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After marriage, the wife has no right to dispose of the husband's property without his consent. It is a personal freedom, and the wife should not control the other by controlling the husband's property, as long as both of them are filial to their parents. I will definitely be able to get married.

Buddhism often says, "Blessed people live in blessed land, blessed land and blessed people live", a blessed person, no matter where he is, ** is a good feng shui; A person who has no good fortune, no matter how good the feng shui treasure is, it is also a futile effort. Because, good fortune is not to be sought, let alone robbed, good fortune is self-cultivation, only after accumulating enough kindness and merit, good luck will come often.

In the view of Buddhism, there is a way to increase blessing and eliminate karma the fastest. This way is to be filial to your parents. Filial piety to one's parents is the greatest blessing in the world, and it is better to serve one's parents at home than to burn utilitarian incense far away.

The Buddha said that in this world, the greatest good will not be greater than filial piety; The greatest evil will not be greater than unfilial piety. A person who is not filial to his parents has an unkind heart that runs counter to the Buddha's heart, so no matter how much Buddha he worships and burns incense, it is difficult to get blessings.

In Buddhism, it is often said that life is a process of fate, and the so-called no fate, no gathering, no debt, no come, which can also be understood as the cause and effect we often say. Whether we are parents or children, the fate of parents and children is either to repay debts or to ask for debts, and they owe each other, so they meet in this life and become parents and children. The Buddha said:

If there is no Buddha, serve your parents well, and to serve your parents is to serve the Buddha, and your parents are the greatest victorious blessings in the Three Realms.

Therefore, no matter whether our parents have given us a surplus life, whether we have food and clothing without worry, we should be grateful to our parents in this life, grateful to our parents for their hard work in giving birth to us, and grateful to our parents for their hard work in raising and teaching. As written in the song "Cause and Effect of the Three Worlds", "What is the cause of deafness and dumbness in this life? In his previous life, he scolded his parents viciously", "If there is no sense of cause and effect, why should he save his mother".

Then someone said that my parents did not give me good living conditions since I was a child, made me suffer a lot, nor did they give me a happy childhood, and even often violently faced me, and my current achievements are all my own efforts, and have nothing to do with my parents. Therefore, I feel that my parents have not been very kind to me, and there is no need for me to repay them. This could not be more wrong.

As the old saying goes, "filial piety comes first", even if our parents are wrong in their words and deeds, we should not blame them, our parents gave birth to us is our greatest kindness. As for whether oneself will be blessed or suffered, isn't it one's own karma? If you want to know the cause of the past life, the recipient of this life is; If you want to know the fruits of the afterlife, this life is.

Regardless of whether our parents are right or wrong, we should not be disgusted, but should know them with reason, move them with affection, and warm them with filial piety.

The boyfriend's family is doing business and the family conditions are relatively good, and he is cheering and unwilling to hand over his financial rights, which means that your relationship is not very in place, and you cannot dominate your family, so you should let your boyfriend know your plans for the future and the control of financial power.

With the right heart, you marry him for money, or for people, go straight to the money, this will make people look down and be more reluctant to let go, if you have the ability to ask for it is all yours, if you don't have the ability to just want to get that can only be the sun and moon in the water, put your mentality right, married to you, there is no need to give others their hard work to give you for free, how much you pay will get how much you will be rewarded, just think about your own ability.

This has nothing to do with the conditions in his family, it is related to the trust between you and each other, if he is not willing to use the property rights together, then it means that the foundation of your marriage is not strong, and there is not much point in getting married in this case.

The boyfriend's family conditions are good, it is his parents' hard work in exchange, people are unwilling to pay financial rights, it is also human nature, if you get along well after marriage, and especially trust you, people are willing to hand over financial rights to you, then it is better, you should enjoy your treatment.

If he is unwilling to hand over the money, there must be no way, he himself thinks he has the ability to manage the property.

I think even if you get married, you shouldn't be constrained, after all, everyone has their own independent life and space, and it's very positive that your boyfriend doesn't want to hand over your finances to you, I think the best way is to have your own financial income!

Whether the financial rights of a man and a woman must be handed over to the woman after marriage should be determined by the person or go with the flow, because everyone has different requirements for financial management or financial rights. After marriage, it is recommended that each of them have financial freedom, if the family does have a large amount of money to spend, your boyfriend will definitely pay for it, and the husband and wife must not control whom, tolerance, understanding and trust are the foundation of marriage.

Why do you have to come to the financial power? The fact that the family is in business shows that the ability in this area is okay.

Wouldn't it be nice to be your carefree young grandmother?

Especially if your family conditions are different from his, you can't take this right.

It's a good thing that your boyfriend's family conditions are good, as for who will be in charge of the financial power after marriage, that's a matter for the future, and now you're not a member of someone's family to talk about this, isn't it a little early?

As for whether the financial power will be in your hands after marriage, it depends on your ability.

One looks at your status in your husband's heart, and the other looks at your ability. As long as your ability is worthy of the status of your in-laws, you don't need to say it, sooner or later the financial power will belong to you.

The family conditions of the boyfriend's family business are very good, but he said that he is unwilling to hand over the financial rights after marriage, although I am a girl and I prefer a girl, but you also have a job, why worry about your boyfriend's money, he is willing to give it to prove that he is suitable for marriage, and if he is unwilling to give, it means that you should change objects.

My boyfriend's family is doing business at home and the family conditions are very good, which means that he is unwilling to hand over his financial rights after marriage, how can he break it? I think the family conditions are good, or your boyfriend's house, if you get married, you should also go out to work and have your own financial income so that the other party will not look down on you.

If you especially want him to hand over his financial power, then you can be coquettish or play a tantrum to get him to agree with you.

Well, in fact, the conditions for him to open are good, and he must also be in business, so he announced that he may give it to you, because he will not do business, so if you want to get this Caixia, you can only adapt to it first, and slowly take back the financial power after your relationship is good.

I don't think you should listen to him now, as long as he has a good ability to manage money after marriage, I think he will take the initiative to hand over the money.

This should be discussed by two people, in fact, there is no need to hand it in, as long as two people live happily, the material aspects are not a problem.

I think as long as two people love each other, it doesn't matter if you don't care about financial power, but you also have to give you enough pocket money, and if you don't have money, it's not called husband and wife, isn't it. After a long time, their family may hand over the financial power to you.

Hello friend, after reading your description, I personally feel that this problem is not easy to solve. It should be a matter from keeping up with the requirements of his parents.

Hello, I don't think it's anything, then AA system, use your own.

Then if people really don't want to give you a Shiba Inu, then you can't do it, maybe he said that he is not used to the influence of his family, and he will hand over the financial power to the woman.

There is no need for two people to do this together, if he can also guarantee your living conditions after marriage, then it is okay not to pay!

In fact, it doesn't matter if a man pays money after marriage, as long as he gives you money to spend, he is willing to use his money for family expenses.

In any case, he only has this one thought, so don't force him, otherwise it may affect the relationship between you.

Don't worry about the matter of financial power, it is man-made, as long as you live a good life, the financial power in the future will be the two of you.

Boyfriends and girlfriends can't compare hearts to hearts, understand each other, and don't give in to each other when they quarrel. In the end, a trivial matter evolved into an inextricable matter, no one let anyone, no one understood anyone, and finally caused a tragedy. Therefore, tolerate each other's small shortcomings and tempers, and restrain the negative energy in your heart.

Don't hurt others with bad words, compare your heart with your heart, and two people will live a happier life.

Your boyfriend's family conditions are very good, and after getting married, it depends on the joint efforts of the two of you, don't care too much about money.

This should be slowly run in between the two sides and have a close relationship, so naturally there will be no problems, don't worry.

It depends on your own thoughts, whether you care more about this aspect, whether you trust this man or not. Or you can have some pre-marital appointments with him to see if he is willing to consider it.

My family is in a particularly good condition for doing business, but I said that I am not willing to participate in property rights after marriage, what should I do? I think this kind of thing can be discussed slowly, and sometimes he does it now, but it doesn't mean that he can't change it after marriage.

Your boyfriend's family is doing business and starting a company, and then the family conditions are also very good, but he clearly stated that he will not hand over the finances to you after marriage, so I think if you really like him, as long as you live together well, on the way to love, some people get another person, and they don't know how to cherish it; In this case, both men and women make such mistakes; It's very sad, it makes people feel hopeless; I have always loved my boyfriend in my heart, but I just did too much, I always didn't cherish him, and finally he left me sadly; So can such a situation save him?

1. Irreparable circumstances.

A man, in general, as long as he likes a woman; So no matter what the woman does, as long as it is not beyond the principle, the man generally does not care too much; Even if he couldn't think about it at the time, when he finally figured it out, he would feel that everything was not important; For in this world, no one is perfect; There will be disadvantages, and there will also be advantages; So when two people are together, it is inevitable that a lot of things will happen; Sometimes, it is the boy who hurts the girl, and of course, sometimes, it is the girl who hurts the boy; But as long as it is clear, made clear, and promises not to do it again in the future, then the other party will forgive and understand.

A woman, if you do something to hurt your boyfriend in your daily life, in your dealings with your boyfriend; Then I think that even if he leaves you, when he understands, he will still come back to you; As long as you communicate and apologize, you can save his heart; Because there are some things, which are not big things, and those that are not good to say are the trivial things in your life, and they will pass after that; It's impossible to don't want your beloved for that little thing!

A woman, as long as you don't do anything out of the ordinary, you don't do anything beyond the principle; So no matter how sad your boyfriend is, as long as you still want to be with him, you still want to save his heart; Then as long as you explain things clearly to him, he will definitely not want you because of this; A man should also be more generous, he can't say that his girlfriend makes you unhappy, and you will leave and never look back; You have to know that when two people live together, they will have problems of one kind and another, which is unavoidable; It's good to think about it, don't keep worrying about it, and never ignore the people you love; You must know that in this world, it is not easy to find a woman you love very much.

As long as both of you agree to this way of life, if you feel that you will be in control of the finances after marriage, then there will be disagreements between you, and if you can't solve them, it will only be unpleasant.

He is in business, and many business decisions require money, so it is understandable not to give it to you, and it is also right for his family to agree to add your name to the household registration book, you want to have confidence, it is best to have your own job, not dependent on the man, and have your own economy ** to be more free.

You think too much, and it's good that people have worked hard to give you pocket money.

You can participate in business, but if you have to work anyway, it's good to know the financial situation.

Why do you want to hand over the financial power to you when you are a businessman? As long as he doesn't restrict you from spending money and isn't stingy with you.