Go on a blind date today, how to prevent the other party from being insincere or eating and playing

It's really hard to see if the other party is really insincere, the first time you meet, you can look at it, and if you think it's appropriate, you can contact it more, and you can't look at it the first time, so forget it.

This depends on what you will say when you go on a blind date with the other party. For example, if the other party says what you like, you can ask the other person what he likes, and if the other party says that he likes cats and dogs, then it can be said that I am allergic to hairy animals.

What if the other person says you're a Cancer? Then you can reply to each other, and we are both mutually restrictive. When you go on a blind date, if you want to reject the other party, it is generally what the other party likes, and then you directly say that it is because of the relationship between your parents that you will meet you, and you have no intention of falling in love and getting married, so if you say this, then the other party will know, and it will not hurt the other party, so that the other party feels faceless.

Mom Bao men's refusal

I have a friend who has been urged to marry by her parents, but she herself has no plans to get married, and later agreed to go on a blind date when her parents told her that she couldn't do it.

Because I didn't want to go on a blind date in the first place, when I met the blind date, I found that the other party was quite satisfied with my friend, so my friend started the mom boy style in order to reject the other party.

No matter what the blind date says, you can say what my mother said before, or my mother said the same to me, this dish is not as delicious as my mother's cooking, my mother wishes I could go home early and so on, such words are offensive to both men and women.

After all, no one will put up with such a mother-in-law person, no matter how much they have a good impression of each other, they will be disgusted by the words "my mother said". And when my friend's blind date saw that she didn't leave her mother for three sentences, she directly found an excuse and ran away.

When she told me about it, I thought it was funny. Perhaps in the eyes of parents, children's marriage is a lifelong event, even if the children are not in a hurry, but in the eyes of parents, as they get older, it seems that life is incomplete if they do not get married.

But for modern young people, marriage is not a necessity, and one can live one's life well. If you are forced by your parents to go on a blind date, you can also use the method of refusing the other party.

For example, if the other person doesn't like to travel, then you say that life is about sports. When the other party says that he likes to watch literary films, you can say that he usually watches horror movies. When the other person likes a certain star, you say how the star is.

In short, what people like, then you say the opposite, turn what people like into something you hate, so that people will know what you mean, and they will take the initiative not to ask you again.

Even when your parents ask, you can do that. This will reduce unnecessary troubles and can also deal with parents.

You can lie that your employer suddenly had something wrong and you can't attend, and apologize. Generally, everyone thinks that the affairs of the unit are still more important, so they will not blame you too much.

Arranged a blind date, clever refusal You can say, I'm sorry, the unit has been very busy recently, always arranging business trips, I'm afraid I can't date you normally, I'll contact you when I have the opportunity!

If you want to refuse a blind date, in fact, you are looking for all kinds of euphemistic excuses to refuse, you can focus on your current work, or I don't have more energy to date a girl, and for example, I can't make any mistakes during the peak of my official promotion today, these are all good excuses.

If you are arranged to go on a blind date and are more resistant, then you can take the initiative to talk to the other party about your views on the blind date, and then say some of your thoughts.

In fact, everyone goes on a blind date with the mood to see, so you can chat with her, but don't give her hope, so that she will understand, and she will not look for you after the blind date.

was arranged on a blind date, but you want to subtly refuse his words, you can say that you have been very busy at work recently and have no time, or in fact, no one in the family has misunderstood, and you already have a partner.

After you meet together, let's talk about your impressions of each other. You don't always feel embarrassed to refuse, don't waste everyone's time, just do it if you can't do it, just say it euphemistically, just say that we are not suitable.

If you say that you have no intention of the other party, no matter how skillfully you refuse, it is actually a prevarication, and others will be unhappy. So don't worry too much. It's enough to tactfully express your refusal.

If you want to subtly reject the other party on a blind date, then raise your conditions higher, so that the other party cannot meet your requirements, and you will naturally retreat.

Being arranged on a blind date, you can go through a cutscene, and then explain the matter clearly to the other party, because you met on a blind date, no one will fall in love with anyone at first sight.

When I was arranged on a blind date, I think that if you want to skillfully refuse without hurting the other party, you can always walk away with one reason or another after you meet, so as not to hurt the other party's face.

It can be said that find an excuse to shirk it, and then say that you are not ready for a blind date, give some time.

I think if you're just dissatisfied, you believe in a certain point of the object, you can directly use that point and then cause a conversation to say that you don't like this kind of boy, or that you reject him directly.

was arranged on a blind date, you can refuse on the grounds that something happened, so it is very safe not to hurt face.

Personal advice can be said like this, I'm really sorry, you are very good and excellent, but I already have friends, I agreed to come to this blind date in order to cope with my parents, I will make it clear to the introducer, I hope you don't mind.

If the other party values the result more, no matter what reason you refuse, it will hurt the other party's face. In this case, if it is not appropriate or you don't want to talk, you should say it directly, which is a very responsible behavior for both parties.

You can directly say that you don't want to fall in love yet, you don't want to get married yet, and now you still want to develop your career first, wait for yourself to mature and steady, and then go on a blind date and then get married after you have a certain economic foundation.

If you want to refuse, but you don't want to hurt the other party's face, you can say that you don't want to get married, or you have someone you can't forget, except for him, you don't want to settle.

If someone else arranges for you to go on a blind date, it must be because they feel that you are okay, so it is not recommended that you refuse if you can. It's a bit rude.

There is no face-saving thing about this, I don't know or am familiar with it, I just want to communicate, and I don't want to refuse directly.

Let's just say that you have something, it's very urgent, and then about work or something, you just can't leave, you have to refuse to go, and you can't see each other this time.

In fact, it is not suitable for young people nowadays to go on a blind date, and there are many direct rejections, which is normal, and they understand each other very well, that is, it is not suitable between us, you are very good, but not for me.

If you are afraid of being deceived, you should pay attention to security measures.

1. Bring a friend along.

2. If no one accompanies you, tell your family and friends about your whereabouts and the other party's information 3. Don't go on a date in a remote place.

4. Be more careful about your belongings and tea.

5. Maintain the necessary reserve, not too intimate, don't stay too late, never go home with --- above is personal safety--- 1. If you are not interested, pay attention to protect your personal information and do not disclose it easily 2. After clicking on the information a few times, analyze it with family and friends, analyze whether there are contradictions and loopholes in the information, and judge the real situation.

3. To learn more about his family business, it is necessary to visit the people around him to prevent the occurrence of unreliable family, personality, and huge debts, of course, it is best to be interviewed by someone other than you.

--The above is what to see for information security --- believe.

Whether the appearance is satisfactory or not.

Whether the personality is appropriate (mainly through the conversation and the topic of conversation).

Whether life matches (depending on hobbies and ordinary life rules) and whether the economy is strong.

Whether the family is harmonious (the situation of parents and siblings, of course, it is difficult to understand it deeply.) But generally speaking, single parents, only children, siblings, rural towns, etc., all have corresponding characteristics, in most cases).

First of all, you have to take a look at what he is wearing.

It is not required to wear a famous brand, but at least it must be clean and tidy, and it must be in line with the occasion you meet, and whether he is wearing it in line with his own temperament.

Secondly, let's look at the hygiene of the individual.

For example, whether the hair is not good, whether the nails are long, third, you have to look at his words and deeds, whether he has a gentlemanly demeanor, whether he speaks in line with reality, or whether he likes to talk about it, and I think these are the basic ones when you meet for the first time.

In addition, some deep things can only be understood after you have to be exposed to them.

Looking at his speech and demeanor, the purpose is to pay attention to details, and also, is his eyes very wandering...

Let's learn a little about hobbies and hobbies, and see what we have in common in life in the future. Look him in the eye when talking, if he doesn't dare to look at you, or answer a question with a flicker, it's likely that he is lying to you...

See if the other party has a serious job, if not, it is a second-rate.