path.

When we encounter adversity, we must always observe it, and only when there is adversity in the world can we achieve Bodhi, and without adversity, we cannot achieve Bodhi. Thank you to those who hurt you, ignore him, let him do it, and the other party will get tired over time. No matter what he says, we laugh it off and keep a free heart.

Therefore, sickness and affliction are to be observed; Good times and bad times should also be observed. Don't be afraid of life, accept the reality, have the courage to face everything, overcome yourself, and you can get new changes. Life is actually beautiful.

There will be a lot of sadness in the process of growing up, and when you have the courage to face and experience, you will really grow up.

Hesitation is necessary, human growth must go through this process, and the Jewish "Talmud" says that there is a fear of consequences before true wisdom can be generated, this truth is obviously not possible in a society like China at present, in fact, if you know how to use this, you will really surpass most Chinese.

If you feel hesitant, it's proof that you're not grown up, and when you don't feel hesitant, it's proof that you've grown up, and that's what everybody has to go through, and let it be.

Because people always want too much, and everything is too beautiful.

Yes, you will go through a stage of confusion, probably in college, and after that, it will be your own way.

We are all growing, and the more mature we are, the more choices we will face, the years will strip away our fortresses, and the care of our families will be taken, so we will face more and more setbacks, more and more failures, more and more cold eyes, and more and more perseverance. However, we still have to live, so in order to live, we have to move forward step by step, just like walking, we see the first ray of sunshine, we reap happiness, harvest success, harvest satisfaction. But when you achieve a goal, you tend to get more and more lost, because we have to continue to explore and keep searching, so we become lost.

There's a good saying, give it to you, maybe you're tired, it's because you're walking uphill.

I think people really get more and more confused.

Recently, I have this feeling, I am currently a graduate student, although I go to the laboratory every day, and I take a few professional classes on time a week, but I always have a sense of confusion, I don't know what I want to do in the future or in the future.

People say that people who have no long-term worries must have near-term worries, although confusion and anxiety are not good, but this also marks a person's growth from a child who does not think about anything to an adult who thinks about his future.

I think when you are confused, you might as well think about your original intention, or ask for the opinions and suggestions of the people around you to determine the goal of your efforts.

Confusion is not terrible, what is terrible is the inaction after confusion.

It's not that things happen the same as people get older.

As long as you have a sane mind.

You won't feel lost.

This is a normal phenomenon in everyone's growth process, each of us will have such a process, as time goes by and we get older, we will find more and more direction in life, and we will feel more and more lost.

First of all, the goal is uncertain.

In the process of growing up, we will become more and more unaware of our goals, maybe we can't be sure of our goals at this time, maybe we don't know what our goals are. So we feel like we're getting more and more lost as time goes on.

Secondly, there is no direction in life.

In the process of growing up, everyone also finds the direction of life in exploration. When we grow up, we may feel that we don't know what we really like, and we don't know what kind of person we will become in the future, so we don't know where our life direction is, and we feel lost.

Again, the future is bleak.

There are many possibilities in life, and of course there will be many uncertainties, and these uncertainties cause many people to feel that their future is very slim. In addition, as you grow older and the pressure of life increases, you will feel that your future is uncertain.

It's not terrible to be confused, it's terrible to lose yourself in confusion. Many people lose themselves in confusion, and they can't find their own direction in life more and more, and they don't learn to improve themselves, and finally their lives have no direction at all. We must always remember:

We need to make ourselves worthy, not desperately bury our heads in earning money. Don't lose yourself in confusion, but make yourself stronger in confusion!

Definitely, the more you grow up, the more things you will encounter, and you will definitely be confused when you encounter trouble.

Sometimes, because I didn't have any worries when I was a child, I wouldn't have the pressure to survive, but when I grew up, I would.

I think so, because the older I get, the more I think about it, and the more I carry the burden on my body.

If you have a big goal since you were a child, you probably won't get more and more confused. You still have to have your own plan, so that you don't have to hesitate.

Yes, I feel like it's a process, and everybody goes through it.

It should be, only when you enter the society will you find that your dream is really out of reach.

People are not necessarily confused as they grow up, but they think about more things as they grow up, and thus feel confused about life.

I feel like I'm at a loss right now, I don't know what I want to do.

The more you grow up, the more confused you feel, because when you grow up, you will find yourself farther and farther away from your parents, and you are full of unknowns about the future.

Yes. It is said that the more you grow up, the more confused you become, and growing up is never good in people's mouths, as if you will lose it when you grow up, and you will have a lot of trouble if you can't help yourself. But for children, what they want most is to grow up, as if adults can buy snacks and toys they like.

I used to think that I understood those words, that if my friends were not around, I was lonely, and I was confused when I was uncertain about my choice. Now that I think about it, I was like a childish ghost pretending to be an adult at that time, thinking that I understood everything before I met anything, thinking that being unlucky was helpless, and thinking that I had experienced wind and rain without an umbrella.

Growing up is a slow process, inadvertently, little by little, day by day, until suddenly one day we look back and realize, ah, we have gone through so many years, what time has taken away, and what has been left behind.

If we look negatively, we will feel that we are confused, and if we look positively, we will feel that we have learned to take responsibility. As for the confusion when you're thinking about how to do it, why do we think about it, it's probably because you find that it's a responsibility that you need to face. It's not so much that I'm confused, but rather that I don't want to face it and don't want to accept growth.

Each stage will have its own characteristics, growth is inevitable, think to the sunshine!

This year, I am twenty-seven or eighteen, with a salary that is less than the upper and lower than the bottom, and I live a quiet life, after a long time, I really think that I don't need a man anymore, and I am too good, but when I see him, there are still ripples in my heart.

He was still as handsome and excellent as he had been seven years ago.

He sat on the edge of the bed, the computer in front of him was open, the coffee in his hand had bottomed out, I knew that he was better than seven years ago, but this excellent person had nothing to do with me, it should be said, it never mattered.

I still remember seven years ago, I confessed to him, I actually said, with you, I will work harder to program, become a programming witch, he looked at me, couldn't help laughing, why are you a junior or so naïve, programming is not appropriate.

Just a few words, euphemistically rejected me, I knew it wouldn't work, I wanted to know my heart before he graduated and left.

Seven years ago, he was an excellent senior, a handsome senior, a hard-working senior, it is precisely because I met such a person that I can have my current achievements, it is by relying on his admiration that I have insisted on coming to this point, a bit like the little thing of first love, there is such a person who will always inspire you.

He took a break from work, his head twisted to the traffic outside the window, and when I saw him again, I didn't bother him, I knew that I was still not as good as him, even if I was better than him, but it still had nothing to do with love.

So thank you for his appearance, which did not give me love and gave me the direction and motivation to struggle.

I messaged my best girlfriend and I saw him and he was still so handsome.

My best friend was about to sigh, thinking that I was determined to hang myself on a tree, but I didn't expect me to say that I was finally no longer stubborn, I could look forward, after so many years, what I wanted was to see this side again.

I waited until I was twenty-seven or eight, and I could finally wait for my love, and even though I was twenty-seven or eighteen, I still wanted to wait for my love.

<> first met Liu Tong through watching the popular show "Job-to-Job". In the show, Liu Tong looks delicate, thinks quickly, and talks properly. At a young age, he became the vice president of Guangguang Media, what kind of ability did he rely on to make such a young man stand out and appear on the talent stage to recruit talents for the company.

So, "Whose Youth Is Not Confused", "Your Loneliness, Although Defeated", and "Towards the Light", as soon as they were published, I immediately started and read them all night. I have to say that the years that my brother experienced after graduating from college are exactly the period of confusion that young people are experiencing.

After reading these works, what I want to recommend to current college students the most is the book "Whose Youth Is Not Confused".

It tells the story of Liu Tong, a young man who graduated from college, who successfully counterattacked through ten years, and dedicated it to those who are in trouble, looking forward to getting out of the trough, and restless.

Liu Tong used his own experience and his own efforts to tell everyone: everyone has the confusion of adolescence, and people in the confused period can only face the reality, recognize themselves, and continue to struggle, and have the opportunity to counterattack. Liu Tong's past ten years have symbolically embodied a period of confusion and hesitation that young people must go through.

Liu Tong said: "It's right to feel lonely, it's right to feel confused, whose youth is not confused?" Therefore, young people should not be afraid of the thorny road ahead, but think about not hitting the south wall and not looking back, and go all out.

When we look back, we will find that in our youth, there are tears, sweat, joy, chagrin, and pain, but we do not regret it, every step of the footprints in our youth is very thick, every heavy rain in our youth is magnificent, and every face in our youth is the most lovely.

Thanks to Liu Tong, thank you for "Whose Youth is Not Confused", and took me out of those hesitant years.

All the past.

It's like a yellow calendar with dropped pages.

No one will glue it together with pages of memories anymore.

My brother. You're all ** at this point.

I think of you a lot.

Although we don't have that much contact.

I know you're all busy. Actually, I'm the same.

Every day, I am desperately saving for the future.

Maybe that's called growth.

We may have gotten too much joy.

We must not be relaxed by the pressure given by society.

Our parents taught us that we couldn't communicate.

But don't forget those dreams we had from the past.

No more failures, we just need to succeed.

It's not small. It's kind of alive and understood.

Reality. That's the original intention of the dream.

Believe it. Maybe our frustrations are different.

But our hearts are still hot.

Countless nights. You and I have never been able to sleep for our ideals.

Only the more you experience, the stronger you become.

Days together. We have nothing but presumptuous and happy.

When you're gone, buddies know what it means to be lost.

You're strong. Just like Che Guevara.

The more difficult it is, the more the first to destroy the lead.

Days in the crew. I think it must be difficult.

No matter how heavy the burden is, you will endure it.

Just for two words. Man. Fearless.

Nothing is afraid. We're from the South City.

Also, heavy rain.

I feel like we're at odds.

You and I know why.

You don't have to hide from each other.

You know you're my best friend.

It's true. When together.

Never think too much.

Even if the joke has been made.

Doesn't matter. It's so normal.

You have proven your efforts.

No matter for whom, you've already carried the burden.

You don't have a pattern in your life.

You take care of yourself.

We are not outsiders.

You are my porcelain.

The most precious thing in the world.

It's friendship. The most invincible thing in the world is our friendship.

You said that. There are no cowards in us.

Never falls.

The world belongs to us.

Later, he had a son.

I'll tell him about it again.

Your Uncle Zhang, Uncle Yang.

The most awesome. The most godly.

Three people. It's like a triangle.

Which direction to take out your hand.

They are all the best.

Be participating.

Rich. Youli is good.

There is face. When it comes to the end, the code will be coded.

Ha ha. That's all.

It's still a long way to go.

I don't know how much pain and pleasure they will be.

Listen to porcelain. We're going to have to hold on.

Those who don't obey us.

They're all watching.

People who love us.

They were all waiting.

Let's walk step by step in a down-to-earth manner.

Our way. We walked on our own.

Anything will be there.

It's true. What do you say?

Listen to porcelain. We're all going to have to hold on.

Someone is watching.

Someone is waiting.

All of us. Walk up.

Anything will be there.

It's true. What do you say?