Why does feeling sorry for my daughter ruin my son s marriage?

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, every pair of parents are heartbroken for their children, they want their children to live happily, so they are very concerned about their children's marriage。Especially more concerned about her daughter, because there are many aspects that her daughter can't decide when she marries into someone else's family, so her parents will be extra worried when looking for her other half. But for those parents who have children and daughters, they worry too much about their daughter's marriage, which will affect their son's marriage, because the son's wife will use their daughter's requirements to ask their son to do so, so sometimes the parents' excessive concern for their daughter is not conducive to the son's marriage relationship.

Every parent has very strict requirements when they find a partner for their daughter. For example, in our county, the other half of the daughter must have a house and a car, and a certain amount of savings, and will give a large amount of gift money when she gets married, which is undoubtedly a big financial burden for ordinary families, but the woman's parents think that these are all necessary for the man. Otherwise, the daughter will not be happy after she gets married.

It is also very understandable for parents to think like this, their daughters are applause in their own homes, and if they suffer after marrying, this is what everyone does not want to see. Maybe sometimes as children, we don't quite understand the harshness of our parents, and feel that they are too tricky, and as long as there is affection between two people, they can live happily. But as parents, they have too much experience in life.

If two people do not have a certain amount of savings before getting married, then there are bound to be various problems in the marriage.

For those whose sons are married, I think parents must deliberately avoid their daughters-in-law when discussing these things. Some daughters-in-law are particularly sensitive, they will use their parents' high requirements for their daughter's future husband to demand your son, when your son has a place that cannot meet the daughter-in-law's requirements, she will resent her husband, which is also very detrimental to the son's marriage.

The reason why I feel sorry for my daughter will also destroy my child's marriage is because my daughter is my own person, because my son is married to someone else's daughter, and my daughter-in-law will definitely not have so many feelings if she is someone else's family.

Because many people do not have a bowl of water, they dote on their daughters in every way, but they are more strict and even unfair to their daughters-in-law, so they will cause family conflicts.

Because the son and daughter-in-law will think that you are too partial, a bowl of water is not even, and it is not good enough for them, and the daughter-in-law will also feel that she is not being taken seriously, so she will naturally quarrel with your son often.

Because some old people are particularly distressed, the daughter will take good care of her daughter, and at this time, the son and daughter-in-law will be very dissatisfied, and they will often fight, and finally the son will divorce.