It feels very uncomfortable for a friend you like to like someone else. How stupid should I be? 20

Updated on psychology 2024-04-11
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't confess and let him know what you mean.

    He doesn't call you. It's been a year and I haven't felt like opposites attract. Then there will be no more.

    Alienate him, and you must not accompany him to do this and that as before. Otherwise you will be hurt even more, so much that you will hate him.

    Make excuses. It must not be admitted. Let him guess. If you guess correctly, you can't admit it.

    Your heart is very feminine, delicate and innocent. But the way you usually behave may be on the bolder side? In short, increase your femininity appropriately and avoid similar things.

    The man whom the woman likes does not like her. This is the last thing that people can know about. You must not have illusions about snatching him back. Never mind.

    Slowly cut off contact. Don't let him know why. I've seen too many people boast about others chasing him and hurting him, and even if he doesn't, he will be inferior when everyone sees you in the future.

    There is love to speak. This is a lie. It's dangerous for boys to do that. None of the women ended well.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You must have a crush on him, he probably doesn't know you like him. Don't be so sad, maybe your feelings for him belong to the long-term love type. Because everyone is good friends together, after a long time, there will be some feelings.

    The person you like has a heart, and you must be sad in your heart, but it's useless to be sad, leave everything to time to bleach, come on, it may not be easy to forget a person. If Nu suddenly ignored him, he would definitely feel strange, since he had been a friend for so long, let's continue. Friends may become lovers, but lovers are hard to become friends, and you may like to stay by his side quietly.

    Be happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's normal to be jealous, from your standpoint. I've experienced your feelings, and I've also experienced the heartwarming feelings, it's really uncomfortable. It will even affect life and work, and be absent-minded.

    Love is great and selfish.

    If he sees this post and knows that you sent it, and then he is touched and remembers all the things he used to do with you, and then runs to your windowsill and calls your name, you will be very happy. But please understand that this is just a shot from a romance movie.

    If you really love him and feel that you can't live without him, you can fight for it, even if it lets him know that you are not his simple same-sex friend. It can also be lovers, very good lovers. There is not necessarily hope if you fight for it, but if you don't fight for it, you just silently wipe your sad tears, and there is no hope at all, because he is not a god, and he can't see what you think in your heart.

    If you try to do it, but it's useless, or you're not ready to fight for it, then I think you can give up being a friend, because it's different to go from a relationship of the same sex to the opposite sex. So there is no point in being friends anymore.

    In fact, I hope you muster up the courage to choose the first one, if you don't give it a try, you will regret it even more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think you can forget him. Or leave him at a point. Don't even be a friend.

    But if you can't hate it, you better like it silently. Crush sometimes, although it hurts, it's hard for me. But it's one way you can get closer to the person you love.

    If I were you, I would be silently by his side. Support him. Accompany him.

    Although you can't be his girlfriend, you can be regarded as a person close to him. If you really love him, he will understand one day. He will also know who is the best for him, and there is no need to run away from some things.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it hurts, get out of his life!

    Just remember next time: love belongs to those who have courage, and only when you work hard, love will not be missed! If you don't have the courage, at least give him a hint, at least a green light or something...

    Love yourself! If no one loves you yet!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, I think you should give up, get out of his shadow, forget about him, and find your own true love!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's go! If you stay with him, you will only hurt yourself, so why hurt yourself? Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why always love the grass around you?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Silly. To be honest, his girlfriend must have looked at you very unpleasantly.

    It's good to be a confidante, don't become a couple.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It feels like he only treats you as his normal friend of the opposite sex,. And not the kind of friend of love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's also a beautiful thing for people who like it. If you like someone, you may be attracted by a certain point of the other party, which can include appearance, personality, demeanor, etc. Then you will think of him and her in your mind all day long, and you want to be by each other's side all the time, and be with each other every day, no matter how bad the other person's temper is, you will feel that the other party has a gentle personality and is understanding.

    So as long as you feel that you meet these characteristics, it means that you must be in love with someone.

    Then you usually have a good time with friends of the opposite sex, and suddenly you find that you like your friends. This situation is actually very normal, because in addition to spending a long time with your parents and family, it is the time you spend with your friends, usually encountering some things that are inconvenient to talk to your parents, but you will tell your friends, and usually will party and play together, and often chat on the mobile phone, over time, you will rely on each other, in fact, this is a very normal thing, in fact, there is no need to be embarrassed.

    In fact, if you like someone, you should let the other person know your mind, and you should believe that it is a happy thing to be liked. Even if you don't like the other person, or the other person doesn't like you, you don't need to let the relationship deteriorate. After all, the friendship that has been together for so many years cannot disappear overnight.

    If you like the sincerity of the other party's heart, I believe that the other party can also feel it, and confess to the other party, no matter what the result is, you will no longer have regrets, and your heart is also steady.

    If you like your friend, you must first observe and observe the other party's feelings about you, if you feel that the other party may also have different feelings for you, then you can't miss it, confess bravely, and leave no regrets. But if you find out that the other person is only a friend to you, and is so good to others, then you can give up, because if the other person doesn't like you, your confession will not only make you sad, but also make the relationship end if you don't get it right.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is a very normal situation to feel that you like your friends, because when you have been in contact with your friends for a long time, two people are courteous to each other, help each other, so flirtatious and happy, sometimes you can communicate with each other with the truth, and after a long time, you will have feelings, which is also a manifestation of long-term love, and then like your friends, which is very normal.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's usually because you often play together, so you may feel like this, and if you're really sure, you can confess and give it a try.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is very likely that your friends are very kind to you, and they are very concerned about everything about you, and they also take special care of you. That's why you feel like you're in love with him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you like your friend, it means that you are already a friend in your heart, and the lover is not full, so you don't know what the other party thinks, if you don't have any thoughts about you, you may be an ordinary friend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Maybe your friends are usually more considerate to people, this kind of care is beyond the reach of ordinary people, and they may even think that this is the so-called love. If you like it, you can also see if the other party also likes you, and you can develop into lovers.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Generally, it is because I have discovered the advantages of the other party in the process of interacting with my friends, and I have fallen in love with them over time, so I will like my friends.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In this case, it is generally due to the fact that I get along with my friends very happily, so I gradually like the qualities of the other person in my life, and I also begin to appreciate the advantages of the other person.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In fact, sometimes it's normal, love over time, sometimes you may not find that you turn around and hurry, he is the most suitable person for you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is because the other person can give you a sense of security, and secondly, because the two of you will feel special joy playing together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Actually, I think friends should like each other, but this kind of relationship is the kind of relationship between friends, don't think too much, because friends will also become girlfriends, so it's normal.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I like my friends because I am close to my friends, or the relationship between the two people has been further developed, so it must be because you have been together for a long time, and then the feelings that arise.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Feeling like your best friend is a very common emotional experience. Here are some tips to help you deal with this situation:

    1.Determine how you feel: First, be clear about whether your feelings are really like. Consider whether your feelings for the friend are just a sign of friendship or because you have a deeper affection for him.

    2.Respect friendship: If you are sure that you really have special feelings for your friend, then you need to consider whether this affection will ruin your friendship. Respect friendship and don't let that affect your intimacy.

    3.Keep your distance: If you're not sure that your friends feel the same way about you, then it may be necessary to keep your distance. Don't let your feelings affect your friendship.

    4.Consider the consequences: If you decide that you want to express your feelings, you need to think about the consequences. This kind of confession may ruin your friendship or make your relationship awkward.

    5.Seek support: When dealing with this situation, it is wise to seek support from Dadan. You can discuss this with a trusted friend or family member and listen to their suggestions and opinions.

    The most important thing is to think carefully about your actions and respect your own feelings and those of others.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is normal for the opposite sex to get along for a long time and have a good feeling, and it is recommended to consider the reality and attitude towards Xundong Ze Fang, and then decide whether to continue to like or convert like into appreciation.

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