Seek help!! My uncle is going down the wrong path, how can I advise him?!

The reason why he wants to take the so-called crooked road and earn 200,000 yuan in half a year is that I have already thought of a lot of bad things, smuggling, or something else

But he just wants to prove to his parents that he may indeed be naïve, but that is dignity! He personally definitely thinks so

Moreover, on the one hand, he envied the landlord's family background, on the other hand, when he decided to go out to the so-called crooked road money, he still revealed a little bit to you, just like a desperate person on the edge of the cliff, he still hoped that someone would stop him before jumping down, compared to the 200,000, he wanted the attention of others, the affirmation of others, and the respect of others, proving that he was still a little hesitant

Tell your grandfather, grandma, where is the root!!

。。。I say...

。If you want to go any way, you can't stop ...

。If you let him hit the wall, he will naturally turn back...

。Sometimes the more you are against ...

。If he really had the ability, he wouldn't have been able to do anything...

。As you see fit...

Upstairs is embarrassing. Personally, I think you have to look at his crooked direction, report to the police if he violates the law and commit crimes, and doesn't care about anything else, like this kind of over-age rebellious teenager, the only way is to let him do it, and he will grow up after suffering hardship.

This belongs to the tip of the horns, and does not hit the south wall and does not look back. Find the eldest parent to solve it, there is no other way.

There is no way!! It's just yourself!!

Find someone with authority and persuade him.

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You can ask his girlfriend to persuade him, and maybe she can convince him.

In fact, it is very difficult to persuade a person to convince him, so let him experience something and get rid of it by himself.

He will think that you and he are people on two paths, and he may not listen to the truth you speculate, so find someone who has been mixed up and talk to him.

Your uncle is probably honing your will and getting you to start at the bottom.

I couldn't stand it anymore and left him.

People in their 20s who graduated from junior college.

Should have been independent!

Khan, do you have to rely on him? There are hands and feet, there is culture, and you are afraid of starving to death outside? What if you cut it off, why should he force you to do what you don't want to do?

There's no autonomy at all, and you realize that you're babysitting? You are making wedding dresses for others, and it is not good for yourself at all, and you can go out to work by yourself for three or four thousand a month! You're a parent yourself!

Think more about yourself! You're not too small!

Leave and choose the life you want Even if you give money at the end of the year, you usually have to give pocket money Don't want such relatives.

Break it, break it, what is there to hesitate about, which elder doesn't want the younger generation to mix well, such a selfish uncle is rare!

I'm glad to answer your question, we don't need to associate with such a relative, there is no family affection, and we will give up if we don't know the entu! No matter how good you are to him, you won't get a trace of family affection from them, such a person is a typical villain, a person with no morals at all. Sometimes they are not even as good as neighbors, and we should stay away from them without this relative.

You have to inform them of what is happening in your house, no matter how close it is. If you notify them and they don't pay attention, you cut them off.

If the problem is not caused by one's own side, then stay away, people who forget their roots are not worth it, find the reason, after all, the uncle is a relative, and it is not worth repairing the relationship after finding the disease, and there will always be a reason for indifference, except for people's hearts.

Then he will have to be cold-treated. Time will dilute everything. Don't be like your uncle.

Impersonal. You're going to have to open some. Face your mom.

Your uncle and your mother's blood dissolves in water. You have to fulfill your filial piety, just near and far. What do you say your mom would be upset about?

The conflict between his mother and uncle is for him to solve by himself. In your field, you should too. Come up with your plan.

You can't help such an uncle.

Are they unaware of your father's death?

In some places, when someone in the family dies, they need to go to the outside house to mourn, and they come to mourn.

If you don't come even if you know it, it can only mean that they are indifferent, and don't count on them in the future.

Don't recognize such an uncle, the dog is also fed, this is the heart of some people, my uncle is the same, I call him out of politeness on the way, he ignores me, often makes me embarrassed, such a person should go to the eighteenth layer of hell.

It's good to contact politely, you don't have to be too warm, you know your own feelings, why bother to be too reasonable, but, after all, he is an elder, respect is a must, respect is not necessary.

This kind of thing first has to look at your mother's thoughts, is your mother's uncle big, if your mother wants to continue to walk with them, you can follow your mother, if your mother doesn't want to interact with them, you don't have to interact. Personally, I think this kind of behavior of your uncles is not right, the grace of receiving a little water will be reciprocated, your mother raised them since childhood, they should treat your mother like a mother, they are good, this is simply revenge! I suggest you cut off contact with them!

Advise your mother too. I basically didn't persuade people to separate like this, but this time I listened to it in a very atmospheric way, so I advised you to do so.

Since they are all doing such a desperate job, what is the use of this uncle whether he wants it or not, I feel sorry for you.

Such relatives should not come and go again, and face everything bravely on their own.

You're also older, and you must have your own way of dealing with this kind of thing, or some ideas for this situation.

It's impossible for you to be intimate with them, but you have to call them when you meet, and you have to do a good job on the surface, after all, you are a junior. What you do in private is up to you.

If you want me to say, it will be impossible to get close in the future.

Now that I know who they are, it's a big deal that I won't be in contact with them in the future.

It is recommended that you don't have to pay this boyfriend, he ignores you because of money, he doesn't understand the care and love that girls want, you won't be happy with him, a man should have the responsibility to give his girlfriend happiness and happiness, not to have money, even if it's coarse tea and light rice, it can't hurt you, what you want is not money, watching him slowly change, you must be very distressed, he is like this to you now, and he will have a temper in the future, we are here, I didn't give it well before, I actually beat my girlfriend after getting married, and the woman said that she wanted a divorce, That man is going to strangle her, you quickly dissociate yourself from him, such a man can't give you happiness, don't regret it.

Stop living together and move out. Explain: a narrative like yours, he's a person who makes you doubt that your suspicions don't need proof. This doubt itself will cause you uneasiness, living with him, living in 'unrest', which is harmful to your mental health.

I'll write the letter for you. There are two ways you can send this letter.

Write to him: I roughly counted the consumption of our relationship until now... If you owe him money, you give him the money)

Now our relationship, I'm afraid, I'm afraid you have an uglier face coming up. (So, you fled).

To those who care about him, 'for example: his family, his friends.' He's now in 'perfect' direct selling, and I feel a little obsessed. I think he's in a hurry to get a quick win. Now inform those who care about him about his situation.

Now that you're starting to think about it, let's break up. This kind of man is not responsible.

It's a troublesome thing.

First of all. Words that are pleasing to each other.

Don't be so clear about money.

It's obvious. You've hurt your feelings because of money or your feelings have been diluted.

If it's just because of 5k

I think the relationship is more problematic.

Don't throw rat bogeys.

Don't be afraid to do things in 5k.

He must have found someone to secretly follow him.

It is indeed very chilling to encounter such a problem.

But in fact, if there is no inheritance issue, that is, there is no financial dispute, why did your uncle have to let your grandmother go? You have to pay money to go to a nursing home, why do they have to ask your grandmother to go?

With regard to maintenance, the law clearly stipulates that children have the obligation to support their parents. It is certainly illegal for your uncle to force the elderly to live in a nursing home.

Now I advise you to protect yourself, your mother and grandmother first. Because from your description, your uncle is really a very unreasonable person, and the consequences of accidents are unpredictable. So try to avoid head-on conflicts.

The second is to gather relevant evidence. Including your uncle forcing your grandmother, not supporting your grandmother, your mother's contributions, and so on. Regardless of whether you want to go to court in the future, it doesn't hurt to keep it and collect evidence.

Then it's time to find a way to solve the problem. In fact, it stands to reason that if you are currently willing to support your grandmother, there should be no problem. But I don't know why you have to force your grandmother to live in a nursing home? See if you can communicate and solve the problem.

I don't really understand why your uncle had to force your grandmother to live in a nursing home? So who's going to pay for it? Didn't your mother take care of your grandmother all the time? Are they not satisfied?

According to the Marriage and Family Law of the People's Republic of China, children have the obligation to support the elderly. In this case, if your grandmother herself does not want to go to a nursing home, she cannot force the elderly to go to a nursing home, but your mother will continue to take care of the elderly, but your three uncles will have to pay her alimony.

If they do not agree to pay alimony, they can file a civil action in court.

You didn't make some things clear, I guess the actual matter is related to the inheritance distribution dispute, or why the three uncles joined forces to embarrass your mother, since your grandmother still has the sense of autonomy, she should notarize the will and handle the transfer of property rights.

I'm just like you, and I slept with my own brother-in-law

Collateral blood relatives can be married after three generations!

No, don't make your parents sad.

Brother, don't say you're not interested, you can try it first, no matter what kind of work you do, you have to work hard, in fact, the hotel is doing well and making money, much better than you working for others, you will understand it after a long time, I wish you better and better, and a happy and safe life.

There is no way to earn money to support your family in boxing, and the ideal and reality are too far away. People must first learn to master a skill to survive. You're hungry, how can you go boxing.

Since you have an uncle who loves you, you might as well learn how to run a hotel well. With financial strength, it is also good to learn boxing in your spare time. Your uncle should be very good to you, and leave the business to you to take care of, which means that he trusts you.

If you are really not interested, you can tell your uncle in Wei Wan. Don't hurt the old man's heart.

Then you should make it clear that you are not interested in this, and don't take it and mess it up, and make your uncle who loves you sad. If you are interested in boxing, you will develop in the direction of boxing, and I believe that your uncle will support you.

You should listen to your uncle and try to learn how to run and manage the hotel he gave you. Because it is really promising to do the catering industry now, and if it is done well, the profits are also considerable. If you have a personal hobby of boxing, you can take the time to practice on a regular basis. Now while you're still young, working hard to make money is the last word!

After you do well in a few years, you will have a certain economic foundation, and your own personal hobbies are not as fun as you want!

Not every boss is hands-on, you just have to find someone to do your place, and you control him.

Your uncle is also a heart, if you are really not interested, can you tell your uncle, don't live up to the old man's heart, he is willing to take care of his career for you, which means that he is really good to you.

Because you are very honest, your uncle sees your ability to do well, and I wish you a prosperous business!

It's nothing, just tell the truth if you don't like to do it.

There is no conflict between hobbies and careers that earn money to support the family.

Boxing can't make money to support a family.

Life is not easy now, it is difficult to find a job you like, if you don't have a good plan for your life, I think it is better to follow your uncle and accumulate experience, and it is likely to have great development!

If you're not interested, you can talk to your uncle about your thoughts, politely refuse.

My uncle only runs a restaurant, and he said that if he did a good job, he would let me make the other one. However, I was not very interested. What am I going to do? Explain the situation to him.

Ideals and reality are just too far away. People must first learn to master a skill to survive. You're hungry, how can you go boxing.

Since you have an uncle who loves you, you might as well learn how to run a hotel well. With financial strength, it is also good to learn boxing in your spare time.

You still have to think about it yourself, and sometimes you don't have the opportunity to miss it.

If you're not interested, you can tell your uncle that you're not interested and want to learn something else.

You can refuse, if you haven't found a better job, just do it first, interest can be cultivated!

Have a good talk with your uncle and explain what he thinks, and he will understand.

Tell my uncle that he is not interested, but his family wants to help his family.