My girlfriend works before me, what should I do?

This is not a bad thing, there is a saying that does not mean real feelings, distance and age are not a problem. So what you have to do is to encourage your girlfriend often, and then work your own academics, your girlfriend who enters the society may be different from your life at school, and the two of you must have different views on problems and deal with problems, and they will inevitably quarrel. When arguing, I advise boys to be more tolerant and understanding, you have to know that your girlfriend is working, her knowledge and experience will inevitably be more than yours, and it is inevitable that there will be more troubles than you, so coax her more, don't worry too much about her, you must know that you are not letting someone else, but your girlfriend.

I worked earlier than my boyfriend, so to speak, he was my junior, sometimes I feel like his sister, I think a lot, but he doesn't seem to understand why I think so much, the first year of my work, we often quarrel in **, our two views are always different, due to the long distance, we often have a cold war, and in the end he basically ran to my city to coax me. In fact, the moment we met, we didn't have any resentment, maybe it was the girl's lack of security, and it was very reassuring to have her own boyfriend.

If your girlfriend's work city is very close to you, I advise you to have time to see her, a girl working hard in the field, it will be really difficult, and it will be particularly insecure, as a boyfriend at school you can't do anything for her, but you can silently support her behind the scenes, be her strong backing. At the same time, I also have to work hard to work in the city where she works in the future and accompany her well. The best love is to accompany her for a lifetime and protect her for a lifetime.

There's nothing to worry about.,It's going to enter society.,Who is early and who is late....What about relationships? As long as you are working in one direction, there is no problem. She can also give you both financial and experience support when she works early.

It's not a big deal, don't think too much about working early.

It's nothing, after all, you have to go to work sooner or later, just a little earlier than you.

Not confident! Depend on! This must not be the case! The last thing a man can say is "I can't"!

It's hard to get a job right now, and I hope you find a good job as soon as possible.

In addition, I feel that this kind of thing is also very good, it can test your love, what is the use of getting love that can't stand the test??

Do you know what the highest level of love is? That's called "holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son".

Once you have set a goal for life, whether you are rich or poor, healthy or disabled, it will be a lifetime.

And this is not the will of one person, but the will of two. It's not a verbal word, it's a promise that can only be proven in a lifetime!

If you really love her, why think so much. You have to study hard. In the future, you must take care of your wife so that you will not feel faceless.

Don't overthink it.

Men should look ahead, right?

Don't think about it so much.

I'm a lot younger than me.

It doesn't matter, as long as there is love.

It's actually quite dangerous, it's not a matter of losing right now, you have to keep in close contact with her, even if it's delayed, unless it's more important than her.

Otherwise, it's easy to lose it inadvertently and you can't find the reason for it It's not a problem to work successively The key is not to feel out of place with her It's good to get in touch with society through her.

You're worrying too much!!

What are you reading.

Dr. or??

This is the time to test the strength of your relationship, if your relationship can't even get over this little problem now, then

You want a woman who can share in adversity, not just happiness.

There are other people in the same situation as you, I am the girl in that situation, my boyfriend is still in college, I am doing an internship now, he will graduate next year, he is only a sophomore now, five years, I have to wait for him for three years after graduation, I sometimes think is this possible? But how do you know it's impossible without hard work? I hope your girlfriend feels the same way as I do, so it's okay at all, I don't think there's anything ...... about it

There are thousands of sons and daughters of China, if one can't work, let's change it again, if he loves you or has a vision, then it's nothing.

As for you, the only thing to do is to study hard and surpass him so that you can raise your eyebrows and be on your toes by then.

A person's mentality has to be adjusted by himself, and if it is not bad, he will regret complaining for a lifetime? It's useless.

Come on and work hard, and now there are a lot of women working first, so don't be disappointed, working later doesn't mean that you can't give her happiness, if the two of you want to love, as long as you love each other, you will be very happy

If you are worried that she will find a job before you do, will you be more disappointed or even inferior in the future because her salary is higher than yours? This is a very real problem that many men encounter, so you don't need to worry too much. Love that is attached to material things has no vitality, but it has to be attached to it, because people have to live on material things.

Whether your love lasts for a long time depends on how much you give to each other, and other things are secondary. I'm sure she'll understand you. But as a man, you are born to struggle, and you should always struggle, there is no room for maneuver.

In this way, we will encourage you.

You are a very responsible person, and I am happy for your friend. You just need to get a good job now, or ......That's it, you don't lack anything, how nice. Work hard, don't let your life have regrets!

In fact, there is really nothing, my situation is the same as yours, but I am in Kunming, my girlfriend is in Beijing, I have been good for more than four years, since I was admitted to university, we have always been a big country, but we have a good relationship, really, now my girlfriend is looking for a job, because I have studied urban planning for five years, she has studied English for four years, so she is going to work first, we love each other very much, so I don't feel anything, in fact, I also want her to go to graduate school so that I can work first, but I want to respect her choice, Because I love her, I will study hard and give her happiness in the future. I hope that LZ and my girlfriend can be happy together forever, and so will my wife and me.

The more I read now.

In the future, the greater the ability, and with a diploma, I am afraid that I will not be able to find a job!

It should be your GF that you want to lose, and your cultural level together will be too different in the future.

But then again, the man reads, the woman works, I don't know how long this relationship can last, be careful of the red star out of the wall

When you work for work, this feeling is gone, it's just temporary, it doesn't matter, you have to be sober at the critical moment, don't just find a company to sign for the sake of face, it's very troublesome at that time.

Only by studying hard can you give her happiness in the future.

People didn't say anything about you, what are you thinking nonsense?

Lost what? I want to go to school again after working, and I miss school life, so I said you should study hard, it's too early to think about happiness or unhappiness now, and it will affect your studies.

It is normal for women to earn more than men, and it will become more and more common in the future, which is also a symbol of equality between men and women.

What should I do if my girlfriend has a higher salary than me, love shouldn't be mixed with these, simple love, pure love, girlfriend doesn't mind what are you anxious about? If you mind, work hard and strive to surpass your girlfriend again, then you will have a balance in your heart.

You and your girlfriend will have to bear the life of the two of you together, and whoever has a high salary can improve the quality of life for both of you. Your girlfriend doesn't mind, what do you mind. Does the so-called male self-esteem make you think that your girlfriend must be worse than you, and real self-esteem is not for your girlfriend.

You should learn to enjoy it, because your woman's ability is greater than your own, which is a very proud thing, and you don't have to work so hard anymore. You have to remember to give her some comfort appropriately, you shouldn't be bothered, you should be proud and proud.

If my girlfriend's salary is higher than my own, I will feel very shameless. So I will work hard to improve, strive to surpass her, and use my strength to prove that I am not a soft eater.

It shouldn't matter because he's not a wife or a girlfriend, and he can't show his status without starting a family, so his girlfriend hasn't mixed up the money between the two of you. But once at all times money determines the upper echelons, his salary is higher than yours, he will definitely control the overall situation, and he will only be arrogant when he returns to you. But ah, you must also have a lot of advantages, so this one is not comparable, and there is another kind of life with a girlfriend with a higher salary than himself, he will be very inferior, and there is another life because the salary is lower than his girlfriend, but he is excellent in other aspects, so he is also excellent.

You work your own, improve yourself, strive to progress with your girlfriend at the same time, do a good job in logistics, and manage your own small family.

Isn't that something to be happy about? Everyone's job content is different, and the salary they definitely get is not different. If his salary is high, it can improve his quality of life, what is not to be.

Don't think that women make more money than themselves, and men can't bear it, this is very normal.

Prove that my girlfriend has a strong ability to work, if I want to tell others every day that I have such a good girlfriend. Of course, you have to work hard.

This is also normal, there are a lot of girls with high incomes, as long as you two feel that there is nothing between them, you don't have to care what others think.

In this case, you should be happy, your girlfriend's salary is higher than your own, but she still loves you, at least it shows that your own future is still very promising, in addition, since you know that the salary is not high enough, it means that you still have the direction of work and the motivation to move forward, then come on, make achievements, and get promoted and raised.

I feel that I am living a happy life, because my girlfriend's salary is higher than my own, so my girlfriend bears a little more expenses in life and takes care of me a little more.

It's great to have a girlfriend who earns more than yourself. He should be treated well. Cook something for him every day. When he is tired, you can rub his shoulders and waist. It's okay to love her well.

It should be a very happy thing to have a girlfriend with a higher salary than yourself. You should still strive for it. Be more diligent and harder at work. You do. It can also push yourself to be more self-motivated.

It's a good thing to have a girlfriend with a higher salary than yourself, which means that your vision is really great, as long as your girlfriend is not picky, you can enjoy it.

I will feel very embarrassed, generally boys raise girls, I have become a girlfriend whose salary is higher than mine, and I have become a girlfriend to help me, and I will be embarrassed to feel that I am very useless.

If I have a girlfriend who earns more than me, then I am so happy, which shows that my girlfriend is very capable. That's why the wages are so high.

Most of today's men want to have their own careers, and it is not easy to balance family and career. You may not have realized your values and dreams yet, if you have a successful career, it is recommended to help her or guide her to fulfill her dream of getting married. Usually I still have to be good to her as always, there is one more problem:

Have you met her parents? If not, find a chance to meet, and if her family wants to get married soon, it doesn't hurt to get married sooner.

Marriage is full of compromises, and no marriage is made without compromise. Now you can't agree on whether you get married or not, then at least one of the two of you is not suitable for marriage.

There must be a price for adults to make choices, and you want whatever you want, which is doomed to suffering.

There will be some losses when you get married early, but compared with the loss of a very suitable and very desirable wife, I don't think it is difficult to judge which one is a big loss.

The two of you discuss this matter carefully, she wants to get married early for fear that you will change, or pressure from the family!

It's been too long.

There is a good chance that there will be a breakup.

There is no novelty in each other.

Three-year itch, seven-year itch, the possibility of a breakup is extremely high.

Now that you have identified this person, it is also a good thing to get married early.

Otherwise, set a date before the wedding.

It can be postponed appropriately.

The other party was also relieved.

Since she's so good, what do you have to worry about.

In order for a girl to take the initiative in a relationship, she must be financially independent. Among the breakup dramas we often hear, the most common sentences we hear are "You spent so much money on me and now you want to break up?" "You eat Lao Tzu and drink Lao Tzu, what qualifications do you have to say break up?

If you want to break up, I'll dump you! ”…This point is objectively illustrated.

If you eat people with a short mouth and short hands, you will inevitably be criticized for inheriting the benefits of others. So now girls are working in that direction, spending their own money, and I don't spend your money. Such a girl is independent and can be appreciated, and has the ability to hold up the sky.

I saw a person sharing on the Internet that he saw a couple in a shopping mall, and the girl wanted the necklace, but it was a bit expensive, and the boy didn't want her to buy it. He said, "What's there to wear here?!"

It's so expensive, isn't it okay if you haven't worn these things before? Why do you have to buy it? Did you know that I had to work a few days more when you bought this necklace!

The girl was very persistent, and after trying it, she had to pay the bill.

The boy reached out and grabbed her and yelled, "Will you live a good life!" Spend less to die?! ”

The girl shook off his hand and replied loudly: "The old lady spends her own money, don't bother here if you can't afford to buy it!" ”

I was like, cool!

Girls can only build a home with you if they work hard and can afford their own lives.

So, you see that she is working so hard to be able to live the life she wants to live, why don't you fight?