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This topic is actually quite hurtful, as a boy is said to have low emotional intelligence, it should be so faceless, but in fact, low emotional intelligence exists, and I used to be a member of the low EQ, although now it is not high. I really don't know how my girlfriend felt before, but after I found out about this topic, I went to ask my girlfriend about emotional intelligence. She gave me this:
She said, when the emotional intelligence is low, it is what I said that you don't understand, I don't want what I gave me, I don't know how to create romance, and I don't understand what I'm thinking, but now it's much better, at least I know what I want, and I can care enough about me, the feeling I felt before, it's an indescribable helplessness, and many times I'm very angry, of course, I know that you should also be very angry, angry girls are so troublesome, I don't know what I'm thinking and what I want to do. Actually, girls are quite easy to coax, I'm still relatively easy to coax, maybe I'm the kind of, whether I'm wrong or not, it's your fault, although it's a little unreasonable, but girls are very useful. It's okay to go out to improve the food, give a small gift, don't need to be valuable, just be careful, so that the girls will be very happy.
The last thing a girl like me needs is a boyfriend who will educate me all the time, what is wrong with me, you can say, but you also have to pay attention to the method, just say that I will not accept it, so I will definitely be very angry. When emotional intelligence is a little higher, this kind of thing will find a suitable time to talk about these things. Although I was angry before, I am still very happy that after several years, I finally changed.
In fact, emotional intelligence can also be cultivated, and maybe I am a good example.
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The efficiency of doing things is zero, this is the emotional intelligence of the boyfriend. It's really not an exaggeration, he doesn't feel like he understands anything, and sometimes when he's in a hurry, I really want to scold him a few words, how long is his brain. If your boyfriend has a low EQ, then probably there may be less fun between you, because sometimes he doesn't understand that you are joking and teasing him.
Emotional intelligence is not only about his treatment of feelings, but also about dealing with people, he doesn't know how to get along with people, and his girlfriend seems to be in a hurry. A few days ago, I asked him to make a poster picture.,I said if you don't.,You can search for ** from the Internet to see.,As a result,He's pretty fast.,I told him at noon.,It didn't take long to send it to me.,The first time I sent it was a screenshot.,I can't see it clearly with my mobile phone.,Later, the next sentence after he sent the picture was that I went to sleep first.,The picture doesn't wake up and then change.。 Later, I told him that I couldn't see clearly, so he sent me another picture, because the theme of my poster is the most suitable for the red background board, and he made me a white background, and it was very white, and I later asked him if you did it yourself, and he said that you didn't say that you could find it from the Internet, so I found one from the Internet.
I was so anxious and angry when I heard that, and I didn't want to argue with him anymore. Let's just talk about his efficiency, don't dare to compliment.
In fact, it doesn't matter if your boyfriend has low emotional intelligence, you can exercise him slowly, let him participate in more activities, meet people more, and learn how to deal with people and things. Slowly he may change, after all, emotional intelligence is something that can be practiced.
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I feel very suffocated, just like me, this year's Valentine's Day, my friends are posting gifts in the circle of friends, and my boyfriend didn't give me anything, I complained to him, he actually asked me, and you didn't say you wanted a gift! It's so infuriating and funny.
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I think the low EQ of the male ticket is a very speechless, very helpless experience, sometimes you talk to him for a long time about a small thing, he will think that you are talking to the cow.
I feel very happy, someone cares about it, and a warm man-like male girlfriend is even happier. My male girlfriend is a warm man, every time I am unhappy, find him, vent to him, he always finds a way to comfort me, especially happy, he is the kind of girl who is very warm, will take care of you when you are uncomfortable, will protect you when you are afraid, will not make you sad and sad in his eyes, will not suddenly disappear when you look for him, always have to answer questions, will not refuse my request.
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