All pain comes from interpretation, and pain comes from oneself

All interpretations, because of pain?

All the pain ** comes from anger at one's own incompetence. A person's balanced and all-round development is the ultimate winning weapon. Writer Yang Daxia revealed that if you make yourself excellent, you will get out of pain.

Wang Xiaobo said: "All human suffering is essentially anger at one's own incompetence. "If you can't endure the hardships of study, you have to endure the hardships of life. After the balance is quiet, the society slowly understands that the laziness that has been stolen will slowly ask us back.

The age of learning upwards has been wasted. When you enter the society, you will encounter walls everywhere when you want to apply for a position, you will have no skills, and your professional knowledge will not be exquisite enough. The pain at this time is far more painful than when studying.

In the final analysis, it is anger at his own incompetence, blaming himself for not being capable.

Fang Hongji, the male protagonist in "The Siege of the City", didn't work hard when he was studying, and mixed up a fake diploma to make a difference. When you enter the society and get angry everywhere, the most fundamental reason is that you are incompetent. Later, he took his wife Sun Roujia and had a family, due to his own incompetence, the contradictions in life were endless, and the poor couple mourned everything, and in the end, none of the love and work were smooth.

Life is full of contradictions, and pain is everywhere. If you have the ability, you can provide a better life for your family and reduce unnecessary suffering. If you have the ability, you won't be afraid of not having a job.

How many people are satisfied with their work? It doesn't seem to be so. Either the salary is low, or the work is annoying, or the personnel is too complicated ......

The most fundamental reason for low wages is still themselves, if their ability is strong enough, will the salary be low?

Annoying and stressful at work means that your business level is not enough.

Personnel are complex, how can there be places where personnel are not complicated, but there are also people who can handle it easily, indicating that they still need to continue to improve their ability to deal with people.

All the pain, in the final analysis, is not enough ability, if you are good enough, you can reduce a lot of problems.

Pain is inevitable, and some can be changed by themselves, so try their best to change it, instead of continuing to suffer, it is a waste of time not to blame the scum.

The past cannot be changed, and the future is yet to come. Don't let the laziness of stealing now be the cause of pain in the future.

All human pain is essentially anger at one's own impotence.

Depression is because of one's own incompetence, because of incompetence, so worried, helpless in the face of difficulties, so worried and afraid;

The trouble is that the desire is not satisfied, and the root cause is to want to get it, but it can't be obtained, and the surplus is overwhelmed.

Unable to do anything in the face of desire, so confused and confused, irritable because he was anxious, he could neither control the situation nor clean up the mess, so he jumped like thunder;

All pain is anger at one's own incompetence!

The root of all incompetence lies in oneself!

In fact, it is laziness, which makes people incompetent, lazy and sloppy, loose and indulgent, and what they get is temporary comfort, and in the long run, overdraft the future;

In fact, it is not seeking progress, making people become incompetent, not thinking about change, getting by with everything, not wanting to face it, delaying and evading in case of trouble, self-limiting, cowering in doing things, and hindering progress is not external forces, but themselves.

All pain is anger at one's own incompetence!

The most painful thing is not that I can't do it, it's that I could!

No matter how incompetent you are, some people will treat you like a treasure, but you can't be incompetent all the time, or you will fail them to do your good.

If you don't take the initiative to change yourself, you will be changed by the environment.

If you don't take the initiative to work hard, you will be abandoned by the times.

Anyway, whether you work hard or not, time will not wait for you!

The root of all suffering is oneself, and self-discipline is the fundamental way to solve the pain, the battle of life, the most tenacious "enemy" is oneself, and the most difficult to defeat is always oneself!

Don't just complain about the pain, and stop living in a mess.

Take the courage to face difficulties, learn to adjust your mentality, change yourself, and continue to strengthen and grow yourself in the midst of pain!

The process of growing up has always been to heal oneself while being injured.

Don't live up to the suffering you have suffered in the past, and don't let down the "could" self!

All the pain is reminding us to make changes, all the pain is training us to be stronger, and may all the painful experiences in the past be an excellent foreshadowing in 2021!

In the new year, meet a better self!

Even if you are woken up by the feeling of heartache in the morning and uncomfortable in the afternoon, there will still be things that move you, and then quietly alleviate the pain ......

All the pain will be slowly relieved, even if you encounter resentment, sadness and grievances, you will eventually reconcile with yourself one day, or digest or forgive the hurt person and event in it.

My dear, if you are in the extreme of pain like me, I believe that all my pain will be quietly relieved, all the things you can't forgive, all the things you can't accept, one day you will finally be relieved, and even one day you will laugh at how naïve you used to be.

In the process of going through pain, you will be sophisticated, you will have a more peaceful mind, and you will find that there is nothing that you cannot accept, and there is nothing that you cannot bear.

The root of all suffering is "self-grasping", and self-grasping is attachment to the existence of a "me", specifically the thoughts, feelings, and bodies as real beings, as the so-called "me". When people and things in the outside world do not match the thoughts of "me", there will be differences, and then emotions will arise, and all the pain will come from this. And the truth is that thoughts, feelings, and bodies are all illusory, if thoughts are the real self, our thoughts are changing at any time, which one is the real self; The same is true for feelings and bodies.

In fact, these are all caused and combined, and there is no one entity. When we take the fake for our true self, pain arises. On the other hand, pain is here to remind us, to give us a chance to awaken, to let go of the fake, not to take the fake seriously.

The true self is enlightenment, self-nature, emptiness, unborn and imperishable, unimpure and impure, non-increasing and non-decreasing, self-sufficient, self-pure, unshakable, and capable of giving birth to ten thousand dharmas.

The "me" we cling to, simply put, is the thoughts, feelings, and body, which is just a birth and death that the real self manifests, a very small part, the real self is like the sea, and the "me" we cling to is like a blister on the sea. When we know that we are the sea, we will still care about the life and death of this blister, and we will care about another blister touching us and scolding ourselves! Of course not, so the reason is too heavy, and if you understand the reason, you will benefit from it now.

How? What we have to do is to know that we are the sea, to look at these bubbles from the perspective of the sea, and to experience ourselves through these bubbles. Specifically, we put ourselves in a state of awareness, as if we were looking at the ego's thoughts, words and actions, and watching all kinds of emotions come and go.

Just watch, and slowly we are in the position of our true self, and we become our true self.

And once we become our true selves, we are omniscient and omnipotent, because our true selves are what we are. When is the self-nature, the self-purity, the unshakable, the unshakable, the self-sufficient, and the ability to give birth to ten thousand laws!

If we usually know that my body and mind are all delusional, and we seek the physical reality of a self, but we cannot attain it, and there is no self, how can there be any troubles caused by circumstances and people? This is the most essential solution.