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It's good to care about your brother, but you can't indulge him, I feel like you're conniving at him by helping him ask his parents for money. You should have to think of a way.,Your brother is now in a rebellious period.,It's good or bad He can't tell the difference.,You have to help him get out of the misunderstanding as soon as possible.。。 But you can't use preaching, which will only make him hate complaining, you have to use some expression, you have to use actions to influence him.
You can talk to your family about what you can do to help him, or talk to a friend he usually trusts to find out what is going on in his mind. After all, a rebellious person has a bad temper and character, don't provoke him, let him know that you are for his good.
It's hard for me to say what to do, after all, everyone's environmental thinking is different, and it doesn't necessarily apply to the method I want to use, so you still have to combine the thoughts of the family and your brother, and the environment is the best way to deal with this problem.
It is best to let him understand more in the form of probation, let him understand more about the truth of life and things, let him know what is good and what is bad, many things should be tried by himself, and he will understand all kinds of truths in the attempt, but don't let him go wrong, rebellious people are the easiest to go wrong. Use the power of relatives and friends to influence him, everyone has a sensitive and fragile heart, and you have to go into his heart to really help him.
Now children at this age are like this, they are curious about everything, they want to try, but they are always hot for three minutes, but it doesn't matter, just let him try a few more times, life is so long, there will always be something he really likes, suitable for his job. But you can't let him develop a bad habit of being lazy and lazy.,It's okay to help him find the goal of struggle.,Take him out for a walk when he's fine.,Look at the novelty of the world.,This may be his mentality of working hard.。。
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Now he is in the rebellious period
So don't give him money secretly.
Don't restrain him.
If you can, you can see which outside friend he trusts the most.
Ask them for help.
It is good to always advise.
Generally, such children subconsciously want to attract the attention of the family, maybe you are busy with something inadvertently made him feel lonely, not necessarily, if it is not because of this... That's too much spoiling! )
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Stop helping him cheat his parents out of money. This is not good for him, but harmful to him.
Educational issues do not happen overnight, be patient.
If you have nothing to say, there may be a generation gap, and if you want to communicate with your brother, you have to find a topic that interests him.
Talk to him solemnly. Don't treat him like a child.
Let him understand that being a man is responsible, and if he lets himself go now, he will do nothing in the future and achieve nothing.
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It's a real headache in this situation, and I'd love to help you, but I can't think of any good advice.
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What a lawlessness! One word type! The little tree is not right!
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Looks like my brother is getting better.
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1. Treat younger brothers with a tolerant attitude. Children will have a rebellious psychology at a certain stage, you let him go east and he will go west, at this time, try not to conflict with his younger brother, don't come up is a scolding, but to treat him with a tolerant attitude, understand why he is like this.
2. Take the initiative to communicate with your younger brother. Many conflicts are exacerbated by a lack of communication between family members. Therefore, you usually communicate more than your brother, you can start with something that he is interested in, and gradually gain his trust.
3. After gaining the trust of his younger brother, he can make full use of his experience to persuade his younger brother and tell his younger brother about his experience, so that he can realize the harm of doing something. But in the process of persuasion, you can't keep saying bad parts, and you can tell your younger brother what will happen if you are obedient.
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First, try to understand your brother's thoughts and feelings. He may be going through some challenges or difficulties that lead him to act rebelliously. Try to talk to him and listen to his thoughts and feelings to get a better understanding of his situation.
Second, respect his independence and autonomy. Rebellious children usually want to be independent and autonomous, so try to give them some autonomy and let them make their own decisions. But at the same time, let him know that you are his supporter and listener.
Third, try to find common ground. Even though you may have a lot of different ideas and interests, try to find some common ground, such as enjoying watching movies or playing games. This can help you build a more intimate relationship.
Fourth, stay calm and patient. It can be challenging to get along with a rebellious brother, but staying calm and patient can help you avoid arguments and conflicts, while also making him feel supported and understood.
Finally, don't be afraid to ask for help if you feel like you can't solve the problem. You can seek family** or counseling to help you build a better relationship.
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You're a good brother.
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