Tomorrow there will be a debate competition, the theme is adversity or good times and easy to become

Adversity is too easy to frustrate self-esteem.

Good times are more conducive to people's growth! If people are constantly in trouble, their physical and mental health will be affected, which will naturally affect their work, and they will not be able to grow up. It is true that people's lives cannot always be "smooth sailing", and they will encounter setbacks, but people will have a certain ability to withstand adversity, and will not "have the slightest ability to resist", so even if they encounter some small setbacks in a good environment, people will self-regulate.

If it is not conducive to growth, it can only be caused by setbacks, and has nothing to do with good times.

In the face of suffering, everyone's ability to adjust is different, and it does not mean that "there is no resistance to setbacks", the ability to bear is related to people's character, quality and other factors, there are innate, there are acquired training, in the face of setbacks, most people have the ability to self-regulate. Since adversity can still be endured, good times are even more powerful.

It is generally believed that adversity can cultivate talents, while good times can bury talents. I don't think so. The theory of dialectical materialism tells us that external attraction is the condition of change, internal causes are the basis of change, and external quotation works through internal causes.

Adversity and good times are external conditions, not the fundamental reasons for success, and the key to success lies in the play of subjective initiative. So when people think that adversity creates success, in fact, it is not, in the final analysis, it is the strong will of the people themselves, so in good times, when all the conditions are ripe, and people have willpower, they can succeed.

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People are always in a certain social environment and natural environment, in this environment we will encounter a smooth environment, a harmonious situation, a good situation, the so-called good situation, or we may feel difficult, a kind of adversity. We all hope that all aspects will be smooth, but adversity is inevitable, adversity certainly brings great obstacles to our life and career, hindering the progress of the career, but when the external environment cannot be changed, we must adjust our mentality, have the courage to face the difficulties in adversity, overcome adversity, and get self-improvement in the tempering of adversity, so that adversity becomes the driving force for self-progress.

Examples of growing up in adversity).

Adversity gives people valuable opportunities to temper. Only those who can withstand the test of adversity can become truly strong. Most of the great men of ancient and modern China and foreign countries have struggled from adversity with an indomitable spirit.

Beethoven, who was deaf, trudged through the thorny black and white keys, and slammed the sacred door of "Destiny" with his fingers, swaying a glorious movement of the first family to fight against doom. Sima Qian endured the pain of palace punishment and completed the historical masterpiece "Historical Records". King Wen of Zhou was detained and acted in "Zhou Yi".

The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds and muscles. "Therefore, adversity is a stepping stone for the strong to climb the peak, and an abyss for the weak to go to destruction.

Make adversity a motivator).

Internal factors determine - maintain a good attitude in the face of the external environment).

Peterson said:"In life, there are often countless blows from the outside, but the final decision on how these blows will affect you is in your own hands. "Mentality determines everything, an important premise of not being discouraged in adversity is the cultivation of a good attitude, in the face of good times, give up self-improvement, give up hope in the face of adversity is not advisable, whether it is good times or bad times, we must maintain a positive attitude.

Face up to adversity and actively overcome adversity).

We don't need to praise adversity, we don't need to look forward to adversity, but we must face adversity, once we are in adversity, the most important thing is to have confidence, perseverance, courage, perseverance, and the spirit of hard work. People in adversity should be able to face difficulties bravely, and at the same time be able to face themselves, tap their courage and great potential, and work hard to overcome difficulties. Since ancient times, all people who can achieve great things are down-to-earth and hard-working people.

Linyuan envy fish, it is better to retreat and close the net. Alas, sighing is not the way, fantasy and longing are not the way, only by doing it with confidence can we get out of the predicament.

for the current phenomenon).

At present, the living standards of the people have been greatly improved, especially the post-90s teenagers have lived a worry-free life since childhood, lack of experience in the face of adversity, and have poor ability to solve difficulties by themselves once they face difficulties, so adversity education for young people is very meaningful. Frustration education and adversity education can be carried out.

Talent is a rare resource of society, ancient and modern Chinese and foreign talents have two very important characteristics: 1, tenacious vitality, 2, good self-improvement ability. The growth process of talents is an irreproducible process of overcoming difficulties and overcoming difficulties.

Only adversity can eliminate all kinds of weaknesses in people's own existence, so as to continuously improve their own congenital deficiencies and weak willpower shortages, so as to stimulate their own potential, and achieve self-improvement and transcendence! The male lion who grew up in the zoo will never become the overlord of the grassland! The flowers cultivated in the greenhouse will never be able to bear the baptism of wind and rain!

Personally, I think adversity is more conducive to human growth, there is such a saying"Since ancient times, heroes have come out of youth", although the hero does not ask the source, but is the generation of the hero casual? Of course not, Huang Laser, Qiu Shaoyun and other revolutionary heroes, which one was not born and died, in exchange for the current happiness in adversity, in other words, if there is no adversity to set off the arrival of good times is also an inevitable nightmare. Hurt Zhongyong should be no stranger to everyone, it can be said that it is in good times, he has been better than others since he was a child, and he is talented and intelligent, but in the end, it is not"Lost to everyone"Isn't his example a cause for attention!

Although today's society does not have to worry about food and clothing, we have to face the pressure and competition brought by the society at any time"Competition"Is it adversity? Jehovah was born in an extremely poor environment, but this is how he can understand the suffering of the people, solve problems, and then let us go back and analyze how many people were sacrificed by the Three Kingdoms, and you fought for me to have the country, and this is not adversity. Of course, good times have left good memories, but the results are often unsatisfactory.

For example, in "Dream of Red Mansions", there are countless Daguanyuan, young ladies, and maids, and the whole garden is also rich. It can be described as"Shun"To the extreme, who knows if it will still be miserable in the end.

All kinds of situations show that the good or bad of things is the result of a quantitative change to a qualitative change, and if one of these processes is missing, then human beings will not be able to continue to survive, so adversity can hone people's will more.