What did you talk about with others?

You can say whatever you want.

There are a few things to note about this:

1.To talk about a topic she likes, first of all, you have to get to know her first. Otherwise, it will be in the future.

Together will be due to personality discord.

2.The language is also key, and she has to be as fluent as usual, otherwise she might notice something.

Or maybe I have a nasty feeling for you!

3.Be polite and add a few greetings every now and then. How are you? There is no rest.

How are you doing? Happy? Wait. (Of course, this is based on how good she is for you, otherwise it's miserable!) ）

Additional: Sometimes it's okay to tell some jokes (if she likes humor) it should be so much, and if you have any questions, add me as a friend, I'm 19950403.

Ay! It's absolutely best for you to ask me about this, haha, even often drop, you just tell her what will happen to you in the future, don't talk about that aspect, say other things such as whether you will contact in the future, try it! ~

It's the most interesting thing to talk about campus anecdotes.

That is, you can talk about what interesting things happened to the people around you at school.

Be yourself.

She likes you as your personality, it's not that you do whatever others say, and if she likes you, she won't be idle with you.

Do what you have to do.

If she likes you and whatever you do, she'll like you.

It's up to you.

You just say 1Good evening 2Can you be friends3What are you playing 4 years ago?I also play ah 5Let's play together6I'm going to sleep 88

Find something she is more interested in and talk about. It could be better. Hehe.

How are you, so to speak? Or what are you doing?

It's just idle and nothing, chatting after work.

Chat skills: Don't stand still in one place during a party with friends, as this will give the "boring" an opportunity to seize you and talk about things they are proud of. It's best to go to a crowded place and listen to what they're talking about, so that you also have a chance to have your say.

Wait until the interesting topic is almost the same, find an excuse to leave and find someone else to chat with. With this method of guerrilla warfare, it is easy to find someone to really chat with and to meet more friends.

If it's a family-style banquet, it's inevitable to sit back and chat. At this time, you have an "obligation" to talk to the people on the left, right, and opposite sides, and not to snub anyone. Also, don't use up the conversation before the main course is served, lest everyone stare dryly after the dish is served.

A lady who knows the art of chatting very well.

She chatted with the lady she met for the first time, using the same set: "This necklace (or bracelet, ring) you are wearing is so beautiful, is it someone else's gift, or is it ......."Hardly without exception, the ladies she asked were more than happy to tell the story of getting the necklace.

Don't tell jokes that are "not funny". Telling a joke must depend on the occasion and the object, if you are not sure, just wait to hear the joke told by others.

Whether the conversation is interesting or not, it must be about people and things that everyone knows. If you're talking about someone you don't know, you're bound to be not interested.

Small talk: refers to chatting without a purpose, talking heartily, talking to each other, communicating with each other, and expressing some of your inner thoughts. It's not about talking about it for a purpose.

When you come home late, you have to sit idle. Communicate and relax!

Small talk is to chat casually, talk about some things or topics that parents are short and interested in, chat casually, there is no special definition of the topic, and you can talk about whatever you want.

The meaning of small talk is not to talk about some serious things, to talk about some trivial and inconsequential things in daily life, which is similar to the meaning of passing the time.

Shoot the breeze. Pinyin] xián liáo

Interpretation] small talk.

Example] Yang Mo "Song of Youth" Part 1 Chapter 6: "Yu Jingtang pinched a stack of letters and walked in with a chirp in his mouth. ”

Talk about whatever comes to mind, talk about things you like, things that are commonplace, as long as you don't think it's important, it's small talk.

It's the kind that you can talk about 24 hours a day, and you can talk about anything.

But it's not like you have to hold your phone for two hours a day to talk, it's to talk occasionally.

Regardless of work and rest time and working hours, people who chat casually!

Small talk can have two meanings, one is the app name of the software, and the other is to talk to others about the core, and the mold cover digging to pass the time. When people are chatting with you, it means that they are also very bored, at this time to give the other party due respect, instead of ignoring the content of his words, this is very impolite behavior.

Small talk is the icing on the cake, small talk is the lubricant, small talk is human affection, small talk is empty, small talk is a technique that makes people relax, and small talk is a technology to create an atmosphere.

According to the way of yin and yang: pragmatism is yang, retreat is yin; The surface is yin, and the inside is yang; The real is yang, and the void is yin.

It is known that small talk is a kind of retreat.

Communicating with people, at work or conveying important points, with substantive meaning, this kind of proportion is very small, but of course it is very important. However, if you only talk about the key points, how boring it is, you can't survive in this world. This is contrary to the 28 principle.

It is true that there is no substantive content, but it is not unnecessary, because people still have psychological needs, and small talk is to satisfy us, pave human nature, clear communication barriers and create a communication atmosphere. For example, a meaningful conversation is the beam of the house, and the space in the room is small talk. Hmmm, isn't creating a family atmosphere just about small talk.

If you can speak meaningful and focused words, it means that the foundation is good and the foundation is good; Being able to adapt to society and having a good social personality means that the skeleton is good and the house beams are good; And good communication skills, good ability to get along with people, politeness and etiquette, that is to say, the ability to build a house.

I work as an insurance consultant, and my daily job is definitely to be in constant contact with customers, so it is very important for me to talk to customers and friends, and to make them feel that it is interesting to talk to you, and to meet you constantly. So let me share some of the issues that I should pay attention to when chatting.

1. Consistency of heart and mouth. When chatting, you must pay attention to the words you say in line with your own thoughts, not make up nonsense, and whether there is a sincere communication, the other party can feel it. Because when you talk about how much time you have, your eyes will light up, and you will even dance with your hands; And the content of the nonsense is said to taste like chewing wax, and the other party can't empathize.

2. Respect each other and let them know that it is very important. 1.When chatting, look at each other's eyes, smile and nod after listening to the other person's point of view, express agreement or put forward your own ideas, but don't look at your phone yourself.

When there is a **call, you can tell the other party: I have someone important ** to take it. Then, complete a short communication as quickly as possible.

Of course, it's best to put your phone to silent. 2.Thank them from the bottom of your heart, let them know that you remember every bit they have helped you, and you are very grateful to them.

3. What should we do when we disagree? When we communicate with others, we don't want to win or lose, but to broaden our horizons and experiences through discussion. So listen to the other person's opinions, encourage them to share their own stories, and at the same time give the stage to them, the other party will feel.

If you have a good time chatting and are in a happy mood, then the communication will be much smoother, and there will be many opportunities to communicate again in the future. It's important to remember not to turn the conversation into a monologue or a long, boring story. Share your passion, but don't turn it into preaching.

Of course, chatting is also a skill, talk more and practice more, focus more on the other person, and slowly practice makes perfect.

Wen Qinghe. I just received a discussion on a topic and asked: Is there any point in small talk?

Positive: Yes. Oppose: No.

Do you want to talk about it? Does it matter?

Important, to say, must be said.

Small talk can relieve bad emotions and relieve your depression.

According to psychological statistics, women have about 20,000 words per day, and men have about 7,000 words.

Men have basically finished expressing their vocabulary for the day during work, so men do not nag and talk less.

And women need to express a lot, if they don't finish these words, they can't sleep, they have to talk to their husbands, they have to nag, and their husbands are very depressed when they listen.

And women have so many words, how to express them every day, most of the time is to talk and finish the words.

For example, when women chat together, they can talk about their own things, the key is that everyone is still chatting enthusiastically, they are talking about their children, husbands and families, and they do not follow each other, that is, the words of the chat partner, most of them are expressing themselves. After the expression, the chat is over, and they happily return to their homes, and the small talk between women is so magical, it is related to the mental health of this group, and it is also related to the harmony of a family.

To sum up, small talk is a must.