I want to use death to free myself, why should I be bullied if I am honest?

I don't look at what other people's replies are, they haven't experienced it with themselves, friends, don't be scared back by a momentary test, go down bravely, I haven't talked much since I was a child, and I still am, but what about me, I have my principles, hypocritical people I won't say more to him It's useless, I will treat people who treat me sincerely I will send them with a heartfelt smile, few words, very boring, but very humorous, others' evaluation of me is, don't speak, laugh to death when you speak, in fact, people....Living is not for others to affirm what you do, but how far you are willing to do it yourself! I have always insisted to my friends that people live for themselves for the rest of their lives, and have nothing to do with the evaluation of others, because they don't care about what you do, you have an easy job for a lifetime, someone who loves you, and the family can be reunited during the holidays, which is the best life, very peaceful, isn't it? I hope my words will make you stop worrying.

Be yourself, don't underestimate yourself!

This is life, everyone has their own way of life, some people are used to wearing masks, some people live with their true selves, this is everyone's choice, don't live for others, be the best version of yourself, choose the lifestyle you like, why care too much about the opinions of others? To live a wonderful life, come on!

Now this society is like this, all kinds of fake and all kinds of darkness, it is not easy to maintain a simple heart, and it will slowly be destroyed in the future. But you don't have to die, that's not a rational thing to do. There are still people who love you, and it is a great pain for those people for you to give up your life like this.

Can you bear it? Think carefully.

Maybe you are not bullied because you are honest, but because your comprehensive strength is not strong, and some people think that the reason why you are not as strong as some people is because you are too real, but honesty does not mean that you can speak and do things without disguise, and by your own nature. To be part of society, you have to give up some of your nature.

You should learn social communication! To cultivate an optimistic and cheerful personality, it is not so much that everyone likes people with sweet mouths, but that everyone likes others to say that they are good, just like you want many people to like you! Praising others is a science, not sycophancy, is it hypocrisy to make others happy? No.

I'm also an honest person, and my mother always says I'm wooden. Actually, it's nothing, your kind of personality may be suitable for studying hard. Everyone has what they are good at and what they are not good at.

You can also change slowly, the first floor is very good, everyone likes people with sweet mouths, and being sociable is also very important in social life.

We're alike, I'm slow to react, but don't be stupid. If you have time, I recommend you to read philosophy books, our character is suitable for learning. Not social, no need to compromise with the world.

The death of an introvert is a relief, and the life of an introvert is sin!

It's not that the introverted personality is bad, first of all, you have to improve yourself and change your mentality, everyone is equal, you don't need to look at yourself too humble, there are no stupid people in this world, only lazy people, diligence can make up for clumsiness. You've become so good that someone will still say you?

Finally, I would like to give you another word: life is very boring, but only by living can you find and do what you want to do!

Everyone has a different personality, and there are different jobs that are suitable for them, etc., and they can be improved appropriately, but if you die, there is a problem.

No, introversion and honesty are a person's character, everyone's personality is different, and everyone's outlook on life is also different, but I think low self-esteem is a mental illness, which can be **.

To put it bluntly, I also felt that it was not good for me to be introverted and honest at first, but then I felt that introverts could enjoy their own world, and what was wrong with being honest, it was just that there was something wrong with this social value orientation.

Don't have this kind of thought, stop here, as the saying goes, it's better to die than to live, life is very precious, how many people want to live but can't live, cherish life, try to change your character, get in touch with the society more, participate in more activities, you will find that you have a lot of loveliness, come on.

Seriously, I am also an introverted person with low self-esteem and feel tired of living, however, you can make changes, improve your mentality, change your perspective on life, and you will find that there is a lot of beauty in life, and life is better than anything else. There is a ** called "Alive", you can read it.

Death is not a good way for introverted and honest people with low self-esteem, the best way is to change their personality, such as looking for the shining points in themselves, encouraging themselves more, praising themselves more, and slowly the mood will get better, then the idea of using death to liberate will linger.

Good afternoon, this is a very wrong opinion!

There are three types of human character! Extroverted, introverted, two-way.

On average!

Introverts have at least 400 million people in China, so so many people have gone to liberate??

This is a ridiculous idea!

There will be a lot of hurdles in everyone's life, and after a few years, you will have nothing to do. Winner in life.

Introverts have the advantages of being introverts!

Careful, serious, strong sense of responsibility and many other advantages!

I hope it can help you, and I hope to be able to adopt it.

Everyone has their own character, and different personalities determine different situations, if you say that you are always inferior to a person, death is not a relief, but should let him live a normal life in an optimistic world.

There is a saying that life is precious: great wisdom is foolishness. Honest people are not fools.

Watching people go under the knife, they also pick soft eggs, not honest people who don't talk much. So you say you're honest by nature, that's not a big deal. What you need to learn is how to reject others and establish your own principles.

What can and can't, don't compromise unconditionally. People who always compromise unconditionally are not called honest people, they are called cowards......If you can't speak, try to be silent. If you are more muna, don't touch things that require mental agility.

When participating in communication, don't always think about speaking, but don't talk if you can, don't speak, you must speak, and then talk about it when you think about it.

Death is a kind of renunciation. For honest people with low self-esteem, it is liberating to gradually become gentle and strong, to gradually reconcile with their introverted selves, and to gradually look at all beings as equals.

Of course not, it is deserved, not angry, the environment, contact with the people and things around you affect the idea of such a thing.

It's not like you understand this, you're too pessimistic, introverted and honest is not a shortcoming, why should you have low self-esteem? Even if their lives are not so smooth, but people live in the world is like this, there are many people who are unsatisfactory, but as long as we work hard to fight for it, it will get better and better, and don't compare with others, who has their way of life, elephants have the happiness of elephants, ants also have the happiness of ants, as long as we don't look down on ourselves, stand up and be a man, your own mood will also be better.

Facing it bravely and regaining confidence in the field you love is the right way.

Maybe it is, but life and death are not up to you, or God has the final say, it's better to die than to live, live well.

It is recommended that you recite the Heart Sutra and hide the Sutra alive.

Hope it helps.

Everyone has a different personality, but death is not the solution to the problem.

Bah! Of course it's not liberation, it's just a cowardly escape, I say.

Don't forget the question Human beings are the ultimate life form that primates have evolved into after tens of thousands of years of competition under the laws of nature, and there is a difference in the level between them and other creatures, I said, Besides, don't forget, no matter what kind of personality a person can successfully develop, first of all, it is through brutal competition Defeated a billion competitors before ascending to the top Coupled with the brewing of pregnancy in October, it was not eliminated by the human immune system Don't you feel a little proud to think about it? Not to mention that after decades of wind and rain, viruses and bacteria have not been wiped out Falling objects from high altitudes have not been hit Traffic accidents have not provoked My god is simply the child of destiny in yy**, okay All those who have a ball with inferiority complex are positive and optimistic The law of attraction.

Honestly, what's so bad?

Introverted inferiority complex is not innate.

I have time to help my family do more things.

Since you have low self-esteem in your heart, death will be more embarrassing for people with low self-esteem, what kind of death do you choose? Most people choose to commit suicide, but what happens after they commit suicide? must be investigated for the reason for suicide and death, because of what makes you so inferior that you want to commit suicide?

The last thing you want people to know in your heart has become a topic of conversation after dinner, which is even more embarrassing. We have to face up to our honesty, introversion, and low self-esteem. You're going to get out of society, go to some sunny places, try to communicate with other people, don't twist, communicate more.

Go to be a volunteer to sweep the floor and pick up garbage, everyone can act at the beginning of the communication, you can also go back and tell others about your experience as a volunteer, a kind person only has honesty, no inferiority.

There is no ...... to die except for those who commit capital crimes

Tell you three methods, listening to it is only good for you.

1. Improve your abilities.

When a friend of mine first went to work at a company, he came home late every day.

Ask him, why is it so late?

He adapted, saying, "It's time to ship, and there is a long queue for logistics." ”

He said that the company's bosses, supervisors, colleagues, including the front desk, when the company has a job, they all think of him first and let him go.

My friend didn't complain, he has been learning from others and improving himself, and a year later, his performance became the first in the company, and after that, no one dared to support him anymore and "bully" him.

Improving your abilities to a strong enough level is when no one "bullies" you.

2. Tactfully refuse.

Even if you are very annoyed that this leader bullies you and asks you to do this and that, and you refuse him, you must be tactful and explain the method.

For example, the leader calls you, "Xiao Li, do you have time tomorrow?" Help me move. ”

You can't say, I'm not going. Or rather, I have something.

You should find a work-related reason and say something like this:

Tomorrow? I'm sorry, I can't go, you know, I followed the project, and people urged me to make a plan, so I had to do it tomorrow. You see.

The leader naturally knows that you are refusing, and he can't tell you openly that don't do the work. Similar to this, after two or three refusals, the leader did not lose face and no longer "bullied" you.

3. Become "friends" with leaders

If you want to mix well in a company, the first thing is to be appreciated by the leader, and naturally you can't set up the leader as an "enemy".

If the leader is the "enemy", how can you still mix it up. It can't be an enemy, it can only be a friend.

My friend Xiao Wang, not long after he joined a company, deliberately approached the direct leader who could take him.

Buy cigarettes, food, and drink for the leader, follow the leader and take the initiative to hold the bag, and the leader will open the door first when he gets in the car.

For a while, the leader became friends with him, and in private, there was talk and laughter.

Xiao Wang has this leader "covered", and he has made rapid progress - many list leaders who "pick up money for nothing" have given him.

So, don't take this bullying as a bad thing, think differently and understand that this is an opportunity to get closer to the leader.

In the workplace, there is a type of honest person who will always be bullied by the leader, and you must have judgment when being bullied, if the leader is like this to everyone, then you don't know how to follow such a leader. If the leader is only targeting you personally, you must objectively analyze whether it is your own reasons that cause the leader to look at you unpleasantly. There are three types of leaders in the workplace that are not worth following:

First, selfish leadership.

They will think that it is natural for employees to work overtime, and it is normal for employees to work overtime and have fun with leaders. Leaders who can't understand the feelings of employees and can't advance and retreat with employees are not worth following;

Second, all for the sake of money leadership.

No matter what happens, the first thing is to start with money. He does not act in the interests of the collective and the interests of his employees. When it comes to things related to money, this kind of leader will bear the brunt of it, taking all the money for himself and not thinking about the team and the collective;

Third, there is no leadership with a sense of responsibility and responsibility.

This kind of leader has credit, and it is all his own. There are setbacks and responsibilities are pushed to the employees. With great power comes great responsibility. This kind of leader is not expected to be too capable. Such a leader who is not responsible is not worth following.

When you encounter these three types of leaders in the workplace, it is not worth following.

In the workplace, there may be several reasons why a leader bullies him/her:

First, the work is not done well enough. If you do your job well enough, the leader will not bully you for the sake of your work. And the leader will pay attention to cultivating you, how can you bully a subordinate with excellent work performance? Unless you pose a threat to him;

Second, interpersonal relationships are not handled well. Because the leader knows that the relationship with whom you are not handled well, then the leader will naturally dislike you and bully you. Because everyone doesn't like you, and you don't do your job well, it will affect the leader's perception of you;

Third, you violate the leader's bottom line in some details, such as inadvertently saying the leader's sensitive topics or pain points, and being hated by the leader.

Therefore, we must be cautious in our words and deeds in the workplace to avoid becoming a thorn in the side of leaders.