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Because he loves his house-filling wife very much, and Cheng Biting Jin is an unruly person, Cheng Biting Jin violated the etiquette law and did not bury with his wife. Cheng Yanjin was a fierce general in the Tang Army, who followed Li Shimin all his life and made a lot of contributions.
Cheng Yanjin married two wives, one was the third daughter of the original Sun family, the county commander Sun Luer, and the other was the eldest daughter of Cui Xin, the eldest daughter of Cui Xin, who was the original partner of the Sun family and the county commander Sun Luer. In ancient times, men were polygamous, and a man could have multiple concubines, but only one wife. According to the etiquette, the husband and his wife are buried together after death.
For example, Wei Chigong's original wife Su Wei died of illness when she was 25 years old, and later Wei Chigong married Mrs. Xuxian, but before his death, his last words still instructed his children and grandchildren to bury him with his wife Su Yan.
Although Su Yu has been dead for many years, it is in line with etiquette that he and Su Yu are buried together. Therefore, it can be seen that after the death of a man, joining the cave with his wife is the mainstream of the burial of husband and wife in ancient times. In this matter, Cheng Biting Jin was unreasonable, and he chose not to be buried with his wife Sun in Zhaoling, but insisted on being buried with Mrs. Filler.
At the beginning of Sun's marriage to Cheng Yanjin, Cheng Yanjin had not yet made a career, but Sun accompanied Cheng Yanjin through the years of difficult battles, and also accompanied Cheng Yanjin to enjoy the glory of the Tang Dynasty. She is Mrs. Su Guo, who died at the age of 30, leaving Cheng Yanjin with two capable sons. After Sun's death, Cheng Yanjin married his wife Cui Shi.
Cui died at the age of 67, and both Sun and Cui died before Cheng Yanjin, at which time Cheng Yaojin had to choose a wife as his posthumous wife. Cheng Yanjin finally chose Cui's, which can also be seen that he loves Cui's very much and wants to continue to be husband and wife with her. Cheng Yanjin finally chose love instead of choosing to follow etiquette.
Although this was obviously unfair to the Sun family, Tang Gaozu Li Zhi also respected Cheng Yanjin's last wish and buried Cheng Yanjin and Cui's together.
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Answer: This shows that Cheng Yanjin's favorite person is still his house-filling wife.
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Although it is the original match, but the affection does not make sense, he likes Mrs. Filling very much and Mrs. Filling also did a lot of useful things for him during her lifetime.
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Because Cheng Yanjin's original wife has a very low status. His house-filling lady has a very high status, and Cheng Yanjin also loves his house-filling lady even more.
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Because Cheng Bites Jin's psychology prefers to fill the house. According to ancient etiquette, it is necessary to be buried with the original spouse and husband and wife, and he can violate ethics is not love?
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Why did Cheng Yanjin accompany the burial of Zhaoling with the lady of the house, instead of the original wife? Because he loves his house-filling lady very much, and Cheng Biting Jin is an informal person, Cheng Biting Jin violated etiquette and did not marry his wife to join the tomb. Cheng Yanjin was a tiger general in the Tang Army, who followed Tang Taizong all his life and made many great achievements.
Cheng Yanjin married two wives, one was the third daughter of the main family Sun, the county prince Sun Lu'er, and the other was the house-filling Sun family, the second daughter of Cui Xinzhi in Qizhou in the Yuan Dynasty. In ancient times, young men were polygamous, and a boy could have several concubines, but he could have a main room. According to the etiquette, the husband and the main room should be buried together after death.
For example, Wei Chigong's wife Su Wei died of illness at the age of 25, and then Wei Chigong married Mrs. Xuxian, but before his death, his last words or told future generations to share his grave with his wife Su Wei.
Although Su Yu has been dead for many years, the tomb of him and Su Yu is also in line with the knowledge of etiquette. Therefore, it is not difficult to see that after the death of a man, the burial hole with the main room is the mainstream of the joint burial of husband and wife in ancient China. In this matter, Cheng Biting Jin was abnormal, he chose not to share the tomb with his wife Sun, but decisively asked to share the tomb with his wife.
When Sun married Cheng Yanjin, Cheng Yanjin had not yet made a fortune, but Sun accompanied Cheng Yanjin to spend the years of hard fighting, and also accompanied Cheng Yanjin to enjoy the glory of the Tang Dynasty. He was Su Guo's wife, who died at the age of 30, leaving Cheng Yanjin with 2 capable children. After Sun's death, Cheng Yanjin married his wife Cui.
Cui's lived to be 67 years old and died, Sun and Cui both died before Cheng Yanjin, and at this moment Cheng Yanjin must choose a wife as his wife after death. Cheng Yanjin finally chose Cui's, which can also be seen that he loves Cui's very much and wants to be married to her again. Cheng Yanjin finally chose feelings instead of choosing to follow etiquette.
Although this is obviously unreasonable for the Sun family, Tang Gaozu Li Yuan and Li Zhi also attached importance to Cheng Yanjin's long-cherished wish and shared Cheng Yanjin with Cui's tomb.
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In the end, it was because he didn't like his original wife, and he liked Mrs. Filling the house very much, so he would be buried with Mrs. Zhaoling.
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He was an informal person himself, and his house-filling lady was someone he really liked, so he preferred to be buried with the person he loved.
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is because of his special love for Mrs. Filling the house, in ordinary life, the two of them help each other and support each other, so Cheng Yanjin doesn't care about some etiquette.
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Because of his conflict with his original wife's feelings, he was unwilling to be buried with his wife after his death.
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It can be seen from this point that Cheng Bitingjin's favorite person must be Cui's, otherwise Cheng Biting Jin would not violate the etiquette, you know, the ancients attached great importance to etiquette and would never violate etiquette for no reason.
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Because Cheng Yanjin and the concubine have a deeper relationship, his original wife died earlier, he didn't care about her for a long time, and it was this concubine who accompanied him for the rest of his life, so he was unwilling to be buried with his original wife.
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Cheng Yanjin's life is bright and upright, the most unbearable thing in this life is his original wife, and his biggest wish after death is that he doesn't want to be married to his wife in the next life, and his biggest wish is to hope that she will be happy in the next life and no longer suffer with herself.
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Cheng Yanjin was not buried with his wife, but was buried with his wife, Cui, who filled the house, which is undoubtedly a bit of a negative man. But from the side, Cheng Yanjin also loved this house-filling lady miserably, otherwise he would not ignore the etiquette.
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This is mainly because Cheng Yanjin met someone he liked more in the later stage, so he didn't choose to take a photo with his original wife.
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On the night of marriage, the couple each takes off a strand of their hair and ties it together, which is called a knot. From now on, they will sleep together in life and in the same cave in death, which means that life and death will not be separated, and they will stay together. And in ancient times, the concept of fame was very importantA man's first wife is called a married couple, and then marrying several wives can only be regarded as filling the house or continuing the string, and the status of filling the house and continuing the string is not as good as that of the married couple, so after the death of the husband, he must be in the same hole with the married couple, not with the wife who fills the house or continues the string.
Cheng Yanjin's first wife was Sun, who gave birth to two sons for Cheng YanjinThey are the eldest son Cheng Chumo and the second son, that is, the general of the Tang Dynasty, Cheng Chuliang. Sun and Cheng Yanjin spent the most difficult years together, but Cheng Yanjin finally left Sun, which was really a bit negative.
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According to ancient rituals, after the death of a husband, the original wife should be buried together. But Cheng Yanjin designated his wife Cui to be buried together after his death, and it can be seen from this point that Cheng Yanjin's favorite person must be Cui's, otherwise Cheng Yanjin would not violate the etiquette law, you know, the ancients attached great importance to etiquette and would never violate the etiquette law for no reason.
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Cheng Bitingjin's practice is actually not in line with ancient etiquette, but Cheng Biting Jin still does this, which can only prove that he does not have a deep relationship with his original wife, and has a deeper relationship with the lady who fills the house.
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First of all, Cheng Biting Jin did this, which is not in line with the ancient etiquette law, and from another point of view, it proves that Cheng Biting Jin's favorite person is actually the house-filling lady Cui's.
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Because Cheng Yanjin loved his second wife the most, Tang Gaozong Li Zhi buried Cheng Yanjin and his house-filling wife Cui Shi together in accordance with Cheng Yanjin's last wishes.
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I think the main reason is that he is not in harmony with his original wife, and there is also the result of his very much love for the lady who fills the house.
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Because Mrs. Filling is Cheng Yanjin's favorite woman, Cheng Nianjin and Mrs. Filling are buried in Zhaoling together.
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Because Cheng Yanjin doesn't like his original wife. He preferred Mrs. Filler, so he chose it in the end.
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Although Cheng Yanjin and his original husband and wife are normal husband and wife, Cheng Yanjin does not particularly like his original wife, but prefers Mrs. Filling the house. So when Cheng Yanjin died, he naturally wanted to be buried with Mrs. Filler, instead of going to be buried with his original wife.
In fact, the ancients were also very particular about burial together. Although polygamy was practiced in ancient times, because these wives were not of the same status, although they could all be loved by their husbands, their identities and status were very different. The ancients had a wife and many concubines.
The status and status of the wife are always higher than other people, and the wife is also responsible for the family management of the whole family in the family, so she must be virtuous and generous.
The main thing is that the wife must have a certain status and status, and she must be from a large family before she can have the right to be married to such a family. But on the contrary, these men's concubines do not need to be the children of large families, they only need to be ordinary people, and they don't have to know some of the Four Books and Five Classics, as well as the three obedience and four virtues of women, as long as they are cultivated to a certain extent in the future.
Although he is in a family, he is the head of the family, but he has no way to decide who his wife is, and he can only take the person he likes as a concubine. Since in ancient times, couples had never even seen each other face to face when they knew they were going to get married, so naturally they couldn't mention how much they liked each other. It's just that the orders of the parents and the words of the matchmaker must be obeyed.
Therefore, Cheng Yanjin actually doesn't like his original wife, and the person he likes is someone else, so even when he dies later, he is unwilling to follow the general situation in ancient times to be buried with his wife.
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Cheng Yanjin must love Mrs. Filling. In ancient times, the wife was the first wife of a man, called the wife of the hair. After the completion of the six rituals, the husband and his wife will be born and die together.
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Because Cheng Yanjin's original wife was very fierce, Cheng Yanjin did not want to be buried with his wife after his death.
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Because Cheng Yanjin's favorite person is his wife, he was buried with Mrs. Filling after his death.
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Because Cheng Yanjin's favorite thing is not his original match, but the lady who fills the house, so he hides the risk and wants to be buried with the lady who fills the house.
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Since it was buried with Mrs. Filling the House, it was undoubtedly a bit of a negative man, and it was not in line with the etiquette, which affirmed that Cheng Yanjin really loved this lady.
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Because this is Cheng Yanjin's last wish, he doesn't like his original wife, and his true love is Mrs. Filling the House.
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Cheng Yanjin designated his wife Cui Shi to be buried together after his death, and it can be seen from this point that Cheng Yanjin's favorite person must be Cui's, otherwise Cheng Yanjin would not violate the etiquette law, you know, the ancients attached great importance to etiquette and would never violate the etiquette law for no reason.
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