My girlfriend said she liked people to break up with me, and then she came back and I either?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-02
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you have chosen to leave, why turn back. When we are abandoned, who can easily let go, if we can easily let go, presumably the feeling is not very deep, can make you worry. It's not so deep memories and love, and there's no need to worry about it, her departure is the right choice for you or herself, of course, the feelings may not be that deep, but the feeling of betrayal has been haunting my heart, depressed, I want to forgive easily, how can I?

    At that time, I stupidly liked someone, thinking that I was the happiest person in the world, the person I liked, but I told myself, "I'm sorry, I like someone else". People who leave will always comfort themselves, saying that two people who don't love each other, leaving is the best choice for both parties, long pain is better than short pain, don't torture each other anymore.

    Excuses for beauty are just excuses. The sugar that is just to let yourself escape the condemnation of your conscience is also the salt sprinkled on the wounds of the other party, which sweetens you and bitters the other party. Even if the prodigal son turns back and the money is not exchanged, a person who can easily give up himself for others will not want to have it again.

    A person can she abandon you once, will the second renunciation be far away? <>

    These are just considerations that are not very deep in the feelings for the person who gave up themselves. If you invest too much in the first place, the wound should be deep into the bone marrow, and forgiveness is even more impossible. Because of love, it hurts.

    She decided to leave, you are immersed in the abyss of pain alone and can't extricate yourself, and now I never dare to recall the days when the pain was suffocating, but she reappeared, and said that she was wrong, and wanted to turn back, find back, find back the feelings you once had, and she and you once were. If you love her, you still love her deeply, if she really wants to go back, maybe you can try to start over, but the love is not so deep that you can't forgive, it's better to be friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, she didn't come back to you because she was looking for you, she came back to you for comfort because she was using you as a spare tire, because that man treated her badly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Under normal circumstances, we don't need to have this kind of girl. Because when he broke up. If there is no retention, it means that he really doesn't like you. He's just using you as a spare tire, and he'll dump you when he finds someone he likes.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Such a person who lives in the twilight, if it were me, I would definitely not want it! Because it's not interesting, I refuse not to make a spare tire!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you want to forgive him, he will forgive, and if you don't want to forgive, forget it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After breaking up with your girlfriend, your girlfriend said that you have a new block, and you asked him why, he said that it was just for him to know that you have someone you like, in fact, he was also looking for an excuse for himself to die for you, it may be that you broke up not because she wanted, he still has you in his heart, but he may be forced to break up or because you want to break up, he will break up, but if you find a new girlfriend, he can tell himself to let himself die!

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