After I got married, I still miss my former girlfriend, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-02
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Life is not over, how can you be sure that the person you love the most is the first girlfriend.

    Maybe the person who can't get it will look better in his heart, but you must know that marriage is not forced by others, and marriage is not child's play, you must not only be responsible for yourself but also for your wife. Since you chose to enter into marriage with her in the first place, you should be ready to take on this responsibility. But then again, you are suffering in your heart now, and there are three ways.

    1.Divorce to find an ex-girlfriend, the success rate is unknown.

    2.Live a good life, as long as you really give, your current wife can also become your favorite person.

    3.Live in a mess and continue to suffer.

    No matter what, I chose it myself, and if I choose, I will be responsible, no matter how good my ex-girlfriend is"before"Girlfriend too. I hope you think about it and don't make impulsive decisions.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How long have you not seen each other? Actually, I think it's good for you to meet her. Because I have a friend who is in a similar situation to you, and then I went to meet my former girlfriend, and it turned out that she had changed, not the same as before, and the knot in my heart naturally opened.

    It's okay if you don't get married or live with the person you love, and even if you're together, it doesn't mean you'll be happy forever, maybe something will happen.

    Marriage and love are separated, you give her everything that should be given to your current wife, fulfill the responsibilities of a husband, and it doesn't matter who you love the most in your heart.

    My advice is to keep it up if you have a good life with your current wife, and you can keep in touch with your ex-girlfriend, but you must have a good family relationship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I guess your first girlfriend must have been nice to you, right? But why did you break up with her? Your profile is small enough to give you a good opinion, but how can you be worthy of your current wife now?

    I think it's a matter of time, and after a long time you can forget it. And since you have married your wife back, you must be good to her. After all, the only person who can accompany us is the one who is suitable for us...Let her go....

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really want to see you, say hello to your wife too, but make the line clear. That's life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since you are married, you can't say give up, love your wife well, those good memories in your heart can only be cherished, 'love' may be an illusion! Love is not necessarily suitable for being together, and not loving may also form a beautiful family! Live your life in the moment!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love is a matter of 2 people. If you marry someone else, it means that you don't approve of your love for her and you marry another woman. I can't forget her, so I love my wife as her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's because you still have feelings for her! Egyptians are emotional animals, and when you and your current wife have been for a long time, you will naturally look forward to it. Kindness. It may not be entirely remembered.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The ex-girlfriend has been thinking about it in her heart, and in such a situation, she should throw away all the items related to the ex-girlfriend in her life. If it is a reluctant situation, it also needs to be locked up to avoid seeing things and thinking about people. The most important thing is to control your mouth and don't let yourself leak your mouth, which will affect the relationship with the current one.

    People who are about to get married still think about their ex-girlfriends in their hearts, which is an extremely abnormal thing. It is easy to affect the upcoming marriage because of your own disconnection, and in serious cases, there will be a situation of "capsizing".

    Such a situation should be paid enough attention, and if you want to adjust your mentality, you need to do a good job in the following two aspects.

    1. "Close" everything related to your ex-girlfriend In most cases, you can't forget your ex because there are still things related to your ex in your life. It could be a book, an object, a talk, a mood, or a place that two people have been to together. These familiar things are subtly influencing us, so that the scenes where our ex gets along with us are always replayed in our minds like movies.

    To prevent this from happening, we need to get rid of all the things related to our predecessors. Even the eating habits that have been influenced by your ex, as well as the places you often visit, should be visited as little as possible.

    2. Forcing ourselves to forget the existence of our predecessors has a very significant impact on us. Before a new relationship begins, we are allowed to miss our ex, but once we enter a new relationship, we have to forget about our ex completely. If you don't force yourself, it's going to be hard to do.

    Don't think about the previous things, don't think about those pleasant memories, think more about the shortcomings of your ex, the unpleasant things between the two.

    In this way, you will slowly forget your ex, and when you think of your ex, it is also a bad memory, and you can completely forget your ex by disgusting a person.

    Even if you can't forget your ex, you need to take care of this emotion, and in front of the current one, you can't leak the slightest flaw, otherwise it will only add fuel to the fire.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There will always be regrets if you can't get it, after all, it's normal for people who have been together not to be together in the end, you can think more about the current girlfriend's goodness, compare, let yourself know that the talent in front of you is the most precious, so that's fine.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In this case, it is recommended to postpone the wedding, and I personally feel that it is irresponsible for both parties to get married with this mentality. You can talk to a trusted friend and figure out exactly what you think.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should find a way to change yourself, tell yourself to be responsible, and do so to be sorry for your wife.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Pretend not to see it, just block it, because the two bladed oaks have already started a new life, so don't continue to break the thread, and don't make any reply next to the silver belt.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Personal Shanhe thinks that at this time, don't reply to the message of the funny pure staring party, the other party is already getting married, don't bother the other party, you also have your beloved, and you have to be responsible for the other party.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Directly ignore each other's news, since they have separated, there is no need to cause trouble for each other.

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