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I deleted each other 3 times, and added each other 3 times, my heart hurt every time I deleted it, every time I added it, it hurt again, and the fourth time I finally deleted it, she called me my best friend, because I was together, I still loved her, I endured it, and every time I chatted, she gave me a different blow, and finally understood that I was just a spare tire!

There is a faint reluctance, and it is possible to reunite at an opportunity.

I'll keep it.,Break up peacefully.,There is no other communication except for getting married and having children, and they will like each other and say congratulations.,I once loved so I hope each other is doing well.,But I won't bother.,I won't deliberately pay attention.,After all, it's over.,The current is the most important person.。

It feels like I've never really loved.

Because I want to chase him back.

If I still like each other, I will definitely delete it, because I can't imagine him being with others in the future, if he posts a circle of friends to show affection, I see how uncomfortable it is. And if I don't delete it, I won't be able to forget him, and I fantasize that there is still a possibility between us. Of course, if you hate each other, you will delete it, and if you don't delete it, it means that you don't have any feelings for him in your heart.

I guess it's okay for both of them, and then I just don't think it's appropriate.

I don't know what psychology is, anyway, I deleted the block. It's okay if the two of them didn't find a partner after they broke up.,If it's still like this after finding a partner.,I think em.,The heart is really big.。

People think they have a lot of self-control, but they don't. I read a small article before, to the effect that if there is friction between you and the current one by chance, it happens that your ex will come to you at this time, and then you may go back to your ex if you think of all the good things in the past. In reality, there are indeed a lot of such things that eat back grass and hurt the incumbent.

Although I have confidence in my self-control, human nature and the world are too complicated, I must not leave myself a way back, I know that I can't hurt my current boyfriend, and this is also my way of giving the other person a sense of security.

Because when two people are together, there is no betrayal and no deception, and they get along very comfortably. Maybe it's because of parents, geography, and young age when they are separated. I have two predecessors like this.

I have always stayed in WeChat, basically no contact, but I will not delete it, because they are like good friends. The relationship was sincere, and each other retained a position as a good friend to each other.

Goodbye is also a friend, some couples know that they are destined not to go to the end, but they can be good friends for life, sometimes love does not have to have.

What is this??? It's just that I don't love it, and it's not a deep hatred, I think if it's a peaceful breakup, you can also be friends, of course, if you have a new relationship in the end, the other party's lover can't accept it, then delete each other, otherwise, what does it matter.

It is a kind of psychology that is reluctant to give up this relationship all at once, still cherishes the relationship between the two individuals, and still cares about and pays attention to each other, but it is already very clear that the relationship between the two individuals has ended, and the two of them are no longer possible.

That's the case with me and my ex-boyfriend. In fact, both of us are a kind of reluctant, nostalgic psychology, can't bear to cut off contact with each other all of a sudden, can't bear to resolutely give up the relationship between the two people.

Occasionally, I look through his circle of friends, and occasionally like him, and I also pay very attention to his psychology, and I care about him more, it is difficult to forget it so quickly, and it is also a deeply memorable feeling.

In fact, I also know one thing very well in my heart, the two of us are over, and there is no longer any possibility. Both of us have a new life for each other, and we both have a new lover by our side.

Like his circle of friends, in fact, I am happier in my heart, and I bless him from the bottom of my heart.

Such a couple should be at two extremes, one is that both parties still have feelings, and the other is to completely get out of this relationship and completely let go of the past relationship.

There are many reasons for couples to break up, inappropriate personality, elders do not agree, separation and so on, these are the reasons for breaking up, but it is not that breaking up is equal to no feelings, many couples break up are not out of their hearts, so there are still feelings after the breakup, and pay close attention to each other's dynamics, or hope that the other party can see themselves, the circle of friends is the most direct way to express, let the other party know their own life by sending a circle of friends, and let the other party know their attention through likes, It becomes a way of expressing affection to each other.

Of course, there is another possibility, that is, the two parties break up peacefully, and what they pay is no longer the feelings of lovers, and they are happy in their current lives, and they only regard each other as "friends in the circle of friends", do not contact each other, do not interact with each other, and just see the dynamic update of the subconscious thumbs up. After all, there are not a few people who like it without seeing the content clearly, and liking it when there is an update is the way many people browse the circle of friends. Therefore, even if you like the circle of friends of your ex-boyfriend and girlfriend, you may not have any deep-seated thoughts, just a routine like.

Delete because you don't want to feel heartache because you saw something that once was, and forgetting because your heart won't move even if you see something that once was, so forgetting is not going to delete what was once there, and deleting it is just not forgetting? But what's the point of dwelling on these things? The dead will not come back!

Netizen arguments: 3. Don't think too much? is really the kind of person who likes you and loves you, how can he split his legs? It's like someone who has been troubled by falling in love with two people, but the answer is simple, choose the second person to fall in love with, because if you love the first one deeply, you won't fall in love with anyone else?

You really don't have anything to wonder about? Because he split his legs, you proposed to break up, and now you lick it back, it's obviously unwilling, unwilling that you dump him, unwilling that you treat him like a fool? If you break up because of such a thing, don't reconcile again, because you will eventually repeat the mistakes of the past!

5. There are usually four reasons for not deleting or blocking: although you don't want to have any more intersections with him, he doesn't want to make the relationship worse because of this; He is ashamed of you and wants to make amends to you, but only mentally, not to reconcile with you; He wants you to remember him and can't let him go, but it doesn't mean that he wants to reconcile with you; He still has a longing for you and hopes to have the opportunity to do it again one day.

I'm sorry, I beg your pardon; Thank you and I love you!

Because I used to love you too much, I don't want to see any news about you anymore, because when I see it, I will remember, those once, once happy, it will hurt when I think of it, and it will hurt when I think about the quarrels I once had.

Perhaps, you will choose to keep, a kind of nostalgia, a kind of memory?

After a breakup, we don't need to be like enemies, because after all, we once loved each other.

If you break up, you will break up peacefully, and the breakup shows that the two people are still not suitable for fate. There is a saying that it is good to look back five hundred times in the past life in exchange for the passing of this life, not to mention what a lot of fate it is to fall in love with each other!

So there's no need to block or block when you break up. Because you can't be a lover, you will still be friends. Friends can still help each other, as long as they pay attention to proportion.

The second is that there are some people who really hate you so much that they want to see how you are doing after leaving him, and when they find that you are not as good as him, or not as good as being with him. He'll give him a thumbs up excitedly, wanting to tell you to leave me. That's the typical want to see you joke.

Although it is not too malicious, if you can't stand it, you can completely delete it yourself.

It may also be that one party is unwilling to break up, and still has illusions about this relationship, thinking that maybe one day the other party will change his mind and come to reconcile with himself.

Maybe it's because I hate the other party too much, breaking up is a hurtful thing after all, and I feel that the other party has failed me, maybe I want to find the real reason for the breakup, or I want to find some clues, and one day I want to aspire to the other party.

Maybe there is a situation, although they broke up, but after all, they once loved each other, although the love is gone, it may be that there is some family affection still there, so I still want to pay attention to each other, this may be the highest state of breaking up.

It depends on how to break up, there are also those who can reconcile after breaking up, and there are also those who have new feelings after breaking up. But if you can't be together again, it's better not to be in touch, because love is selfish.

Once you have a new relationship, there are few consciousness high enough to allow you to break the connection with your ex, and there is an unclear relationship, which will bring trouble to the new relationship at that time.

I have had such an experience, I quarreled with my boyfriend, the quarrel was very fierce, and then I said to break up in a hurry, and when the anger subsided, I reflected on myself, and felt that I had just said what I had just said, and I wanted to apologize to him, but I felt that I had just finished breaking up, and I apologized now, and I didn't want to go, but I kept beating the drum in my heart, was he angry, did he really want to break up, since I couldn't talk to him, let's post this circle of friends, the content of the circle of friends described himself as particularly miserable, Then he also posted a circle of friends, and I secretly ran down to like it, and he also liked my circle of friends. Then I messaged him, "We've all broken up, why do you still give me a thumbs up?" He replied to me, "Aren't you ordering too?"

It's like this, but they both know that the other party still loves them, but they are embarrassed to say it first for the sake of face, and the two of us also tacitly agree not to mention the breakup, everyone turned the page, and we reconciled again.

"Buying and selling does not become benevolent"?

I don't know if people who can really do these things really forgot about their exes, but I do know that they must be people who treat money like dung very much.

Everyone is an adult, and it feels a bit naïve to think about deleting friends at every turn.

The cut is continuous, and the rationalization is still messy. I just want to forget, I want to delete but I am always reluctant, and I will still pay attention to it. Some breakups are caused by many external factors such as geographical problems, less gathering and more separation, not any problems in their own feelings.

However, if it is really a vigorous love, and then there is no lover who finally becomes a family, or it is indeed because of emotional problems, then they should forget about each other, and only by saying goodbye to the past can they continue to move forward without sadness.

Attention is still a memory, maybe because of a momentary impulse to break up, then while silently paying attention to each other's circle of friends, I found that I didn't have each other, as if there was indeed a vacancy in my heart. I saw each other's shortcomings before, as if now when the other party is not around, it doesn't seem to be as exaggerated as I thought when the two people were together, so I began to reflect on myself that I may have made mistakes in this relationship.

So often this kind of attention is the psychology of seeking reunion, if two people still have friendship for each other, then maybe it is not far from the rhythm of getting back together.

After breaking up, it's still a friend, after my girlfriend broke up with her boyfriend, the two of them often go out to play together, and they also make appointments together, so it's still relatively normal not to delete or block the circle of friends!

Of course, my girlfriend's case was probably just one case, because she and her boyfriend still liked each other, but I couldn't understand why the last two broke up. My girlfriend told me that she still likes him, so she will follow him. Maybe this is a situation, that is, there is still a other party in the heart!

The feelings of both parties are deep. If you are separated in a momentary anger, you will regret it and be reluctant to separate, so it will not be deleted after the breakup, and it is possible to block it. As long as one side bows its head first, the two sides come together with a reluctant mentality. Maybe more affectionate in the later stage!

One situation will want to get back together, more is, I want to give up on you, but you are still a good spare tire, you are calm and calm when you are by my side, and you really leave my world and feel that you have lost something? In order to be able to give yourself a thumbs up for your retreat, it's best not to procrastinate in the relationship, don't be soft-hearted when you love deeply, and don't be tired of being a puppet of feelings.

Breaking up doesn't mean that you don't love anymore, to put it bluntly, breaking up is also a contradiction between lovers, but this contradiction is relatively large, so it is solved by breaking up. There are two kinds, one is to be friends with someone you love, and your heart is strong enough. The second is that there is no love at all, and it doesn't matter if you are a friend.

There is a situation where you want to see someone's current situation (no other meaning, you suddenly think of someone after being busy), open their Kuaishou Douyin or Moments, and when you operate with one hand, you mistakenly press the caution, and when you press it again to cancel the like, the system sends a xx like (at this time, the like has been canceled, but the system has sent the message).

That proves that you haven't really loved, and you can still be friends, it's all spare tires.