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In our time, it seems that life has long been filled with money, everything has a strong purpose, such as studying to get into college in the future, going to college in order to find a suitable and satisfactory job in the future, finding a good job in order to make money, and then living a good life to make yourself proud, in the eyes of many people, this seems to be a logical thing, which is why the happiness of our people is missing, some people will retort, isn't work to make money? Then go and pick up what I mean that work is to make money, but life is not only for the purpose of making money, if work is regarded as the only purpose of making money, then the central idea of your value in your work is whether you can make money, and you will not be happy over time, because not all happiness can intersect with money.
So earning money has become a central value in this society, so what kind of people are poor, some people say that people without money are poor, not either, just imagine if everyone's money is the same or your life will not cause any trouble because of money, then you may be more clear to see what happiness is, so in our life to judge whether a person is poor, not only money this measure, then what kind of people are poor, or even poor for a lifetime, I will talk about it from both material and spiritual aspects.
In terms of money, laziness will definitely not be able to get rich, after all, diligence can make up for clumsiness, followed by people who have no method, not hard work can get rich, finding the right method and direction is the most important; The last is self-positioning, although it is said that gold can shine in the first place, but it is not possible to achieve the corresponding effect if it is not placed in the right position, accurate self-positioning, and create at the height that it should be.
Spiritual realm. Some people will do whatever it takes to lose their friends for their own money, then such people may have a fortune of their own in the future, and in the eyes of outsiders, they will live proudly, but when night falls, when they look at themselves, they will find that they are poorer than anyone else.
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What I hate the most is a strong person, who does not rely on his own ability to earn money, but pretends to be sick on the street to beg for money, I think this kind of person deserves to be poor for a lifetime, and there are people who are not too young and reach out to their parents all day long to ask for money, it is really not possible to earn money by their own ability, this kind of person may also be poor for a lifetime. Let's say a real example, we have a clothing city here, every day ** amount is very special, every time I go there are two men, one looks older, one looks very young, the old man covers a quilt, wears a mask and sleeps there, the young man in front of him kneels on the ground, there is a piece of paper in front of him that says that his father is sick, there is no money to treat the disease or something, and there are people who come and go to give them money, but although I will feel uncomfortable when I see these, but I didn't give them money, I don't think they've reached the age where they can't walk and can't do anything, so why do they do this? A few days ago, it was said on the news that this kind of thing was a lie, but in fact, the father in the back was not sick at all, and they were not father and son, but they came to work from other places, because they didn't want to do those heavy jobs, so they used this way, and I think this way is to deceive people's sympathy.
There are also some rich second generations who don't work every day, and they reach out to their parents all day long to ask for money, and don't earn money through their own efforts. I think these two kinds of people may be poor for a lifetime, they will only get temporary happiness through that way, if they don't earn money through their own efforts, I think they may be poor for a lifetime, and they may be poor in the next life, so everyone has to earn money through their own efforts! <>
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1. People who are lazy to eat.
Nowadays, many young people are like that, they dropped out of school very early when they were studying, and you said that you have hundreds of millions of assets in your family, and you dropped out of school to inherit the family property, but you are just a child of an ordinary family. This is nothing after all, 360 lines of work are the champions, as long as you are serious and diligent after you are born in society, you will have a good future, but they don't learn well after they are born in society, and they don't go out to earn money, they learn some messy things from social people all day long, and use the only salary of their parents. If your parents can't earn money in the future, who will you go to ask for money?
2. People who break jars because of their poverty.
Nowadays, many children from poor families are not serious about studying in school, and there is nothing to say that it is good to use knowledge to change their fate? I remember when I was in junior high school, there was a classmate in my class whose mother died, and my father was in his 50s, he should be regarded as his father's old son, plus he didn't understand a lot of things in his 50s, he didn't work hard at school, and he mixed with the kind of disobedient boys all day long, and would cheat money from his father that the school would pay money, and then use it himself, and make trouble at school all day long. People like this will only get worse and worse when they come out of society in the future.
Will he still have a chance to get rich?
4. People who are addicted to gambling.
In my opinion, if a person takes drugs, he can go to a drug rehabilitation center, and he can get better. But if the person is addicted to gambling, he will not be able to get out. I have a relative who is also very fond of gambling, and I remember that when I was young, their family was quite rich, but because of his gambling, the family lost all their money.
His wife was reluctant to divorce because she had children, and her relatives said that they would change it, but now she is still gambling, and his wife also left with the children. He now lives a life of no one and no ghost, and he gambles whenever he has money. Now I see him and I think he is pitiful, but I believe that there is something hateful about poor people.
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I've always felt that poverty isn't terrible at all, it's terrible that your heart is dead. When everyone is born, their status is different. Some people are born rich, but this wealth is not their own.
Some people are born poor, but others know how to work hard and will succeed.
There is a little brother in our family, and they have ten children, and he is the youngest. I live in a much better age than they did back then, but we don't know how to cherish it as much as we used to. He had good grades at that time, there were no lights at that time, and he had to help his parents with household chores every afternoon when he came home, like herding cattle, feeding cattle, mowing grass, and so on.
Then I can only complete these tasks every day to read books quietly, but there is no light at this time, so I can only borrow a little lamp in front of the house next door to study. In the past, I always felt that it was a good vacation, so I was sure that I had to borrow a lamp to study, but then it was really my little brother who said it himself.
Now, he was admitted to the civil service when I was in junior high school. Their wife is a teacher, the two of them now have a car and a house, and a smart and clever son, and they live a very happy life. The poor man in the past struggled out of the sky by himself.
I think people who have no goals, no aspects, and only know that people who complain about the sky will be poor for a lifetime. There was a girl in our class before, and every day she knew that if she complained like this, complained like that, and her family was okay. She was able to squander more than 5,000 or more of her living expenses every month.
Now that she went out to work, her parents found a job for her, and after two days of doing it, she felt that others scolded her, and then quit. Her parents found another job for her through various relationships, but it didn't take long for her to play the eldest lady's temper again and quit. I really obeyed this kind of person, this kind of poverty is completely in the bones, and when she exhausts her parents, then she will become extremely poor one day.
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What kind of person might be poor for the rest of his life?
The answer, of course, is: people who don't want to be motivated!
Some people who do not seek to make progress are always content with the status quo, worrying that they are poor and have no money, but on the other hand, they are unwilling to work hard and be content with the status quo.
I want to have a rich life and become better, but I don't know how to work hard, and I always complain.
This kind of person can really only blame himself for not working hard, not for being poor.
Some people say that even if you are poor, what is the use of working hard? Have you compared to those rich second generations? The rich second generation doesn't work hard and doesn't still have money to spend, so life is good? It's hard to fart!
But don't you think about it? The rich second generation doesn't have to work hard, they have money to spend, and then what?
People are the second generation of rich, we are not, if you want to be rich, you have to work hard, not to mention that hard work is useless.
You work hard to move bricks every day, and your salary is between 140 and 220 yuan a day, and you can get up to 6600 yuan a month! Can you run out of money? <>
If you find it too hard, you can also choose another career, depending on your choice.
When I say the example of a bricklayer, it just makes those people realize that if a person really wants to be rich, he will not be counted so much, as long as he is willing to contribute and work hard, how can there be no return?
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A lot of factors, the vast majority of people are very ordinary, normal schooling, normal work, the salary is ordinary, enough to live, luxury things can't afford to buy, but this is the common people, this society, people like us are not still the vast majority, but as long as you work hard, don't regret it, and don't have to keep comparing with high people, you have to learn to be content, contented people are always happy, no one is destined to be what, come on, even if it does not meet the standard of the rich in your heart, but the process must be very exciting.
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It's also a question that is often talked about and pondered. Although it is said that there are no more than three generations of poor and no more than three generations of rich, if generation after generation does not know how to change their fate, they will still be poor. Why are some people poor all their lives, you can look at the people around them, there are many people in our rural areas who are very old, they are not qualified to receive a good education when they are young, and their families have very little economy, which leads to not going out when they are young.
I think poor, the first is the educational environment, you can have a good educational background, the more knowledge you learn, the broader your horizons, the more open-minded you are, and naturally you are much better than those who are not educated in terms of making money. The second reason for their own personality, some people have shown a different personality from ordinary people since childhood, dare to take risks and are not satisfied with the status quo, like this people in the early years many of them went to the sea to do business, at present we meet a lot of rich people are out of the early years, these people have many people do not have character traits, because once people dare to be ordinary and do not want to struggle, they will really be poor for a lifetime. The third point is the influence of the family environment, if their relatives are very profitable, then they will do business or other money-making ideas and behaviors will naturally be passed on to the next generation, if their parents are just honest people, they will not teach you how to become a rich person, so the family background is also more important.
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Because of the loss in thinking, the poor as long as they have money will be deposited in the bank, will not be used for other investments, in their cognition, part-time work than doing business is lower risk, more stable, money in the bank is the safest, did not think about making money money, the way to make themselves richer.
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Because the poor people have already recognized the reality. They don't think they can get rich anymore through hard work. Experienced the trials and tribulations and setbacks of life.
They are full of disappointment in the world. It's in my nature to think that I'm poor. It can no longer be changed.
The main thing is a lack of confidence.
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If you are poor when you are young, but you don't work hard and don't want to change when you grow up, then such a person will be poor for a lifetime, unless it's pie in the sky. If you have money, but you also eat and play extravagantly, you will be poor for the rest of your life.
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If some people have been poor all their lives, then they are the ones who do not work hard at all. If a person can be industrious, it can be said that it is. Let's not talk about being rich and expensive, but at least I won't say it. Starve yourself.
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Why do some people spend their entire lives poor? Rationale:
1. Laziness, wanting to rely on others for nothing.
2. Be content with the status quo and never make progress, and never use your free time to study + research.
3. It is not excluded that you will encounter a family member or yourself who is terminally ill, and finally borrow money everywhere, resulting in a family wall.
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Poor in ideas and thinking.
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It's completely a problem of IQ and EQ, you can see if you look at the worst of the company's mix, you can see if you look at the high-level cadres who have low EQ IQ, except for those related households.
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<> "Will Ordinary People Really Be Poor for a Life?"
Growing up, I have been exposed to all kinds of poor people. Including my parents and relatives. Some of them are foolish, some are shrewd, some are treacherous, some are greedy.
From them, I clearly see the impact of the environment on people. It's not that they don't work hard, it's not that they don't get strong, but they can't get rid of their limitations. It's called poverty.
For example, if they don't save five dollars by car, they'd rather walk all the way. In their opinion, only the ticket in their hands is money, time is not valuable, hard work is not valuable, grievances and tears are even less valuable. It's suffocating.
I know that poverty itself is not that terrible, especially when everyone around you is just as poor as you.
The terrible thing is that poverty creates ways of thinking and behaving that keep people in the same place from generation to generation.
The poor parents are the weak thinking of the underlying logic, and their thinking has been too solidified, because there is no unknown teacher to guide the way, and there are sentient beings under it. On the road of life, the relatives around you are the biggest obstacle to your success. One of the characteristics of the poor is that they generally do not value time and energy, and feel that these things are not valuable.
And then spend so much energy on all sorts of trivial things that you don't have the energy to get yourself out of poverty. When I speak of the poor, I am not destitute. It's not that there is a meal and a meal. If that's the case, there's nothing to say, and you'll definitely have to worry about the next meal.
But the vast majority of people, in fact, are not like this, they have a job, they have time, but time is wasted.
You may ask, it always takes time to try, what if I just don't have that much time to try?
A key issue here is that you have to try more to have a better chance of finding a sub-industry that matches your interests and circle of competence. So how do you try as many as possible? Then you need to try it at a low enough cost.
If you borrow money to sell your house and open a hot pot restaurant, and you fail, it will take many years to repay your debts and climb the pit, and this is the end of it. So, what are the areas where the cost of trying is low now?
It's inexpensive to do something related to the Internet. For example, if you want to make a product, then you really don't need to invest money and resign from the company at the beginning. You can try to sell this product you know on the Internet first.
For example, if you can succeed in bringing goods, you will also find that you like it, and then increase the investment of time, energy, and money.
What kind of state are you in now, if you don't know what to do now, you are in a mess all day long, and you want to start a business and get rich overnight, then I advise you not to start a business. Entrepreneurship is a process of continuous failure accumulation to solve problems, although there are some unsatisfactory in it, but you continue to overcome difficulties, constantly improve yourself, and persist in achieving greater or lesser success sooner or later.
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