Why do we always look at people as right and wrong and don t care about what is wrong?

People observe objective affairs and get a subjective impression, and in this process, the "objective" decays; People then express this subjective impression in words, due to the problems of the language itself (precision, emotion, intonation, context. It is almost impossible to have a correct expression. As a result, the "objective" will be further attenuated and even mutated.

What happens during the transmission process is even more uncontrollable. Based on this view, even if the narrator thinks he is objective and impartial, he is not necessarily "objective".

This is human nature, everyone will be able to understand, but the more selfish people do this, some people can even reverse black and white without guilt, when you listen to people, the more he says that he is not at fault, the stronger his selfishness, people usually get along with each other will quarrel, there is only one reason, that is, not thinking about each other.

Someone who knows right from wrong. For what purpose do such people "lie"? Is it to alleviate the guilt, to make yourself feel at ease, to shirk responsibility, to bully, to be vain, to find it fun, or to be a secret that can't be said, uh...And guess what....People with different values.

The rights and wrongs of things are all based on their own three views, and they lack a macro understanding. One person is sitting in a well and watching the sky, and the other is playing the harp to the cow. Or maybe you're not on the same frequency, and you can't blame anyone.

In short, based on basic human nature, no one wants to be on the weak side, no one wants to be disadvantaged by themselves, right?

Don't wonder, because when you have such a mentality, you are already in it. There is a saying in Buddhism, "If you are a true practitioner, you will not see the world." When you ask such a question, it means that you yourself are discussing the rights and wrongs of others.

Karma, self-inflicted, take care of your own heart, keep your mouth shut, and then you won't feel that someone is discussing other people's rights and wrongs.

To put it simply, it is "seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages", which has little to do with human nature (talking about human nature will make the problem very mysterious), almost all lives are seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages. Of course, there are always exceptions.

Human nature is too complicated. Regarding Rashomon, I think there is still a little bit of human nature that I can't understand. Although people tend to speak more favorably on their own side, as you said in a fight, after listening to their explanations, you will find that both of them are at fault.

But when you finish watching Rashomon, you will find that you can't find the truth of the facts.

Personally, I think that in many cases, everyone judges right and wrong from their own understanding. However, everyone's understanding is different, so naturally there is no right or wrong (except for right and wrong within the scope of legal rules).

Perhaps, in the city, everyone has their own troubles. Maybe he's struggling to catch his breath under the pressure of a heavy and breathless life. But we still continue to live a positive life, trying to solve the problems of loneliness.

Who will play the boogers that are picked out, no matter what kind of system it is, most of the people who come out in the end are batch after batch of exquisite egoists.

We often argue about who is right and who is wrong, often for a trivial matter, everyone argues with a red face and a thick neck, the public says that the public is reasonable, the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable, and it seems that we will never give up without arguing about the result, and even this will cause resentment, affect emotions, and even worse, it is difficult to say what the consequences will be. Is it really possible to argue for a result in the end? Often not!

The final result of Li Zheng is time, which is the truth! In fact, in many cases, each other is completely tolerant, inclusive, and can also show personal demeanor, and there is no need or worth spending those energy to argue. So we often argue endlessly, why?

I think that two situations are the most typical: one is that he thinks that he has been wronged, so he argues with reason, and he has to make a black and white situation, that is, if he doesn't give an explanation, he will not work, and he always feels aggrieved; The second is to fight for face, in this case, once the argument starts, it almost has little to do with what the content of the argument is, it is just to fight for face. A lot of people argue about right and wrong, and the phrase that is often used is:

It's obviously me who is right, why do you say I'm wrong, I'm not wrong, I shouldn't say I'm wrong, it's not my fault, why don't you admit your mistake, and so on. I think what is reflected in these words, or what the debaters are most concerned about, is the question of what other people think of me.

Because I can't be said to be wrong, whether it's saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, etc.! Is it really that important what other people think? Actually, I think that everyone doesn't have to care too much about other people's opinions, after all, other people's opinions are other people's, and it's good to see what you think, because how you see it is your own!

If you care too much about other people's opinions, you are working for others, not for yourself, isn't it a loss! Whether we are right or wrong, it is a good opportunity for us to learn and progress, because once there is a disagreement between right and wrong, then each other can actually stop, it is better to use some time to analyze and summarize, whether it is from yourself or from others, it is possible to learn experience and lessons. Besides, many times, there is no such thing as right and wrong!

Right and wrong are just two sides of things, and many times things are not composed of two sides, or even multiple sides, and different perspectives will have different effects. It's just that to know these aspects, it may take time and wind and rain to really understand. Just like a fast stone, there are edges and corners, and even square, several faces may be easy to see clearly, but after the vicissitudes of wind and rain and tempering, the edges and corners naturally do not exist, but it is no longer easy to count how many faces.

It's not called sleek! Whether you admit it, you don't admit it, you think it's right or wrong, it's what it is! Therefore, there is no need for us to argue so hard.

In fact, everyone has a rod in their hearts, as for whether they are light or heavy, some people may intentionally or unintentionally call you wrong, but the vast majority of people can be accurate, and more importantly, they have to weigh themselves! Satisfied.