Why should you be happy when the child s back talking period comes?

The arrival of the child's "back-talking period" indicates that the child has slowly matured.

Because the child has his own views and the child grows up, parents can guide and educate the child, so that the child can be sensible and establish correct concepts.

In fact, there is no age for talking back, and children talking back can be traced back to the first rebellious period of children. At this stage, your child will often say "no" to you. But there is no need to be nervous, this is a stage that children must go through.

There are more thoughts, there is a collision of ideas, but at this time, the child's mind is not mature enough to express the contradiction with this irrational behavior.

Because this shows that they have their own ideas, which is a normal phenomenon, and they will be sensible after this period.

The child's retort shows that he has a mind of his own.

Because it means the arrival of the child's adolescence and means that the child is growing up.

This is a must for children, and it is believed that for children, the act of talking back will help them grow up healthily.

For the phenomenon of children's backmouthing, parents should learn to analyze why their children talk back, and also understand the meaning behind their children's backmouth behavior, so that we can more clearly guide children to express themselves reasonably and express themselves in the face of children's backmouthing phenomenon. Let's first see why the child talks back? When the baby is a small baby, his and his mother's words and deeds are in front of the parents, so the baby is the most easily affected by the parents' behavior.

Children in more than a year old language ability has begun to form, sometimes because they want to express their thoughts and requirements more, at this time appropriate some exaggerated language, or exaggerated behavior is conducive to the baby to express their own ideas.

But sometimes because the baby's needs are too strong, and can not refuse the parents' requirements head-on, which will make parents feel guilty, guilty and ashamed, and even use yelling, scolding and other ways to respond to the child's needs, which will stimulate the child's inferiority complex, then parents must know how to stop it in time. Let's see if the way parents respond can have a positive effect. The mother thinks that the baby's thoughts and needs can be expressed through words, so when the baby is crying, the mother often can't help but complain or teach the baby, and then the baby will feel that the parents also care about themselves, and they are more obedient.

But for the baby, this kind of "scolding" response to the parents' words is that the parents are expressing their resistance and boredom to the baby in their own way, so this response will only have a negative effect on the baby.

Under the words and deeds of his parents, the baby finally became sensible and did not talk back, but he did not forget this process, because the parents' attitude towards himself and the response to the event made his heart more sensitive, and the child's psychology will also be affected to a certain extent. "My parents don't buy me good food, I can only study hard, work hard to earn my own money, and I will definitely let my parents live a good life in the future! "Mom and Dad can't buy it for you, so you can only ask Dad if you want to eat anything."

A boy said this to his parents, and the parents seemed to be lost in thought when they looked aggrieved on the boy's face. When the child cannot express his needs positively, parents can try to use the following 4 ways to let the child understand the reasons behind the incident and understand the parents' thoughts, which can alleviate the boy's temper and unreasonable situation to a certain extent.

Mom and Dad didn't buy me anything delicious, so I had to ask Dad what I wanted to eat. Sometimes when the baby gets a new toy, he will immediately tell his parents happily, then the parents will be very surprised, feel that their child is really sensible, he just understands the good intentions of the parents. In fact, this is just because the behavior of the parents is to respond to the child in a positive way, and there is nothing unreasonable about it.

But it is very likely that because of this sentence, he may be disrespectful to his parents, or he may feel that his parents do not love him.

Sometimes the child talks back, but Wu Zheng is filial to the forest to confirm whether the parents' wishes are like this, but the parents may be angry, feeling that the child is challenging their majesty, so they will be even more angry.

The child just discusses his own opinion on this matter with the parents, but the parents can't understand the child's thoughts, so they feel that the child is talking back to themselves, and he guesses that this is the will imposed on the child by the parents.

Because sometimes parents always impose their will on their children, and talking back is a way for children to resist.

It is because parents are very critical to their children's education, parents should be a good role model in ordinary times, if children love to talk back, parents are also responsible for patting, parents should actively guide and discipline at this time. Durable.

That's because the child has such a situation, and asking for help is because of some bad habits of the parents, so Xiangqin Sun Yi will let the child develop, so you should first let yourself change such a situation, and then educate your child well.

Because children love to talk back, it is likely that they have learned from their parents, so they should lead by example.

If you want your child to become an excellent child, then you must start quietly from the parents themselves, learn more knowledge, read more books, and make yourself and the child more connotative.