I ve been single for 22 years, and I feel like I can t chat with the opposite sex, what should I do?

What's wrong with being single for 22 years, some people will not doubt themselves for more than 30 years, or even a lifetime, what do you have to doubt yourself?

In fact, 22 years old is not too late, I think there is no problem, the reason why you think this is that the people around you are in love earlier, and they are in love earlier, so you start to doubt yourself, why are you still single now, right? Actually, I don't think you should compare yourself with others, because people are actually different from each other, so why should you compare yourself with others? Everyone is born with something that is decided, maybe they are too precocious or they met the right person too early, so people can fall in love very early, but you may not have met the right person, so you are still single, I don't think there is a need to worry.

You say you don't know how to chat with the opposite sex, then I think it's normal, because when everyone first comes into contact with love, they don't know much about chatting with the opposite sex, maybe out of nervousness, maybe they don't know much about the opposite sex, so they don't know how to chat, and those who can chat with the opposite sex very smoothly, they are nothing more than born with this kind of self-familiar function, or they have also stumbled like this, you are not them, you only see people in love, see people will chat with girls, I don't know if they may have been afraid to chat with the opposite sex like you, but slowly.

What you said about low EQ, I think, not necessarily, EQ actually includes not only the aspect of love, the scope of EQ is actually very wide, it's not that you won't chat with the opposite sex, it's a manifestation of low EQ, some people have high EQ in other aspects, and they are very good at being people, but they won't get along when facing the opposite sex, and there are psychological problems, I don't think it exists, so if that's the case, do many people in the world have psychological problems if they have been single for so long?

However, I still think that if you feel that you are still single and will not chat with the opposite sex, I think you can participate in more social occasions, contact the opposite sex more, and slowly become proficient.

If something happens, don't look for the reason in yourself first. Besides, being single is not a problem at all Everyone has a different concept of love and a different choice of marriage, maybe you belong to the kind of person who is more cautious, so you will not easily let go of your feelings. This has nothing to do with low emotional intelligence, and it won't be a psychological problem.

I believe that every single person is because they haven't met the right person for them.

We're single, not because we can't talk to the opposite sex, not because we can't find boyfriends (girls). We just regard love as more sacred and responsible for ourselves, so we will not easily hand over our feelings.

I used to think that it was okay not to be in a relationship, or even to get married. In this world, love is not a necessity of life, and a person can live well, I always think so, if I don't meet the person I particularly appreciate and like, then, it is better to have less than to overuse. Most of the people are single now, well, there are more single than before.

Because we don't have time to fall in love, we have too many things to do, and we need to constantly improve ourselves to adapt to the high-paced life of this society. Didn't a lot of people say it? The most important thing for universities is to get rid of poverty, not to get rid of singles.

22-year-old, can the love that you fall in at the age of 22 go to the end? Almost no, it's better to wait for the actual mind and so on than to waste time.

For questions that don't feel like they are going to chat with the opposite sex. Maybe we just don't like to talk to the opposite sex, it's normal, we don't need to spend a lot of time talking to people. If your partner requires you to spend a lot of time every day finding a lot of topics to talk to, it only proves that the two of you are not suitable.

Love should be mutual, not accommodating one party.

Don't easily suspect that you have low emotional intelligence, and don't think about psychological problems at every turn, you must have the coolest consciousness of Lao Tzu in your own psychology. To say a selfish word, you have to first learn to be nice to yourself, and then think about how to treat your half.

It's really nothing to be single, try to live a good life, and what should come will always come.

You should change your usual contact with the opposite sex, learn to dress up carefully, be very friendly when getting along with people, understand some love tips, and go to more public places to socialize, so that you can get rid of singles.

You should adjust your mentality, and then take the initiative to contact friends of the opposite sex, and then the two of you get along slowly, so that you can have a chance to get out of the single.