Am I kind or cowardly? Kind and cowardly people are the most terrible

Feelings are like this, sometimes it's so helpless! Now that he's gone, it's your end! What's there to let go, maybe his ex-girlfriend is more suitable for him than you?

A friend once told me a story. There was a lovelorn man who went to the temple and asked the host, and he said how to let go of the feelings that he didn't want to end! The host made tea for him very enthusiastically, and when the host poured tea for him, because it was too overflowing, it burned the person, and then he let go of his hand, and the host asked him why he let go, and he let go of the pain After that, he understood!

When you hurt, you naturally let go! It's human nature! Don't reminisce too much about the past, it will hurt you!

You're kind and cowardly.

Feelings are very profound issues, you don't have to be too obsessed with the result, the process of love is often more important. Just like the protagonist in the Titanic can "my heart is eternal".

In fact, the essence of love is beyond the emotional level of the material foundation, but many people think that the material foundation is very important.

If you love it, you don't have too many regrets, keep working hard and live every day.

If you say it without flattery, you can conclude that you are subordinate to the good.

I don't have anything very emotional to say, but to congratulate you on getting out of a fragile relationship.

He may have his own difficulties, after all, reality is sometimes greater than feelings, which also shows that he doesn't care about you so much, maybe a little absolutely. After all, this is the time to test your feelings, but he chose to give up.

So what else do you can't let go? Do you have to tug at the corner of someone's clothes and ask for some love for you?

Two-legged men run all over the street, are you still afraid that you won't be able to touch your true love?

Learn to love yourself and then love others.

Maybe you can't put it down now, but after a long time, everything will become dull. Everything became a memory. Sometimes when I think about it occasionally, I feel very strange, as if it was not something I experienced, and I was just a spectator.

Now that he has made his choice and is back with his ex-girlfriend, it means that he intends to start a new life. Everyone should let go, why are you obsessed?

If you want to open it, it will pass sooner or later, it's just a matter of time. Find more things to do for yourself, don't be empty, make yourself fuller, and you won't think about those messy things.

I feel that my life is like a lot of forks in the road, there is no so-called right or wrong, it is all about choice.

Ask yourself if two people really can't be together, and if you think it's possible, then make it clear so that you don't regret it when you remember it later. If it's because of reality, please remember that even if you are together, you may not be happy. I love him very much, and you can also ask him what he thinks.

However, for me personally, I am still willing to go with the flow, and it is someone else's loss to miss it, not mine, haha.

This is a personal opinion, just for reference.

Everything is fate, kindness or cowardice, don't care too much, 123 is simple.

Actually, you already have the answer you want because he has already made his choice, haven't you?

Such people are not worth it. Give up early.

Summary. In fact, kindness is a very good quality, people with this quality have their own halo, but the quality of cowardice is not good to be honest, but cowardice you can change, in daily life you have to break through yourself, starting from a small thing you dare not do.

Kiss, can I ask? Why do you want to post this sentence?

Want to see if I'm not.

In fact, kindness is a very good quality, people with this quality have their own halo, but the pure quality of cowardice is not good to be honest, but cowardice you can change, in daily life you have to break through yourself, starting from a small thing that you dare not do stupidly.

If you're full of treasures, you won't feel terrible.

I didn't know I might be right now.

Bao: Can you tell me about how cowardly you feel in your life?

It's okay, the moon plucking turnips is your tree hole.

Decided to hesitate. Bao, it's not cowardly to decide to hesitate, I don't think you lack confidence in yourself to say this about yourself.

Well, count it as one.

Could it be that you should have made a decision in your life but hesitated because of something in your heart, and you were not decisive at all, right?

Not decisive. Bao Then I can be sure, you are kind but cowardly is not considered to be withered, at most it is not decisive caused by lack of self-confidence, no problem, the moon plucks the carrot in fact, I want to be bored and suggest you, oh, if you meet again in the future to make a decision, you can ask your friends or something.

Be sure to be a positive treasure

Hello, brother Min Oak because I saw that you rated my last time I didn't take Kai, I am very concerned about your experience. If you are satisfied with my service, I hope you can give a thumbs up! If there is a problem, I am always waiting for you.

I wish you a happy life and a happy life!

Many people associate kindness with cowardice, feeling that kind people are easy to compromise, kind people are easy to back down, and kind people give people a feeling of indisputable and cowardly.

However, truly good people don't think so.

Because when the attribute of kindness comes into play, it is just a serious desire to do something, not to be kind for the sake of getting something.

From a lexical point of view, kindness is a virtue that belongs to the category of personal qualities; And cowardice is a state, which belongs to the category of personal personality, how can it be connected? There is no reciprocity between them at all.

Good people don't have to be cowardly.

Many people will do charity, and no matter how many people they have really helped, they are all kind at the moment when they are willing to donate materials and money, but there are many entrepreneurs or dignitaries among them, can they describe a person who is either decisive or upright?

Or after every natural or man-made disaster, there are hundreds of millions of donors, and those who want to do their best to help others regardless of whether they are living in poverty or not, are kind.

And you, have you ever made a donation, then you, are you a coward?

A cowardly person is not necessarily a pure person.

The formation of a cowardly character does not happen overnight, it will only be formed in a long period of oppression or repression, but "if it does not explode in silence, it will perish in silence", it may erupt into a fierce rebellious personality and make yourself a cowardly slave, or it may burst out into a nobler and pure personality, so that you can be sublimated.

Or, if you can't resist, you choose to perish.

Are there good and cowardly people? Of course.

Are there people who are not kind but cowardly? Absolutely.

Some people think that good people are cowardly because they choose to back down when they encounter conflicts (such as provocations and quarrels).

For such a perception, it can only be said that personal choices are different.

If a policeman encounters a thief, he may go after him; If a lawyer encounters a thief, he may be more inclined to take evidence and then prosecute; If an ordinary person encounters a thief, he may call the police.

These three people, expressing kindness in different ways, are they cowardly?

No, they just used the way they were most sure to solve the current problem.

It has nothing to do with cowardice or not, it's just a different approach.

So, even if many people take a step back, endure for a while, and give in, it is not necessarily cowardice, they just use what they are best at or what they think is the best way to solve the problem at hand.

And kindness is always a ray of light in everyone's heart.

It's not about cowardice, it's not about being strong.

1. Different meanings:

Kindness means to be pure in heart, innocent and gentle, without malice, kind, and good-hearted. It also refers to a person who is kind and not malevolent. Cowardice means weakness and incompetence; Weak.

2. Antonyms are different:

Antonyms of goodness: evil; Ferocious; Atrocious; Vicious. Antonym for cowardice: brave.

3. The pronunciation is different.

The good pinyin is shànliáng, and the cowardly pinyin is nuòruò.

4. Different personalities.

Cowardice is a personality flaw, and kindness is an excellent character.

5. The common denominator between kindness and cowardice.

Kindness is a Chinese word, and cowardice is also a Chinese word.

6. Experiences are different.

Cowardly people generally experience the harm of their original family, so that in the process of interpersonal interactions, they often unconsciously activate the negative coping mode, protect themselves, do not do what they can do, do not say what they can not say, even if they are attacked by others, they do not dare to fight back, so as to avoid suffering a greater blow and minimize their losses. The social functioning of such people is often compromised.

Kind-hearted people generally have a stronger heart, and they often have enough patience to deal with the vexatious troubles of others, think of good in everything, repay evil with good, and do not hold grudges against others. This kind of person needs to have enough love to support their hearts, otherwise, it will be difficult to be kind.

Kindness is not weakness, kindness will make people respect, and weakness will only make people bully.

There was a girl who had just moved to a new dormitory, and once she went to the dining hall to eat, she asked the dormitory people if she wanted to bring food, and everyone politely said "Thank you, come back to give you money, I'm sorry for you".

Over time, the roommates became accustomed to asking the girl to bring food, and gradually took it for granted, and finally even thanked them.

The little girl gradually didn't want to bring food to her roommates every day, first, she didn't want to delay her roommates to eat, and secondly, she was very tired of bringing food to her roommates every day, and sometimes she had something to do and couldn't be busy, but the little girl didn't dare to refuse her roommates.

One day, she finally mustered up the courage to refuse her roommates, and got the cynicism of her roommates, telling others everywhere, who is the one in our dormitory, who is a fake good person, and even the people who don't want to help, pretend to be a good person all day long, and ...... itStarted isolating her in the dormitory and bullying her.

It is said that a bowl of rice raises a benefactor, and a bucket of rice raises an enemy, presumably for this reason.

There was a person who stole half of the village's trees to buy, but every family dared to be angry and did not dare to speak, just because they didn't want to offend their family, some of their family were rich and powerful, and everyone comforted themselves and told themselves that I was very kind, and those few trees could not be exchanged for much money, and he could not eat for a lifetime, I still want to be a good person, be kind to others, more things are better than less things, or endure it.

As a result, he changed from stealing trees and selling them for money to cutting down trees and selling them for money.

People must be kind but not weak, your connivance will make him become a matter of course, your patience will make him more and more presumptuous, and your self-perceived kindness will make him trample on you again and again, trampling on your dignity.

Sometimes it's for a breath of air, for human dignity, not just for that little bit to spend a week's money.

The more you endure it, the more others step on you, as the saying goes, people are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden, you give him three points of color and he will open a dyeing shop, don't think that your self-righteous kindness is kindness, that's not kindness, that's weakness, don't let your self-righteous kindness become the reason for others to trample on you step by step, don't let your self-righteous kindness become a ladder for others to bully you.

Everyone should have their own dignity in life, don't make compromises, and learn to refuse bravely.