Those who thought they were in love without breaking up, but what happened in the end?

I used to think that once we fell in love, two people would love each other until the end, but we didn't have a ...... future

My boyfriend and I graduated from high school together, we were classmates in high school, and we didn't have a spark from the first year of high school to the third year of high school. Until the last two months of the third year of high school, they entered the review stage. At that time, the time was very tight, and my comprehensive management was not very good, but he was a well-known comprehensive person in the class.

So a few of our girls asked him to give us a lecture. We were at the same table for the last two months. Since I was a day student and they were lazy on campus, I brought them breakfast every morning.

In order to thank him for lecturing on the topic, I would occasionally bring him an egg and a carton of milk. He didn't think about anything at the time, but it formed another feeling in his heart.

On the night when the college entrance examination class had dinner together, he confessed to me. I said at the time that both of them were undergraduates, and I agreed to him. I saw that day, I was together as I wished.

However, the university is separated from Chengdu and Jinan. It doesn't affect our feelings either. We'll save money to go to each other's cities.

But he's been with me a lot more. In the four years of college, we have been to Beijing, Shanghai, Chengdu, Jinan, Guangzhou, seen the Forbidden City, climbed the Great Wall, and played Happy Valley ......We thought we'd be together for the rest of our lives, until we both had gray hair and faltered steps.

Everything changes so quickly, after graduation we came to a city, but we have less and less to say about the topic, gradually we have our own life circle, and find that there is nothing to say to each other. Occasionally playing together, I will feel that I can't adapt to each other's rhythm. We had a lot of arguments, and the two families were very integrated, and neither was happy with each other.

On the one hand, we face the pressure of home, and on the other hand, the pressure of work. Gradually, we became more and more speechless, until finally we broke up and didn't even say anything to keep anyone.

I always thought it was a love that didn't break up, but I don't know how it broke up in the end. Recall that after the two people got a job, they lacked communication and distrusted each other. Feelings are fragile and require two people to love each other, and one person's efforts are not enough.

At first, the relationship was together because of throbbing, and slowly after a long time, the relationship began to fade. Slowly, the two of them had nothing to say, and they couldn't find a topic more and more. Everyone is looking forward to a love that doesn't break up, and it belongs to each other from beginning to end.

Love is beautiful, it takes two people to work together to repair it, and when there is a crack in the relationship, two people actively communicate with each other and trust each other in order to maintain the relationship and go on.

Those who thought they were in love without breaking up, but what happened in the end? In the end, they all broke up, although the result was unexpected, but it was reasonable. Let's take a love affair from a classmate of mine in junior high school.

At that time, I was in junior high school, and I felt that my emotional intelligence should be.

It still hasn't developed, so I don't know much about boyfriends and girlfriends, but there are talented people in the country, and there are many people who fall in love in the first year of junior high school and cause a sensation in the whole school. In junior high school that year, a boy in our class confessed to a girl from another class in the corridor of evening self-study, and the girl accepted. My friend liked that girl for a long time, got along for a while, and felt that the time was almost right to confess, and then successfully got together.

Later, the two of them always went out for a walk together after tea and dinner, visiting the playground or something, but falling in love in junior high school was explicitly forbidden by teachers and parents. Unfortunately, when my friend came home, his parents saw him chatting with his girlfriend and accidentally exposed it. After that, his parents taught him not to fall in love, but he didn't listen to his parents safely, he must say that if they are together, they will definitely be able to go to the end.

Later, I was found out by the teacher, and I was still the dean, which was really embarrassing. I was called to the office, but I still didn't learn to listen to the teachings with peace of mind. There was a quarrel, and the sound could be heard clearly even in our classroom.

At that time, we were all young, we were not sensible, and we didn't know what true love was, but we just wanted to maintain it, even if we were enemies of the whole world. Originally, looking at his attitude, we were all because they wouldn't break up and could go on forever.

But that's it, and then they broke up quietly, with a silent ending.

For long-distance relationships and online dating, we should also overcome difficulties by carefully planning for the future, empathy, and strengthening communication, so that the relationship can still have results.

As long as the relationship between the two is stable, it is not enough to be a reason to be envious. Long-distance dating and online dating are just a starting point, although long-distance dating and online dating will have many changes, such as location, work, and future choices may be different, and these are all tests, all feelings need to go through a series of tests, and after passing the test, the future relationship will be more precious and will have a beautiful result.

How to talk about a love without breaking up?

First of all, we must know that feelings are not child's play. When starting a relationship, it is necessary to carefully consider it, take into account rationality and sensibility, and avoid ignoring practical problems as soon as your mind is hot. Good emotions are based on the inner psychological connection between two sexes with mature psychology and sound personality, and responsible feelings can go longer and further.

Second, do a good job of planning for the future of the two people. Economy is the basis of love preservation, most of the students will be independent after leaving the college campus, both parties have to find a suitable job to obtain economic independence, to support and support their love, the city of work, the type of work, the income of the work, are to be discussed and decided by two people, and these need to be considered clearly in advance by two people in the junior year, and then graduate in order to move in the same direction.

Again, learn to compromise and give in. When it comes to a mature relationship, both parties need to be motivated and compromised for the love to be perfect. For example, after graduation, long-distance relationships and other issues need to be discussed slowly by both parties to find a way to solve the problem that is acceptable to both of you, and the necessary compromise and abandonment are the only way to love.

Finally, self-improvement and love preservation. A good emotional state is that two buried people are moving forward, and the relationship between one person struggling forward and the other stopping and lying flat is destined to not last long.

Mutual trust, understanding, tolerance, and the first time to make anything clear.

Okay, according to your requirements, I'm going to list the pros of "not wanting to have a relationship that will break up" and the disadvantages of "breaking up" and list them in sections.

1. The benefits of not being willing to talk about a relationship that will break up:

1.Treat feelings rationally and avoid blind investment;

2.reduce the negative effects of emotional fluctuations;

3.Better protect your mental health, make yourself more focused and motivated in life, career, etc.;

4.Help yourself mature and learn to look at emotional issues more rationally.

Second, if you break up, the possible disadvantages of slowing down the year:

1.Breakups can bring negative emotions such as loss, pain, and anxiety;

2.The inability to maintain the original state and feeling of love will reduce self-confidence and security;

3.It can cause harm to the feelings and trust of both parties, and the relationship becomes awkward and difficult to maintain;

4.If you go through multiple breakups, it can have a serious negative impact on your future love life.

3. Factors that lead to a breakup:

1.The two parties conflict with each other due to their personalities, experiences, etc.;

2.Mismatch of external environmental factors, such as family background, region, culture and other factors;

3.Several people have different concepts of life and cannot reach a compromise;

4.There are behaviors such as excessive consumption and disloyalty, resulting in an irreparable crisis of trust.

To sum up, "reluctance to talk about a relationship that will break up" can reduce emotional swings and make you more focused and motivated in life and career. However, if it ends up leading to a breakup, it can bring negative emotions such as loss and pain, causing damage to the feelings and trust of both parties, and it can have a serious negative impact on future love life. Whether the emotion is good or bad, it is inseparable from the influence of various factors, including the characteristics of both parties, external environmental factors, etc., so we need to learn to control our emotional life and face emotional problems rationally.

Because knowing that it is a bad ending, there is no need to talk about it. Otherwise, it will only add to the sadness.

Knowing that there will be a breakup, why start it? Isn't that a mere increase in sadness?

Of course it is! The breakup of love has nothing to do with people, the purpose is to coexist with each other, whether there is comfort, whether there is trust is enough to understand each other, understand how to communicate, praise each other, allow the other party to have defects, and want to accompany him to slowly improve the defects, most people break up not because of affection, but because one party does not understand the guilt, endless efforts are taken for granted by the other party, and finally the person can't stand it, and immediately breaks out, and it is not you who leaves, it's just that he feels that he can't change the way he loves and coexists now.

Because after all, true love has long been extremely scarce. With the dismantling of the times, everyone's concept of love and feelings has changed dramatically. Therefore, once a long-term love affair leads to the final conclusion of married life, everyone must cherish it extremely much, and no matter what twists and turns they have experienced, they must remember their original intentions.

The two parties have been in love for a lifetime and have lived an ordinary and stable daily life. Only when you really meet someone who understands you and understands you at one time, can you work together to start for happiness. Do not forsake or leave eternal life and eternity.

If the two personalities are similar, the sub-level of the personality is the kind that complements each other. There are different preferences, and the preferences of others are admirable. There is no situation where the main performance is good as soon as it is opened, and all kinds of bad habits come out after it is ripe.

In other words, from the very beginning, they have been coexisting with sincerity, and they have not deliberately created their own elegance or the image of a male god, nor have they deliberately concealed their love past. Naturally, if the other party doesn't ask about it, don't actively mention it, after all, you will still feel a little uncomfortable in your heart after understanding.

In the eyes of the heart, there is each other, and each other's happiness, sadness, and distress will be seen at a glance, and everything will be centered on the other party. Show affection in the circle of friends, and take your one (her) to have dinner with friends and friends. Bring him (her) to his parents, relatives and friends to touch, let the elderly accept your him (her) and treat each other as a family.

Gradually raise money to buy a house, save on daily expenses, and always think about it. As long as one party is stubborn enough to love only one person and the other party, let go of their self-esteem and not give up, and the other party only needs not to hate the person himself, and like it a little, it will be difficult for these two people to break up.

Of course, there is a love that does not break up, many of my classmates and friends are married for the first time, and they are still very good, and I also hope to talk about a love that does not break up, but unfortunately I don't have this luck.

I think there should be relatively few such relationships now, and I have talked about love without breaking up, because I married my first love.

is there; I didn't, my boyfriend and I have broken up now, and I feel very sad.