said that his wife was not considerate and gentle, and she said that you should go to find a gentle

Husband and wife will inevitably say some hurtful words, think more about her good care of the family, children, laundry, cooking, tidying up the house, etc., in fact, prepare a hot meal for him, give you clean clothes, ready is considerate, these little things go, are the embodiment of a woman's love, try not to say angry words, so as not to hurt feelings.

Both of you are hard stubble, and neither of you is convinced. Saying that you go to find the gentle one is also an angry word. Really go find one, won't this be scattered? Let's find each person's fault, be careful in what you say and do in the future, don't blame each other, understand and tolerate each other, in order to live comfortably.

Hello, friends!

It is often said that "life is a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you"; In fact, it is the same principle to be a husband and wife, two people get along well, the family is respectful of each other, if the two people do not get along well, then every day is a world war. If you want your wife to be considerate and gentle, then you must first ask yourself to do these things, so that you can ask others. If you do, then it's perfectly fine for you to ask her that.

When you're angry, you say what you say and don't take it too seriously.

The wife must be angry. Actually, for his wife. Learn to appreciate and praise. I want to see my wife's silent dedication. Be sincere and grateful for your wife's dedication.

It's usually angry talk, don't take it seriously. Otherwise, the contradiction will be even deeper.

Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and if you praise her more, it will be good for you if you are in a good mood.

Sometimes it's just a rush, and you poke her in the sore spot, so she will also say something hurtful.

Why do you say that people are not gentle? If people say that you can't make money, you also reply, you go to find someone richer?

No problem. It's like if you go to the market to buy groceries, and you tell the grocer that everyone else sells it cheaper than you, and you guess what will happen to the other person?

Who do you rely on for your own choice?

Whether the wife is gentle or not depends on her personality and family upbringing, and the husband can't decide to make his wife gentle and considerate. It is hoped that the family will be able to raise their children correctly.

I think it's right, because the female man was forced out by her husband.

Almost, if the husband is capable, enough to support the family, and loves his wife, who would not be gentle?

That's right. Whether the wife is gentle or not is decided by the husband.

Yes, all mutual.

I have been married for three years, and I never know how much firewood, rice, oil, and salt are left in my family. The big and small chores at home are all taken care of by my wife in an orderly manner, and I feel super happy.

My wife is gentle and considerate, and I feel that the busyness of the day is worth it, and I feel that where my wife is there, there is home, and where there is home, there is warmth, and the warmth makes me forget to be tired, thank you wife!

Gentle and considerate wife: "Husband, you're back, wait for me, I'll give you hot dishes".

The wife who doesn't eat oil and salt: "Why did you come back so late, where did you fool around, hurry up and cook something, I'm dying of hunger."

A gentle and considerate wife will be your harbor of rest when you are tired, and a wife who does not get oil and salt will become a stumbling block on your way to success.

It directly affects the physical and mental health of the husband.

I was already tired when I came home from a day of work.

As a result, my wife was playing games at home, and she turned around and said to you, "Got off work?" Cook and go, I'm hungry".

Can my husband feel comfortable?

In the long run, this is not conducive to family unity, and this is a serious matter.

If your wife is gentle and considerate, you will have more pocket money in your pocket, and you don't have to hide it to secretly save private money.

My wife's gentleness and thoughtfulness make me not afraid of the hardships of life, and love is the energy to move forward.

When you come home after a busy day, you will be greeted by a smiling wife, a fragrant meal on the table, and a work that is not going well, and she will support you unconditionally and comfort you.

These are hot-tempered, lazy wives can't do it, which is enough to see how important the wife's gentleness and thoughtfulness is to the man's physical and mental work.

Women are more sensitive than men, and women are already emotionally minded. Women are also sensitive during some special menstrual periods, such as before and during menstruation. People are easily irritable.

Some women will also have various uncomfortable phenomena during this period, and at this time, it is even more necessary for someone to be able to shush the cold and ask for warmth. When a woman sheds tears, it also indicates that her state of sadness has reached saturation, so don't say something cold when you see a girl crying, wipe his tears, give him a shoulder to lean on, and a hug can enhance her sense of security. Many times men should be gentlemen, and when they are outside, don't hurt the girl's heart for the sake of face and dignity, mutual respect is the most important thing.

Remember to say a few more greetings, a little more hugs, and ask for the other person's opinion, then you will know what the other person thinks and wants. In fact, your wife complains that you are inconsiderate, maybe it is because she has said something to you, or you have promised that you have not done it. Everyone understands the truth of getting along with two people, but it is difficult to be real.

Trust is built from the little things in life, how many people will experience storms and waves? Respect is mutual, as long as everyone finds more shortcomings from themselves, self-reflection more, and thinks more about each other's goodness, then there will be a lot less blame. A sense of security should be communicated with.

It's not that I really just love you. In fact, is it really difficult to be a human being? Many times it is a habit, a kind of self-awareness, and if you love each other, you should be good to each other and change your own shortcomings.

Don't care who gives more than whom. In fact, we all know that the environment is not up to us to change, so we have to learn to adapt. The best we can say about the environment is improvement.

Why can't we do that with your significant other?

<>My wife and I have known each other for 8 years, and we have only been married for more than a year, and our relationship has always been very good, the only thing that is not satisfied is that this chain wife does not know that I feel sorry for me and I feel sorry for selling money, my monthly salary is 30,000, she can spend 20,000 yuan a month, and she can't count her when she suffers together, I am really aggrieved.

I always thought that it was a natural thing for a man to take care of the woman he loved, and it was certain to spend money. I graduated from a prestigious university, and now I am in a public institution, working diligently, and I have been appreciated by the leaders, and I have been given a salary increase and promotion, but the work is not easy, and I rely on my legs to run outside every day to make money. My wife is a customer service, the salary is not high, only more than 3,000 yuan per month, just enough for our rent, but her working environment is okay, sitting in the office blowing air conditioning, so she often gets off work, and pulls me to accompany her shopping, street to the end of the street, left to right, she is more and more excited, and she doesn't know to be considerate of me at all.

To make it convenient to others is to be kind to oneself. People's hearts are mutual, and if you let others take a step, others will respect you. People's hearts are like roads, the more careful, the narrower; The more tolerant, the wider the continent.

If you don't bother with a gentleman, he will pay back doublely; If you don't bother with the villain, he will take you without a trick. Tolerance, which seems to be to let others, is actually to open up the way for one's own heart.

<> people live, there is no need to fight for everything to understand. When the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are clear, there is no friend. Fight with your family, win the battle, and the family affection is gone; Fight with Hail Zhengzao lover, win the battle, and the feelings are weak; Fight with friends, win the fight, and the love is gone.

What fights is reason, what loses is love, and it hurts oneself. Black is black, white is white, let time tell. Let go of your stubbornness, be a relaxed person, be willing to do things, and win the whole life; A little more peace, a little more warmth, life can be sunny.

The contented man, though he sleeps on the earth, as if he were in heaven; Those who are not content, even if they are in heaven, are like hell. In life, the most important thing is to be rich in the soul, if you are confined to material desires, even if you have more, you will feel that it is not enough, this is poverty; On the contrary, the material life is poor, which does not affect the fullness of the soul, and being content and able to give freely is the real wealth.

If the heart is simple, the world will be simple, and happiness will grow; If the heart is free, life will be free, and there will be happiness everywhere. When you are proud, you should be bearish, and when you are frustrated, you should look away. There are many things in life that can be let go.

Only if you can put it down, can you afford it. Be more tolerant, be more generous, wave your hand, smile and laugh, and all unpleasantness will be a thing of the past.

<> it stands to reason that my work is not low, and the consumption should be okay, but the clothes I buy are either high-grade roadside goods to be considered Meibang, and my wife, the ones I bought for her are all famous brands, jujube skin thousand suits, LV bags, I am not stingy, Layanfan, so even if we have a monthly salary of more than 30,000 yuan, we do not have any savings. That's it, my wife still doesn't trust me, looks through my mobile phone text messages, and even checks my call list on the Internet, checks my post at every turn, and doesn't give me any dignity.

For my wife, I don't care about the gains and losses, but I feel that I pay so much to her without any return, and I don't know the Gu family, not like a woman who can live, which makes me very worried.

No matter how big it is today, it will be a small thing tomorrow; No matter how big this year is, next year will be the story; No matter how big the event in this life is, it will be a legend in the next life, and we are at most a person with a story. When you encounter something unpleasant in your life or work, say to yourself: today will pass, tomorrow will come, and a new day will begin.

After centuries of hard work, the status of women has reached a height never before seen in ancient times, and has played a role in promoting the development of the whole society. However, what followed was the complaint and dissatisfaction of many husbands against their wives. The number of family disputes has increased dramatically.

In this regard, many psychologists and social researchers have unanimously called for women to maintain their own charm while achieving independence.

What about the performance of feminine charm? The grace of the appearance and posture here is only a small aspect, and the gentleness, thoughtfulness, tolerance, open-mindedness and rationality unique to women are what men passionately pursue, and they are also the unique and undeminished charm of women. I would like to offer some advice to women who wish to achieve or perpetuate happiness.

First of all, if you are united with someone you love and love you deeply, you are undoubtedly very lucky. And how to make your love never fade requires you to put in more effort.

As a housewife, it is normal for you to be very tired and even tired and irritable. But you have to be careful not to let this irritability turn into chatter and complaining, which not only does not arouse your husband's sense of empathy and responsibility, but over time will make him feel bored. He will no longer pay attention to the content of your words and understand your troubles, and in order to seek a moment of peace, he may do something for you, but he will never finish the work happily, and maybe one day he will quarrel with you, or even go out early and go out late.

The warmth and harmony of a family are thus lost. A wise wife will not do this, she will ask her husband to help her when she is busy, and often talk to her husband about her work and career, and your husband will be a counselor, and this trust will stabilize her self-esteem and make her very happy to do something for her, for which the wife will not be satisfied with her husband, but will be warm and considerate, so that the family is always full of joy and warmth. I believe that this will definitely deepen the understanding and love between husband and wife, and make your family happy and harmonious.