I was beaten by my fianc , and my future mother in law is unreasonable, how can I let go?

Don't let go, just leave him. If I can hit you once, I can hit you a second and third time. The in-laws didn't even give him support, or even supported him, either because they thought you should fight, or they thought that a man should beat his mother-in-law.

Such a person, do you dare to continue to live with him? Don't believe that anything will change, because there is an old saying that the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change, commonly known as the dog can't change and eat, in order to coax you, he may pretend for a while, and he may not even be lazy to pretend when he marries. This family, there is a problem with the tutor and character, if you want something, get the picture and leave quickly, if you don't want anything, you will rush in and retreat, the days are still long, and you will meet the right one.

At worst, even if you can't meet it again, it's better to live by yourself than to suffer with such a person.

<>Why do you want to let go? Does such a fiancé really plan to keep it in the future to get married and have a baby? Besides, there is another unreasonable mother-in-law, I don't know why you were violently committed by your fiancé, but judging from your description alone, it should be that your fiancé has violent tendencies, and it may have been stimulated because of a little contradictionSo I don't think you should let go, if necessary, you can really choose to end this relationship, anyway, you haven't gotten married yet, leave him!

In my impression, not to mention anything else, if two people are in a couple's relationship, and the man is beating someone because of some things, I think this man is really scum, not to mention that he is ready to get married or is already married! Even the person you like, the person who is ready to live together in the future can do it greatly, such a man is still worth relying on? Whether it is in film and television works or in real life, the domestic violence man is really a strange existence, he was ruthless when he beat you, and he didn't love you at all, and then he still had words in his mouth.

After beating you, when you want to break up, you pretend to be a victim again, poor no, you don't dare to say it in the future, you won't do it again in the future, please forgive him, there is absolutely no next time. Use your love for him to make you forgive him, but again and again, you never see your future with him!

So now that you're not married to him, you're just a fiancée, so why do you have to suffer yourself? It's not that I can't find a better one, don't be nostalgic because of my relationship with him for many years, and think about giving him another chance, it's useless, really! Besides, it's not reasonable, who are you going to reason with in the future?

Telling your parents will only increase their sadness! So let it go! As a man, I look down on domestic violence men, and if I hit the person I love in the future, I think it's better to be single for the rest of my life!

How to let go? In this case, you are still in the mood to ask, how to let go?

This is still a fiancé in name, and he dares to beat someone directly before he gets married, is there still a need to get married? If I were you, I would have packed up my things and left a long time ago with this Internet access, and I don't know where to be chic and happy at this time!

Women are not as good as men's physical strength, and they are quite unreasonable and beat people, isn't this bullying the disadvantaged? Women choose a husband to marry and have children, isn't it for a happy home, but to find a man who is crazy and violent without the slightest love for herself?

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a historical problem, and in modern times, people have gradually opened their minds, and many mothers-in-law have begun to self-reflect, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has gradually warmed up. But no matter what the situation is, if you have a conflict with your fiancé, as a future mother-in-law, not only do you not come forward to mediate, but condone your fiancé's violence, you are not a competent mother-in-law!

The so-called "there is no grass at the end of the world", it is the same for women, and it is not that they can't find other good men, why do they have to suffer such a wretchedness! What if you get married with a loud voice, and this husband and mother-in-law collude to bully you? In the future, it will be even more difficult to let go when you have a son.

Your parents worked so hard to pull you so hard, is it to let you go out and be bullied by others? If you don't say that you are not good enough, you can only deserve this, maybe there will be blind people who like you! Living life is not just for visual experience, but also for spiritual conversation!

There is nothing to be reluctant to, leaving a blind man without vision will always usher in another blind man who is good to herself, and the greatest sorrow of a woman is by no means to become a leftover woman, but to marry a man who does not love herself at all and meet a ruthless mother-in-law.

Let's get out of the marriage as soon as possible, it is more justifiable when you get married, and it is better to have no mother-in-law if your mother-in-law is unreasonable.

Mom, dear, when I see this question, I am worried. You even ask if you want to let go. I just want to say that this is still a fiancé, what are you relieved of?

This is not married, he treats you like this, I don't know what to do when I get married, and I can't tell if people are violent. But let's think about it in a different way, in fact, although I was beaten, it is also a good thing, you look at your fiancé, and then look at your unmarried mother-in-law, what do you say they are! It's just that this doesn't let you see the face of this family clearly before marriage, and look at their ugly faces.

You said that if you get married, one will have to face a fiancé who has a tendency to domestic violence, and the other will have to face an unreasonable mother-in-law. You say that women are only in this life, what are you doing this for? Are you willing to put your life into it?

I also have to think about relief. I don't know what you think, girl, anyway, I'm here to advise you not to marry as soon as possible, and turn back quickly! You are still thinking about letting go at this time, and you still don't regret your marriage at this time, do you still want to marry and let people bully you?

Don't let go, regret the marriage as soon as possible, and cut off contact with this family by the way. If the girl is not brave enough to give up this marriage this time, and she gets married in the future, a husband who is prone to domestic violence, a mother-in-law who does things everywhere, and you will suffer some of them, and you will not dare to resist at that time, and you will not take a man in the world, are you afraid that you will not be able to marry?

Girl, marriage is a lifelong thing, you said that if you marry him, you will wash your face with tears every day, either your mother-in-law will bully you or be beaten by your husband, why should you bother? Living this kind of dark life, even if you want to ask your parents for help, I don't think it's easy to do, and after a few years of patience, it's not a divorce in the end. Why bother with yourself?

<> was beaten by your fiancé, and your future mother-in-law was unreasonable, in this case, do you still want to swallow your anger and let yourself go? Gu Liang, your heart is so big, you think that you are relieved, your fiancé and future mother-in-law will feel ashamed of you, will they think that you are empathetic, and will they be very good to you and reason with you in the future? Don't be stupid, Gu Liang!

This kind of thing has one and two, and it is lucky to see that their family is still relatively lucky if they are not married, so regret the marriage now, otherwise it will be too late to get married.

In the past, I heard a saying that when a woman arrives at her husband's house, if her husband and mother-in-law can't hold the local dialect at the same time, she should try to choose one side, either her husband or her mother-in-law. In this way, the husband's family will be better off in the future, if according to you, the mother-in-law does not hold the husband and does not hold it, then what is the point of you marrying into their family. Are you here to be tortured and oppressed?

If only the mother-in-law is unreasonable, and the husband is good to you and spoils you, then it's okay, after all, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is tense now, and some mothers-in-law are particularly unreasonable and love their sons too much, you should also understand this, take care of your mother-in-law as your own mother, people's hearts are flesh and blood, and one day she will know that your good will be moved. But now it's your fiancé's future husband who has a big problem with you, and he dares to beat you before he gets married, so won't he be beaten more frequently and more seriously after marriage, and never forgive him for domestic violence, even if he says that he admits his mistakes no matter how sincere he is, don't care about him, because there are two of these kinds of things, and they don't care for you so much before they get married, so you can imagine how unhappy you are about to live after marriage. So!

Repentance is the best choice for you, and don't expect them to repent and see you well. This is generally very unlikely.

What are <> relieved of at this time? This is not married, so I will treat you like this, and I don't know what will happen when I get married. In fact, although I was beaten, it is also a good thing, so that you can see the face of this family clearly before marriage, so that you can repent as soon as possible and refuse this marriage.

A fiancé who may have a tendency to domestic violence, and a mother-in-law who is quite unreasonable and destined to have a mother-in-law relationship. Girl, don't marry as soon as possible, and turn back. If you don't regret your marriage at this time, why wait to go to their house and be bullied?

Don't let go, regret the marriage as soon as possible, and cut off contact with this family by the way.

In fact, it stands to reason that a sensible mother-in-law, even a mother-in-law who pretends to be sensible on the surface, will not show too much favoritism towards your son at this time. But since she has shown it, the extent to which she favors her son can be imagined, and you will definitely not have good fruit to eat when you marry in the future. And I think your husband is short-tempered, there is a great possibility of domestic violence in the future, people with violent tendencies are really scary, they can do anything, don't expect him to change, especially with such a precious mother to protect him, how can he change.

And at this time, don't say anything like your future mother-in-law, and sue your mother. Only your parents are the ones who love you the most.

If you don't bravely give up this marriage this time, and get married in the future, a husband with a tendency to domestic violence, a mother-in-law who does things everywhere, some of you suffer, when the time comes, you will not dare to resist, what kind of dark married life will greet you, and at that time, even if it is your own parents are difficult to intervene, the final result is either a miserable life, or a divorce, which is almost the foreseeable future. Instead of that, it's better to break up now.

When I saw this question, I was heartbroken! Why be relieved? The problem that can be solved by a breakup has to be divorced?

Shouldn't this kind of thing be the cancellation of the wedding? Why do you have to marry him, you have a masochistic mentality, you can't figure it out!

If you are not married and are not husbands, what do you want. Withdraw, sue him if he hits hard, and if he doesn't get heavy, he should be bitten by a dog

Let go of a fart and break up directly! Let them hurry up and smash the calves, can't you get married?

What are you relieved of, throw him away, no, I beat you, you still don't know how to repent, wait for them to bully you to death, and you will be relieved, don't you have a long snack.

Naturally, I was relieved to find a better one when I separated, what kind of reasoning, do you still need to reason with their family when she turns her into an ex-boyfriend.

How can you be relieved, you dare to beat someone before you get married, and you still want to marry him? The future mother-in-law is unreasonable, you will definitely not have a good time after you get married, I will definitely break up.

。。Funny or not.,Still thinking about how to let go.。。。 Do you want to be the next person to be beaten for 5 hours?