His feelings for me have changed since that day, does he not love me or does he not want to drag me

This is a big reason because I don't want to drag you down, that's why I do it!

If you don't love you, you don't love you.

It's not that he doesn't love you, in fact, it can be seen from the man's approach that he is also forced to be helpless, and it is also for your happiness, and he doesn't want you to suffer with him, after all, his current situation is really not very good, only by saying some heartless words to tell you, you will leave!

Maybe it's because I really don't love you, or maybe it's because I love you and don't want to drag you down.

Yes, it's not that he doesn't love you, but he's afraid that he won't be able to give you a superior life or a perfect marriage. He doesn't want you to marry him and help him pay off his debts. I don't want you to bear these financial pressures with him.

Although you have the determination to bear it with him, he does not have the reason and courage to let you bear the pressure. He can't let you bear these things because of love, and let you live a hard life. He doesn't dare, and he doesn't want to, so he can only find an excuse to break up with you.

From your narrative, I think he probably didn't want to drag you down. It's not terrible to have no money, and he still owes a lot of money, which makes him feel that he has no hope for his future, and he can't give you everything you want, so he breaks up hard and asks you to find a new one.

I don't think it's love, you are waiting for his age to come to 32, a person who really likes you, will not let you wait so long, if you are separated, you must believe him, once you go home on a blind date, he will definitely not marry another girl immediately, some people fall in love together is like this, it is really not suitable to talk about love for too long, otherwise it will become just trying to play hooligan.

It's love for you, but also because you feel a lot of pressure on the other party, you can give the other party some time to be quiet Sometimes a person needs not to mention a person's company, but more to be alone.

Your boyfriend has so much foreign debt now, and his heart will definitely change. For you, he may feel that he can't give you the life you want, plus he is under a lot of pressure right now, so he chooses to let go. If you still love him, please give him some encouragement, understand him a little, and trust that you will get through this difficult time.

The blow to a man from a career failure is enormous.

First, a man has a low career and has no heart to fall in love;

Second, if you want to be with him, it's also a good time to see if you can get through it together.

Third, the first thing to do now is to work with him to find a way to solve the problems he faces: unemployment, failure, and debt repayment.

You are 32 years old, you should be relatively mature and have some experience in the workplace. Working together to overcome this difficulty is the first thing, and the love established in the common adversity will be stronger.

A man's career is indeed a big deal, if it really fails, it is indeed a blow to him, so he wants to vent these things, it is not a simple thing for a man, a man must be serious if he wants to readjust, it is not easy for a man to get up.

When his business is very unsuccessful, he himself has no pressure and is very big, and if you accompany him at this time, he can help her relieve a certain amount of pressure, but as a very responsible boy, he doesn't want his girls to suffer with him, so his main reason is that he is afraid of dragging you down and doesn't want to affect your pursuit of your own happiness.

First of all, you should be sure that he loves you. The reason why he doesn't accept to be with you now is mainly because his business failed and he lost a lot of money. He can't give you a happy life.

So I'm not willing to accept you. If his business is particularly good now, maybe he will go after you sooner.

Even if he breaks away, you can't always be like this, he can't afford to fail, without this confidence to persevere, such a man is probably unreliable, you still found one, I don't think you will be happy together, unless he can admit his mistake and get you back in time.

Girl, you also believe in his words, put the fault on a woman, this kind of man is not worth it, fail or fail once, scold his own woman, this is the behavior of a loser, and it is destined to be difficult to achieve in this life. So girl, leave her, otherwise you will be unhappy every day, there are still many excellent boys outside, leave him, change places to work, try a new life, you will be happier.

In fact, I think the man should be afraid of disappointing you, afraid of dragging you down, his business has been very failed, and he will have this attitude towards you when his business fails, I think this man just doesn't want you to suffer with him, so he wants to make you feel that he doesn't love you anymore in this way, forcing you to break up with him. It should just be afraid of dragging you down, I think he still loves you.

In fact, I think he likes you and loves you, but he is afraid of dragging you down, because the business is not good, the financial burden is here, and he thinks that you are suffering with him, so he would rather you live a better life and live a happier life.

He should be afraid of dragging you down. He should care about you very much and love you, so he is afraid of dragging you down so he wants to use verbal violence to get rid of you, and the business fails, which makes his self-confidence suffer a big blow, and he is afraid that he will not be able to give you a happy future, so he drives you away.

It should be that his business has been frustrated, and his mood will not be good, and sometimes he is afraid of affecting you, so he wants to let you leave in this way, and he is quiet alone.

When a person is in a bad mood, it is indeed difficult to control his emotions, I think you still have to understand him more and communicate with him well.

I can't say for sure if he loves you or not, but I'm sure this person is selfish and very controlling. If someone who loves you shouldn't hurt you like that in any way.

I think this boy, he specified that he doesn't love you, she should love you, but his way of dealing with it is not right, because when he encounters a mistake, it can't happen to you with that recorder, if you start to accept it, but it doesn't mean that you can accept it in the future, which is easy to make people's feelings produce a lot of unpleasant emotions. Such a boy, in fact, you have to think about it, if you can't make him sunny, you have to consider whether to continue with him.

It shouldn't love you, it's not that I'm afraid of dragging you down, this is an excuse, I won't talk like this if I don't have love. So you should learn to let go and stop holding on.

It's hard to say, what he thinks should be asked to him.

Talk calmly with your husband, communicate more, talk about the troubles in your heart, say your inner feelings when your husband scolds you, pay attention to harmony in doing business, and communicate and understand more between husband and wife.

From your expression, I can see that he loves you, and he really doesn't want to drag you down, afraid that he won't be able to give you happiness, but sometimes he can't control himself to look for you. Most men attach great importance to their careers, and it is understandable that he can't accept the reality and his temper grows. But it's up to you, if you can't accept it, choose to let go, maybe only if he has a little success will get better.

Hello! He himself should be very entangled, whether to choose to be with you, in the face of the collapse of his career, in the face of the pressure in his heart, he has already endured more, so he can't guarantee that he can afford your relationship!

This man is a little cowardly in the face of love, and she is more intense, and she wants to push you away by hurting you. His choice of this way is the most hurtful. I feel like you're going to hurt each other together, and you're going to be the one who hurts the most.

If he is really afraid of dragging him down, you should decisively break up with you and never see you again, not as involved as it is now.

He loves you and resents you, because he likes it, his emotions towards you are always repeated, and he has always been in a state of disconnection, in the same way, when he is angry or in a very bad mood, he will blame his dissatisfaction with you, so that you become his punching bag, at this time you can't understand your irritability, you will be wronged and quarrel with him, which will only increase the burden on his heart, so there is love and annoyance.

He still has feelings for you, and to a certain extent, he is afraid of dragging you down, but the most important factor is that the business fails, falls into a low point in life, and he is in a bad mood and does not dare to hope for love. What he needs most now is someone who can help him get out, this person is definitely not you, you can only give him a little comfort emotionally, but you can't help him, this is the main reason why he wants to leave you.

You only thought that he didn't love you for fear of dragging you down, why didn't you think of the third possibility, that is, he began to have low self-esteem, and a man with low self-esteem can easily become an external injury, that is, a harm to you.

To be honest, after reading your description, I have to start with this man's character, if this man is usually more short-tempered, then it is easy to understand that she scolds you, but if he usually has a good temper, and suddenly becomes like this, it is estimated that as you said, he is afraid of dragging you down.

If his business fails now, then she is very sad in her heart, because he feels that when his economic conditions are not good, there is no way to provide you with a better living environment, so she chooses to separate from you There is no choice, the main reason is that she is afraid that you will look down on him, and she is afraid that he will drag you down.

I have feelings for you, and I should be afraid of dragging you down. The main factor is that the business failure is recorded in the low point of life, and the mood is poor and dare not hope for love. He should love you and wish you well in the future. Because the present cannot promise you a happy life in the future, it will drive you away.

Now most of the burden in society is on the man's body, so it is relatively normal for him to behave like this, he may really love you and is afraid of dragging you down, so he wants to wait until he succeeds and then come to you, those words he said before are really unavoidable.

He doesn't love you, it's not that he's afraid of dragging you down, he just doesn't need you anymore, if he loves you, how can he be willing to scold you, it's not psychological, he must have other thoughts in his heart, it's not as simple as you think, his feelings for you can only be felt by yourself.

It should be afraid of dragging you down, feeling that you are a failed person, unable to give you happiness, self-denial, and afraid of delaying your youth. I think such a person is quite responsible, and if you don't mind his failure, you can talk to him and express your determination to share his weal and woe.

He is currently in a business failure and must be very lost in his heart, so he can't continue any relationship now, you can communicate with her, accompany him through this low period, and then wait for your relationship to be a little better, and you will have a good attitude towards you.

I think she's afraid of dragging you down. Because his temperament mutated after the business failed, and he kept emphasizing that he didn't want to drag you down. may know that you can't bear to ignore him, so he deliberately loses his temper and hurts you by saying heavy words, hoping that you will retreat.