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If there is nothing to talk about with the parents, and the family atmosphere is harmonious, then of course, in the matter of falling in love, the father will be the first to tell the father to imitate the mother, and ask for their consent and ask for their opinions. Parents will want to find a partner who has a high income and a house, so that they don't have to have too much financial pressure after marriage. In your opinion, marriage is your own and you should make your own decisions.
But she felt that she was "full of love and water", and she insisted on getting married. Life after marriage is not as good as you imagined, after the sweetness of love fades, the trivial matters of firewood, rice, oil and salt make life stretched, they often quarrel because of economic problems, and the beauty of love has long disappeared. Divorce becomes a deliberate choice for both parties.
Of course, the opinions of parents are to solicit more wisdom and wisdom, but the important point is to recognize that opinions are used as a reference to make decisions, not directly to the conclusions of the results. On the issue of mate selection and marriage and love, it is necessary to have an individual's independent opinion, and parents can also be invited to be advisers, but it needs to be analyzed, and there are trade-offs. The parents' intentions are all for your good, but the happiness he thinks is not necessarily what you want.
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For each of us, we know that love is blissful. It's also very beautiful. It is precisely because love is so happy and beautiful that for many people, they are very much looking forward to having love.
Especially when they meet someone they like, then they want to be able to be with the person they like. So in order to be able to be with the person they like, they are very active and proactive, and even they take the initiative to care about each other and love each other, so that two people who like each other can finally come together.
We know that parents are also very concerned about their children's marriage and love, especially when their children are older, parents will be very anxious about their children's marriage, so some people want to know whether you will tell your parents when you fall in love, and let your parents advise.
Maybe a small number of people will not tell their parents, and they will not let their parents consult, because they feel that if they tell their parents about their relationship, they may make their parents too worried. Maybe even parents will always ask this and that, which will make them very annoying, so they don't need their parents to counsel and won't tell their parents.
But I see that it's actually for most young people. When they fall in love, of course, they will take the initiative to tell their parents, I think that many people know that their parents are the people who care about and love them in the world, and their parents are also the most familiar and understanding of them. If they tell their parents about their relationship, then their parents will be calm and will help them make better choices.
Even many parents will help their children to come together.
So we see that more and more children are taking the initiative to tell their parents when they fall in love. Because after telling parents, this will make parents more at ease, and many parents will also take the initiative to help their children to counsel and it is through their parents' counsel that children can make more correct choices in love. Under the guidance of his parents, Zhang Zhizhong can let his children have a happier and better love.
Of course, I care most about whether my lover loves me or not.
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