I have low self esteem and find an ugly girl to be my girlfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Brother, why bother with low self-esteem, how many good-looking wives are not beautiful, and how many not handsome men marry a flower, and which girl thinks how ugly she looks, these things depend on fate, and again, in this society, as long as you have money, what kind of woman doesn't have it?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Landlord, you belong to a negative mentality, you need to correct it, give yourself a little psychological hint. Believe in yourself, I'm the best. The problem is not that you have low self-esteem, I'm afraid that you haven't found out, and now you know (you have the shortcoming of low self-esteem), so why not work hard to correct it, you know, people with low self-esteem will definitely not be flattered by women (even if she herself is also inferior, but she will definitely not want a boyfriend with low self-esteem), so from now on, you have to cheer up and give yourself a little positive psychological hint, so that you will gradually turn inferiority into self-confidence.

    Well, don't be sad, get out of the shadow of low self-esteem as soon as possible (give yourself positive hints, believe it, it's amazing).

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Girls love attractive boys.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Brother, you have to have confidence in yourself....Don't be so inferior, the ones who are much shorter than you are...There are people who are uglier than you...Why bother....Let's relax....

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now it's popular to have ugly men with beautiful women.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Now there are a lot of boys who are less than a meter, and there is no need to be inferior, this kind of thing is fate, why deliberately find an ugly girl

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm also ugly, and I want to find ugly girls.

    The ugly girl is very sought-after now, it's hard to find, look at fate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Hello, no matter what you look like, you can find your life partner or soul mate. We have too many examples of this, where appearance is not a requirement, but a plus.

    Hello, no matter what kind of appearance chain you are blind about, you can find your life partner or soul mate empty. We have too many examples of this, where appearance is not a requirement, but a plus.

    But we have low self-esteem, and this is a psychological problem. We can also solve this problem by exploring ourselves and counseling. Because we can grow up, explore ourselves, and then find our own shining points and develop our own advantages.

    Slowly, you will become more and more confident. Can you talk to the teacher about your inferiority complex for foreign trade or other aspects?

    You can tell the teacher carefully, do you have an inferiority complex for your appearance, or do you have a late empty filial piety from other aspects? We can start with this, I hope it can help you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then you should be clean and neat in yourself, don't stand with her and have such a big gap, and then give her a sense of security.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No matter how beautiful your girlfriend is, you can catch up because you have the ability and don't have to be inferior, because if you don't have the ability, you can't catch up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's a good thing for your girlfriend to be beautiful, it's not good to take it out to have more face, and you don't need to be inferior at all, because since people are beautiful and fall in love with you, it proves that you have something to attract her, and that's where your excellence lies.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think that since you are with your girlfriend, it means that she loves you, you don't have doubts about yourself, there must be something excellent to choose you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You must overcome this little emotion, since he is willing to be your girlfriend, he must think that you are worthy of him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You don't have to feel inferior in love, because love is equal.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since she gave up others and chose to be with you, what inferiority complex do you have, steal the fun!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since she chose you, it shows that you have your own merits, be confident.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I feel like you can make yourself better. Keep her with strength.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In fact, this finding a partner is not just because you are good-looking, of course, it must be reasonable.

    From a woman's point of view 1, the boyfriend should have a sense of security.

    2, to be excellent, like academics, like a cheerful personality, like a superior family 3, maybe the parents are uglier than you, but don't care about their own efforts, and finally get the beauty 4, you naturally think so, why didn't you chase this girl in the first place, this is also where you failed 5, beautiful women also want to find handsome guys, but good morality is more important.

    From a man's point of view, I hate men who talk about things with their faces, ignore your looks, women are more beautiful, and men are more about body and ability. I guess this aspect of the man attracted the girl.

    And the woman is also an individual phenomenon, why don't you look at it extensively.

    Men looking for girlfriends, I suggest, find a long one that is more plain, but good-looking, don't look for those rouge vulgar fat, good eyes are more important, willing to be motivated, gentle but powerful, don't look for those dominatrix or no personality. You can't find a jealous maniac, I'm a woman who understands it thoroughly.

    It has nothing to do with appearance, it is related to vanity, if you are interested in a tree that is big, arrogant, feel good about yourself, despise others, overestimate your own woman, touch your pocket, to be honest, women hate this kind of woman the most, so such a girl who can't get along in the pile of women, even if it looks good, don't chase it, unless you have a tendency to have a little white face.

    As for boys, it is recommended to take the initiative, be bold, and don't be constrained. Girls don't like that, not to mention, you're not ugly!! It's too humble!!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Not looking ugly can only be said to be general, for the current society, economic strength is the preferred criterion for most women. There are countless cases where you can find supermodels and actors to get married at the age of 50 or 60. Let's work hard to improve your social status.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Competence, speak for themselves. Women like men who are capable and rich, and this is very realistic, and females in the animal kingdom choose strong and powerful males to breed offspring because of a sense of security. Man is also an animal, compared to kindness and wisdom, women out of female instinct, of course, to see whether the man can support the family, do not seek to be rich and expensive to get by, if you are nervous about food and clothing, women will stay away from you.

    A good grasp of a practical skill is a golden job, and you can make money and live anywhere.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Looking at this handsome guy's appearance, it doesn't seem to be ugly! Guangdong's bar! I will definitely be able to find a beautiful girlfriend drop!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Brother, you are humble again.

    To use a bad analogy, Sister Feng can find it as long as she wants to find it.

    What's more, we're not ugly.

    Be self-confident.

    Self-confidence is the capital of success.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, if you have low self-esteem, do not correctly recognize your strengths, and do not change your shortcomings, it is estimated that you will not find a good girl.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Think about Wang Baoqiang, you should know that counterattack is not a problem

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you are good to people, you will naturally be liked.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's okay, it's not ugly, girls don't all like handsome guys, and beauties are sometimes easily moved, make yourself better, and there are girls looking for you without deliberately chasing them.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hehe, it's good to have faith, just don't worry too much.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    That's right. You're hopeless.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Saying goes. Love is blind.

    Don't have low self-esteem, low self-esteem is often that others do not look at you in this way, but you yourself devalue yourself first.

    Even if you are really inferior to others in appearance, you can attract her in other ways, you know, true love is not maintained by appearance.

    To take a simple example, Chen Jianbin .

    It's not good-looking, but he married a wife who is like a flower, and he was not famous at the time, let alone rich, so it can be seen that he does have his attractive side.

    Moreover, there are many Korean stars who are very beautiful but marry a man who is not good-looking.

    So, don't feel inferior, and don't feel inferior to your own appearance.

    Since you like her, then be brave to pursue her, use your most unique charm to pursue her, and show your best side.

    Even if she refuses, it can only mean that she is not the person you are waiting for, and you can exclude one, so that it is not great to get closer and closer to your own happiness?

    Hope it helps, hope.

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